Squirting, Gushing

4 Jul 2007

Hello
My girlfriend has recently discovered (with some help from me, I hasten to add) that she can gush on cumming when she is on top of me.
It's not every time, and it's usually after she has cum through oral or other means. But if she is turned on, she can get on top of me and squirt a lot of warm liquid, which accompanies a deep and intense orgasm.
I love it, but she is a little ashamed, embarrassed by the whole affair.
The purpose of writing is to hear from other who enjoy this experience and hopefully allow her realise she is not alone.
Look forward to hearing what others (men and women) think
E & M

4 Jul 2007

Here's a link to a recent thread about squirting:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/88067.html?highlight=squirting,%20gushing

4 Jul 2007

I have never squirted but I of lots of woman who have and my fella have a threesome and he loved every minite of it lol it is not a big deal but i have what was it like for her?

4 Jul 2007

Hello Donna
She loves it! When she sqirts, her orgasm is really intense and deep. I think I feel it!
Tonight she said she felt she was going to squirt if she came, so slowed up and I encouraged her to go for it....So she did.
SHe loves the sensation, but as soon as she came, was saying "sorry" and wanted to go get a towel. I told her not to bother and held her, so she could enjoy.
I just want her not to worry and to enjoy the whole experience.
Hoprfuly yhis thread will help....and your comments too

4 Jul 2007

well glad she enjoyed it as long as its good she shouldn't be embarrassed sex is a wonderful thing so take every part of it even if it is a gush men do it all the time and there not bothered lol

4 Jul 2007

hi there mrs cheex loves when she squirts again she doesn't do it all the time but we both love it and wish she could do it more.
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5 Jul 2007

I gush but I can't squirt.............yet !
I'm having so much fun practicing though :twisted:

5 Jul 2007

Hiya E & M ... we have only just started enjoying mrs cuk's gushing/squirting in the past year and we've been together for 14! She was holding back for a long long time through the sort of embarrassment mentioned, but is now a lot more confident sexually and has learned to (really .... really) let go.
Strangely - or maybe not - we have to 'use' a very particular method for it to happen, where I pull up on her g-spot with one or two fingers whilst kneeling besides her - I know it sounds a bit clinical but it works for us biggrin

No amount of stimulation of the same area from other directions seems to work ... although she did meet with a fella off here recently who made her squirt but I didn't ask about his particular technique smile

when we first started swinging about AHEM years ago we met with a couple and she squirted whilst I had my face in her pussy, it was so copious that she almost knocked me over
:shock:
enjoy it xx

5 Jul 2007

Quote by cukman
Strangely - or maybe not - we have to 'use' a very particular method for it to happen, where I pull up on her g-spot with one or two fingers whilst kneeling besides her - I know it sounds a bit clinical but it works for us

:notes:

5 Jul 2007

Quote by Sassy-Seren

Strangely - or maybe not - we have to 'use' a very particular method for it to happen, where I pull up on her g-spot with one or two fingers whilst kneeling besides her - I know it sounds a bit clinical but it works for us

:notes:

text never works Sassy .... if you need a demonstration tho :wink:

5 Jul 2007

I was taking notes to use with Dai confused

5 Jul 2007

What ever your response to stimulation is, as long as its not hurting anyone I can't see the problem. If its giving pleasure and variety I am all for it.

DD lol

Erm I'm a gusher/squirter redface

5 Jul 2007

Quote by Sassy-Seren
I was taking notes to use with Dai

I will have to find an emoticons for "joke" methinks

5 Jul 2007

I gush when being fingered hard and on the 3 occassions i was fisted. Love it mmmmmmmmmmmm

5 Jul 2007

I can say i have never gushed once in my life my and my other half was chatting last night and read up on it some say when it first starts u feel like u need a pee thats when i stop but it says i should let go im not sure though i dont want to pee all over my other half is it true???? redface

5 Jul 2007

Quote by Dizzy_Donna
I can say i have never gushed once in my life my and my other half was chatting last night and read up on it some say when it first starts u feel like u need a pee thats when i stop but it says i should let go im not sure though i dont want to pee all over my other half is it true????

I can`t speak for everyone but yes it does feel a little bit like i need a wee! :shock: but I just go with it and am able to gush but haven`t been able to squirt as yet.

5 Jul 2007

Quote by lyns
I can say i have never gushed once in my life my and my other half was chatting last night and read up on it some say when it first starts u feel like u need a pee thats when i stop but it says i should let go im not sure though i dont want to pee all over my other half is it true????

I can`t speak for everyone but yes it does feel a little bit like i need a wee! :shock: but I just go with it and am able to gush but haven`t been able to squirt as yet.
If you go to the loo before you start and empty your bladder you can be sure its not wee you are passing.
No need to be embarrassed as its just another aspect of sex. Variety really is the spice of life lol
DD

5 Jul 2007

I always have towels ready when playing.
Finger stimulation - when done correctly - works but also sometimes penetrative sex too if the ... ummm ... this sounds really clinical! ... the penis "fits".
It used to be only when I was on top, but it can be achieved through a variety of positions now.
The more I can do it, the more I can do it - if that makes any sense! Literally, opening the flood-gates!

