Well, they say that you always hurt the people you love the most...
I can't offer up any excuses for my conduct; I wrote things I knew would hurt people and people were indeed hurt. (Yay me.) All I can do is offer my sincerest regrets and apologies for my actions, and I hope that, in time, maybe some of you will forgive me.
I want to apologise especially to Mark and the mods, because it's their forum I fouled in and they have better things to do than clean up after my tantrums. Also big thanks for unbanning my account so I can post this.
To Well_Busty_Babe, I'm so sorry for making so light of you and trivialising our former friendship. That goes to everyone here who has been so kind as to chat to me and joke with me, in PMs and in the Cafe, and has really made me feel part of the swinging-heaven community. I'm sorry wBB, Angel, nicestockygirl, Kit, Kat, Paul, John, Neil, Sarge, Dawn, Misschief, Wilma, Fred, Shireen,Helen and so many more.
My apologies also to Mal, who really did spend his own time trying to help me improve my writing style. He didn't have to do that and I appreciate his efforts.
My apologies to Judy, whom I misunderstood.
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Sex God
roger i just posted this once already, then deleted it straight away, rewrote it as a pm, then thought hell no, you deserve it in public. i may well delete it and pm it in a few minutes again FFS! ;-) aaaarrrggghhhhhhh we're all going fecking mad!!! 
but here's me reply anyways in it's original state!
roger don't bloody worry about it! ( tho i suspect you will! )
seems loads of us ( me included ) have got a bit oversensitive and gone a bit mental this last week. self examination and thinking about the reasons you're here isn't easy mate. that's my important discovery number 5, in case anyone was wondering!
i've deleted sooooo many posts this week, and asked for others to be locked, and i've suddenly become very concerned about how others see me on here. i thought at 35 i'd grown out of that! and i'm sure you've noticed i'm very much a fire-and-forget poster! :lol: post-munch comedown or swinging issues or what i dunno! but bugger me roger if you can't have a good row with ya mates, who can ya do it with!
if you think it's bad in here check the chatroom! :lol:
glad you reconsidered, i enjoy your posts immensely ( usually ;-) ) and you'd no doubt have got a lot more replies to your thread if it hadn't been locked. perhaps mal was just taking ya spade off ya mate! ;-)
cheers fella
neil
but here's me reply anyways in it's original state!roger don't bloody worry about it! ( tho i suspect you will! )
seems loads of us ( me included ) have got a bit oversensitive and gone a bit mental this last week. self examination and thinking about the reasons you're here isn't easy mate. that's my important discovery number 5, in case anyone was wondering!
i've deleted sooooo many posts this week, and asked for others to be locked, and i've suddenly become very concerned about how others see me on here. i thought at 35 i'd grown out of that! and i'm sure you've noticed i'm very much a fire-and-forget poster! :lol: post-munch comedown or swinging issues or what i dunno! but bugger me roger if you can't have a good row with ya mates, who can ya do it with!
if you think it's bad in here check the chatroom! :lol:
glad you reconsidered, i enjoy your posts immensely ( usually ;-) ) and you'd no doubt have got a lot more replies to your thread if it hadn't been locked. perhaps mal was just taking ya spade off ya mate! ;-)
cheers fella
neil
Roger
Its good to see you here but I wasnt like many people aware of any thread where you had been offensive. What I always rememeber is that I am here to have fun only and real life exists as much outside as it does in here. I think the site needs generally to lighten up again and we will all have fun so I want to see your funny arsey posts on here mate. You are a great person to have around so stop being sorry and get back in here and post some of your wit, p*ss taking and generally part of the crowd lines again.
:) :) :)
Its good to see you here but I wasnt like many people aware of any thread where you had been offensive. What I always rememeber is that I am here to have fun only and real life exists as much outside as it does in here. I think the site needs generally to lighten up again and we will all have fun so I want to see your funny arsey posts on here mate. You are a great person to have around so stop being sorry and get back in here and post some of your wit, p*ss taking and generally part of the crowd lines again.
:) :) :) 
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but bugger me roger ....
oooooooooooo Neil .... you learn something new about a person every day
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: i do hope you've discussed the ins n outs of this with roger first 
:wink: :lol: Lucy
missed you in the chat room Roger ..... get back in there :kiss:
Sex God
Good to have you back Roger! I confess that I was rather upset when I thought you were going to leave.
As others have said, we all have our tantrums from time to time. Don't let it worry you.
Now, can someone remind me who's it?
Will
As others have said, we all have our tantrums from time to time. Don't let it worry you.
Now, can someone remind me who's it?
Will
Sex God
There is no need to be. Simple as that. Just because things are written down doesn't mean people actually get that worked up about something.
