Starting to get a little disheartened with the photo ades se

12 May 2005

I must of email at least 10 recent adverts in the photo adds section, both woman seeking men and couples seeking men. I always attach a pic of what they ask for, i,e face only, full body etc. I am always polite and say look forward to hearing from you etc etc and how many replies have I had?? Not 1!!
Had anyone ever got a reply? I wouldnt say I'm ugly!
What am I doing wrong :cry:

12 May 2005

Ah bless JJ :therethere:
I think it takes alot of time and patience, hang around the cafe and talk to the people that you find interesting, maybe you will have more luck this way. smile

MrFC always replied to the replies we got for our ad as it is only fair from out point of view if someone has been kind enough to reply then we should do the same.

12 May 2005

I think it's also worth bearing in mind that whilst I'm sure you're not unattractive, everyone has their own tastes and may be looking for something else. I find it really frustrating too that no one seems interested but we'll just have to sit tight and wait. Good luck.

12 May 2005

Thanks for the feedback guys, but even if they werent intrested I would of thought I might of got a few "thanks for your email but am not intrested" type emails! Ah well will try a little more!

12 May 2005

Quote by JJPASSION
Thanks for the feedback guys, but even if they werent intrested I would of thought I might of got a few "thanks for your email but am not intrested" type emails! Ah well will try a little more!

Yes ,its nice to e-mail back with a "thanks but no thanks" but there are sometimes reasons they don't,firstly it gives your e-mail address when you reply some people may not want that out just in case you are offended by them saying no!...secondly what if they have had hundreds of e-mails its possible you get lost in it 't be put off it does work you just have to keep at it!

12 May 2005

all i can say is keep trying
and dont let it get you down
thanks jo x smile

12 May 2005

have you ever been on the end of a deluge of emails from single fellas ? , we have....... and its not funny ,
I know it's off the subject a little. I don't have an ad, and my signiture clearly states that I am a bi fem looking for couples and other bi fems, but get 10 or so unsolicited PM's a day from single males saying anything from do you want to meet for a drink to fancy a fuck!!!