sorry news

31 Jan 2005

hi all les here jane walked out on me and the kids last monday after 18 yrs for someone who pretended to be a dogger but was looking for love it was outof order i hope you all stiill accept me here as you are a good bunch and just because she left i am not a threat im not looking for love but just funn speak soon all the best les

31 Jan 2005

hey just wanted to offer my sympathy and if u need anyone to talk to im here ~hugs~

31 Jan 2005

Oh Les, so sorry to hear that :therethere:
Make sure you make time for yourself, to lick your wounds etc, use this little haven for an escape now and again. I really don't know what to say that would either help or make you feel better, but I do feel for you and what you're going through right now :therethere:
kiss

31 Jan 2005

sorry to hear that les, after 18 years sad

31 Jan 2005

thanks guys for your support yes it is hard but i will be strong for the kids and im not a threat to anyone just looking for adult fun not love thanks guys your a great bunch

31 Jan 2005

u sound so brave im really proud - keep up the good work!

31 Jan 2005

Les, I don't know you but I'm sure people around here do not think you are threat so put that right out of your mind.
I am really sorry to hear your news and believe me that is not false sympathy. Your news is significant for everybody on this site.
I do hope you work through this. Sounds like your kids have a real good dad.

31 Jan 2005

thanks guys for your support its more like dad has great kids hope to meet some of you soon my kids are my maine priorty now as mum sent a text today saying she doesnt want nothing more to do with them

31 Jan 2005

Quote by les_southwest
thanks guys for your support its more like dad has great kids hope to meet some of you soon my kids are my maine priorty now as mum sent a text today saying she doesnt want nothing more to do with them

Sorry Les,
I don't know you, but what's happening to you so awful...been there so I know bad it gets.
I have all fingers crossed for you and you children.
Take care of yourselves.
Netsuke

31 Jan 2005

you have my sympathy, i know just what you feel like. hope the kids will dull the pain a little for you

31 Jan 2005

:therethere: :therethere: For your children Les.
Been there, got the T-Shirt. :cry: :cry:
Look after them. wink

31 Jan 2005

Quote by les_southwest
thanks guys for your support its more like dad has great kids hope to meet some of you soon my kids are my maine priorty now as mum sent a text today saying she doesnt want nothing more to do with them

Sorry to hear your sad news Les
I dont know you, but from experience with children and "difficult tmes" they arevery resourceful.
They will help you thru it as much as you will help them.
I wont start on jane because I wouldn't stop.
best wishes to you and the kids

1 Feb 2005

what can i say you lot are amazing and on behalf of the kids a big thankyou very much it is appreciated xxx

1 Feb 2005

All i can add to this thread is talk to ur kids, my x left me after 16 years & started a new life with somone else, & nothing to do with the kids sad

I didnt talk to my kids enough because I thought i shouldnt & kept it all in
they were 14 & 15 at the time
I've fcuked up
I now live on my own :shock:
they r 16 & 18 now & i live alone :(

1 Feb 2005

hi lil gem thanks hunny myself and the kids are talking all the time sorry to hear your situation pity you went closer lol no seriously we will get there but im not being a hermit either im just after fun xx

1 Feb 2005

Good luck to u Hun biggrin

Hope u manage what I didnt xxxx
As for fun, I hope u find it :D Good luck babes wink

1 Feb 2005

thanks again licgem im sure we will get there i wont be ground down hopefully yes i feel sad but have a life as well so thanks for the kind words im sure the fun will come xx thanks babe

1 Feb 2005

Hi Les
Im a dogger les and let me tell you now i would never do that to anyone
my sympathy is with you and you children
Peace MrT

1 Feb 2005

well thanks mr t very kind you guys are amazing

1 Feb 2005

sorry to hear about ya news
keep your chin up its get easy as ya go along
take care of yourself and the kids

1 Feb 2005

thanks again guys qwe are fighters cant keep a good man down lol xx all the bes les