You're a good guy with a wicked sense of humour and style. If you need a break from everything then just take one. Get yourself sorted and things (all lifes little problems) will be much clearer when you return.
I hope you are feeling better anyway. Have fun Roger and hope to hear from you again soon.
You're a good guy with a wicked sense of humour and style. If you need a break from everything then just take one. Get yourself sorted and things (all lifes little problems) will be much clearer when you return.
I hope you are feeling better anyway. Have fun Roger and hope to hear from you again soon.
Mod
Hi Roger
It was me that bounced you out and you became very painfully aware why.
I accept your apology in the spirit it was given. As you are now probably aware, this Site is full of people who freely offer support in whatever capacity they can and ask nothing in return - just bear that in mind next time you want to go off on one.
It's a fun site, so have fun
Mal
It was me that bounced you out and you became very painfully aware why.
I accept your apology in the spirit it was given. As you are now probably aware, this Site is full of people who freely offer support in whatever capacity they can and ask nothing in return - just bear that in mind next time you want to go off on one.
It's a fun site, so have fun
Mal
Maybe rog is suffering the summer blues...all the hot weather bringing out the crop topped women, who look and smell so nice, and you get feeling so down in yourself. been their mate, it is just the urge all fellas have.
Go ahead and throw a wobbly if you must, the soap box is always handy, but come on here to chat with friends, because we are!
Go ahead and throw a wobbly if you must, the soap box is always handy, but come on here to chat with friends, because we are!
Sex God
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To Well_Busty_Babe, I'm so sorry for making so light of you and trivialising our former friendship. That goes to everyone here who has been so kind as to chat to me and joke with me, in PMs and in the Cafe, and has really made me feel part of the swinging-heaven community. I'm sorry wBB, Angel, nicestockygirl, Kit, Kat, Paul, John, Neil, Sarge, Dawn, Misschief, Wilma, Fred, Shireen,Helen and so many more.
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chocoalate helps!
:wink: if ya can make up for all the ones that mal has taken away from me this week we can go back to normal!
seriously though rog... i was only upset that you were upset.. nothing else.
so come and give me a big hug.. and lets forget about it!
WBB
x
ERM................ Actually Roger and i had a chat by pm last night thanks. And what where you pooping back up??? Am confused!! 
Anyway, I apologised to Roger, but my views still stand, no matter who i'm talking to!! So spank me for having an opinion!!
Anyway, i put my foot in it more than most, as most of you will remember if you were here at Easter, lol!!!!
But just for the record.... SORRY ROGER BABE!!!!!!!
:worship: :kiss: :kiss: :kiss:
Anyway, I apologised to Roger, but my views still stand, no matter who i'm talking to!! So spank me for having an opinion!!
Anyway, i put my foot in it more than most, as most of you will remember if you were here at Easter, lol!!!!
But just for the record.... SORRY ROGER BABE!!!!!!!
:worship: :kiss: :kiss: :kiss: 
Sex God
Roger,
I think quite a lot of us sensed that you were not happy for a while before it actually happened. This is a very difficult medium to do anything constructive in such circumstances, without it being taken the wrong way.
All I can say is that, at the time I thought 'How out of character it all was' - which means I (we as well, I'm sure) think of you as the Roger we know and like.
Cheers,
T
And welcome back :!:
I think quite a lot of us sensed that you were not happy for a while before it actually happened. This is a very difficult medium to do anything constructive in such circumstances, without it being taken the wrong way.
All I can say is that, at the time I thought 'How out of character it all was' - which means I (we as well, I'm sure) think of you as the Roger we know and like.
Cheers,
T
And welcome back :!:
Roger, Roger, Roger.
As much as I hate the tedious 'I Quit' card, and the increasingly self-deprecating tone (women don't dig needy, although I realise this is bad timing for condescending advice), your writing is both intelligent and witty. So, come back, but please retain a healthy slice of your cynicism. For the sake of balance.
As much as I hate the tedious 'I Quit' card, and the increasingly self-deprecating tone (women don't dig needy, although I realise this is bad timing for condescending advice), your writing is both intelligent and witty. So, come back, but please retain a healthy slice of your cynicism. For the sake of balance.
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women don't dig needy
The thing I really want women to dig is my garden.
I, uh, just want to say a public thanks to everyone for being so understanding. What a great community.
The "I Quit" thing wasn't intended as a cry for attention; I really was quitting. After posting it, I experienced a period of euphoria that I'd never have to come here, never trawl through the photo ads and never fail to touch someone with three paragraphs ever again. This lasted for a good thirty seconds, before I realised with an incredible sinking feeling in my gut just how much I was gonna miss you guys.
Sex God
good man roger!
now crack on and get posting some more of your random burblings please.........
neil
now crack on and get posting some more of your random burblings please.........
neil