5 Jul 2007

gushing is nowt to be ashamed of.
general medical thinking these days is that the female G-Spot is the direct equivalent of the male prostate.
the male prostate is responsible, in large part, for male ejaculation.
therefore . . . no surprise if lady bits ejaculate as well? ;)
squirting seems a bit different from gushing, as far as the whys and wherefores go, but neither of them have anything to do with urination?

don't get hung up about it? it's just sex? confused

it's a rarity, but OMFG when it happens?! how good am i? :P lol

lucky buggers! ;) enjoy it! smile

;)
n x x x ;)

5 Jul 2007

Sorry have got to be clinical!!!!! Exactly where do you gush from - (please no one say vagina I had already worked that out) and what is the difference between gushing and squirting!! and is it controlable? I really want to do this but haven't as yet! Need to practice more me thinks!!! lol

6 Jul 2007

Hello
I am not realy sure where M squirts or gushes from.....I had not realised there was a difference.
Thanks for all the replies to our post. M feels a lot less frazzled by the experiences from reading your comments.
A couple of you have asked how we achieve it, it's always when M is on top and always after she's been stimulated with my fingers or tongue for a while beforehand. Usually she cums a couple of times this way then when she gets on top and we go at it quite hard, then that's when it happens.
Oh God, all this talking is making me very horny !
biggrin

E & M

6 Jul 2007

Strangely - or maybe not - we have to 'use' a very particular method for it to happen, where I pull up on her g-spot with one or two fingers whilst kneeling besides her - I know it sounds a bit clinical but it works for us biggrin

im with u on that one. a particular position can get me going 99% of the time. lol

6 Jul 2007

Dont worry about the gushing mate happens to me all the time i play with a very sexy woman...she loves it and gushes every time and i mean every time...only down side is the amount of towels we go through...just enjoy it .

6 Jul 2007

Quote by Peejay_2007
Sorry have got to be clinical!!!!! Exactly where do you gush from - (please no one say vagina I had already worked that out) and what is the difference between gushing and squirting!! and is it controlable? I really want to do this but haven't as yet! Need to practice more me thinks!!!

There's a half decent article about it
Apparently, female ejaculate is expelled from Skene's glands-pinhole sized openings located closed to the urethra. I believe this would be referred to as 'squirting'. The fluid is expelled in a sort of thin jet and no doubt this leads many women to believe they are urinating.
Personally I have never squirted, but I can gush quite easily redface

and I don't believe this comes from the Skene's glands (although I have never actually seen it happening!)I am pretty sure that gushing comes directly from the vaginal opening and the difference between this and squirting is self-explanatory, when gushing, the fluid simply gushes out :lol:
There is definitely a difference between the two, but I have yet to find an article that explains more about gushing, both effects seem to lumped under the one heading of female ejaculation confused

Dr Minx-Over and Out!

6 Jul 2007

I will look if there is anything on YouTube redface

7 Jul 2007

Quote by seasider
I will look if there is anything on YouTube

There shouldn't be anything pronographic or explicit on YouTube!!

7 Jul 2007

I reallt didn't think there was any difference between squirting and gushing - other than the volume of fluid produced.
Thanks for the info, Minxy, that's well worth looking into.
One thing I think about - is not where it comes from but is it actually stored in the body
It is not impossible for me to gush a huge amount over and over. Now surely, if i was to collect that confused

and measure it there would be loads but where is it kept? It can't be made at the time - it just wouldn't happen that quickly - it can take literally a couple of seconds of stimulation to produce a serious amount of fluid - over and over!
Why don't I lose weight from it? What of those non-gushers? Do they have excess liquid squishing about inside them? Do gushers have less cellulite? lol

I need to do some research!

7 Jul 2007

Quote by Marya_Northeast
One thing I think about - is not where it comes from but is it actually stored in the body
It is not impossible for me to gush a huge amount over and over. Now surely, if i was to collect that and measure it there would be loads but where is it kept? It can't be made at the time - it just wouldn't happen that quickly - it can take literally a couple of seconds of stimulation to produce a serious amount of fluid - over and over!

from wiki! - as per Bi welsh min'x link
The glands fill with fluid during sexual arousal and may be felt through the vaginal wall. The swelling of the tissue surrounding the urethra may be a combination of the glands filling with fluid and of the swelling of the woman’s erectile tissue, the corpus spongiosum, which latter, in the male, gives a man his erection. Swelling of the non-visible part of the clitoris will also be evident.
It is, it seems, the rhythmic contractions of pelvic muscle during orgasm which expel the accumulated fluid as at least one constituent of female ejaculation. The amount of fluid released can be considerable, through repeated filling and emptying of the glands during orgasm

Why don't I lose weight from it? What of those non-gushers? Do they have excess liquid squishing about inside them? Do gushers have less cellulite?

and again from same article:
Skene's gland openings are usually the size of pinholes, and vary in size from one woman to another, to the point where they appear to be missing entirely in some women. If Skene's glands are the cause of female ejaculation, this may explain the observed absence of this phenomenon in many women.
Retrograde ejaculation, where the fluid travels up the urethra towards the bladder could also possibly account for the absence otherwise observed
there is also another fairly interesting article here

it also explains the differences in fluid volume, although it doesnt mention anything about losing weight or cellulite! :lol:

7 Jul 2007

Wow! thankyou very much! cool