Hi, got a question or rather sekeing some advice, recently met a woman on line through another site.
She's very interestedin/turned on by being spanked/tied up and being restrained. Ive only been in a spanking scenario once. She also likes her nipples being pinched and pulled..........I believe also some women might like their pussy lips being pinched and pulled and clamps used on them
Any tips as to how I can ensure I give her the pleasure (and pain) she wants?
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Sounds to me that your best bet is to go to a BDSM club where dungeon facilities are available, if you really want to give this lady full pleasure. Unless you have a dungeon at home with the necessary furniture available. Expensive business setting up a dungeon on your own. This is really a specialised lifestyle and you need advice from those in the know.
Sex God
Practice on a cushion.
Google.
Search the site for those into BDSM and see if you find someone approachable for advice.
Potter into chatroom - the Beach Bar in Server 3 usually has some knowledgeable souls who I'm sure would be only too happy to have a chat with you about it.
Always listen to your partner.
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Google.
Search the site for those into BDSM and see if you find someone approachable for advice.
Potter into chatroom - the Beach Bar in Server 3 usually has some knowledgeable souls who I'm sure would be only too happy to have a chat with you about it.
Always listen to your partner.
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Ask her about her favourite scenario, things she thinks about and things that turn her on. Communication is your biggest tool........not that I have seen you undressed you understand :shock:
Then use common sense in turning some of these into reality.
Perhaps, if she is worried about being tied up, you could wrap a tether around her wrists and ankles but not actually secure them. Makes her feel safer and allows her you to secure them properly as she feels the trust grow.
Tie and tease is delicious.
As for the rest, well use your head. A womans body will give you clues as to whether she is enjoying it and, after all, you will be the ones there on the day.
Have fun and dont forget to giggle and enjoy it!
Mistress_39
Then use common sense in turning some of these into reality.
Perhaps, if she is worried about being tied up, you could wrap a tether around her wrists and ankles but not actually secure them. Makes her feel safer and allows her you to secure them properly as she feels the trust grow.
Tie and tease is delicious.
As for the rest, well use your head. A womans body will give you clues as to whether she is enjoying it and, after all, you will be the ones there on the day.
Have fun and dont forget to giggle and enjoy it!
Mistress_39
Someone pm me with the nearest Specsavers please! 
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