some more very helpfull advice for newbies

Quote by bygeorge
help for new posters

hope this is usefull I felt it offered some good advice also this site
Sexuality and the Net
with Emphasis on Cybersex: An Annotated Bibliography

good luck
bygeorge

FLAME WARS
If you think the fires in Kuwait were spectacular, you will love your first flamewar. Otherwise civilized people suddenly transform into cyber-commandoes: they grapple violently with each other's words, disembowel meanings, and verbally stomp their opponents with the gusto of an irate apartment dweller crushing a cockroach. And those are the nice flamewars.
Etiquette is a flamewar's first casualty. People rant and make rude remarks. Flamewars usually only end when flamers weakly crawl off, exhausted from hurling and dodging verbal Molotovs, and sobbing, "This is my last message. You will never hear from me again. Goodbye." Most times, these very same people return when another flamewar erupts to fight once again, and usually about the exact same things.
Hot Tips:
1. To help a flame die a fast death, simply ignore it. You can't have a screaming match if one of you refuses to scream.
2. Try to avoid stepping up to defend others. It may seem terribly unfair when someone targets your friend(s) but unless your friends incompetent, they can probably handle it themselves.
3. If you MUST flame: watch your language and don't slander anyone. Most moderators will delete messages that contain too much obscenity or which launch ad hominem attacks.

Quote by bygeorge
jeez another fine slag off from mr ATTITUDE from "oooop north"
I sincerely hope 4 newbies you are not a mentor ?
obviously you have nothing better to do than put my posts down
I am well aware of the mentor scheme and once again feel I only added some helpful and friendly information which Im sure could even help to take some load of the mentors
as it answers many basic questions
the post was actually supposed to have been a reply in the above post
re: (are you a newbie needing help)
I regrettably pressed the new topic button instead of the reply button (I m still learning)
Most human brains never stop learning or can never have too much information ----
with it seems the exception "yourself"
who appears to have an unlimited amount of unhelpful and unfriendly advice for all and sundry for whatever reason
do you really need to put down new posters RUDELY like this ?
it is hardly encouraging for me or NEWBIES
or is that the idea ?
one hopes that as you reach puberty your attiitude will change
bygeorge