Im happy about my weight it fluctuates from time to time but im normally happy with it. I decide whether i've put on too much weight, and how i decide is when I cant perform as well as i would normally perform at a certain weight. I love my sports and my fitness and I would say that largely determines what weight i work around at. i think we should decide how we feel about our weight and body shape and i think our overall health and our daily lives should determine that, not anyone else.....but i suppose its easier said then done.
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Stick insects slagging off the big beautiful people?
Quote by kentswingers777
For the last time, for those who didn't gettit the "stick insect" comment was aimed at skinny blokes and women who slag off us fatties. I did mention my preference for women with a bit more meat on em but that is strictly preference. Indeed the fashion still appears to be for thin women, I read Kate Moss's comments in yesterdays press.
As for the possibility of my posting links to offending posts? Wouldn't that look like personal attacks on the OP's? But I can assure you hat the word "obese" is just as offensive to us fatties as "stick insect" is to those who mght be somewhat underweight. Also worth pointing out is that being too underweight is just as dangerous as being too fat.
Peace!
but your a fatty slagging off stick insects...your no better!
So when a fatty has a preference for fatties,that considered a preference...when a stick insect has a preference for a stick insect thats considered rude towards fatties?
That is a little contrary is it not Powers? I have no problem with preferences. I am just a little tired of seeing the word obese on so many subject lines. In all honesty I only started noticing when Brucie came here with his fake photo and started stating those of us who are not so perfect, especially if overweight.
I'm merely striking a blow for fat blokes everywhere, I started this, I refuse to hide and I can't run anyway. How long this thread continues I'll leave to others now. I hear a pork pie calling from the kitchen!
How do you know the pic was fake? but even if he had not made those comments about fat people,some people would still have resented him because of his looks and would probably have got all defensive about their looks and size...skinny people are not perfect with their remarks about fat people...but neither are fat people with their remarks about skinny wife and i have been to clubs and seen enough fat people act just as superior as some skinny people do!
Disclaimer...in no way shape or form am i coming to the defence of Brucies comments...him and Kent are the last two people i would ever want to get stuck in a lift with...
Get over yaself Powers fgs. :twisted:
One day instead of just saying derogatory comments, YOU may well start a thread yourself that is of interest?
For fuck sake Kent...had a sense of humour bypass?
Quote by whiplash
as someone who falls into the catagory of a stick insect (as you so nicely call me) i think i am within my rights to be offended but i'm not i really couldn't give two hoots!
I'm 7 stone 2 n all my life i've tried to put on weight, i've put up with derogatory comments from school friends, work friends, family even the gp who's comment was 'oooo loads of women would love to be like you' would they? no actually i dont think they would if they actually thought about it.
its not nice to be called stick insect or snappy or have comments like hey watch you dont fall down that drain or dont stand behind that lampost we wont find you again.
if you want me to be perfectly honest i wish i was overweight cuz at least then i'd be able to do something about it, lose weight, join weight watchers slimming world, & various other organisations to get help but because i'm naturally thin i get nothing.
to me over weight people have a choice be fat, stay fat or lose weight, what choice do i have?
But some people that are overweight do not have a choice. I spent 8 years wondering why my size went from size 8 to 22 then back to 12 then up to 22 again. I eat a normal diet, didnt drink, exercised. Then just by chance when I was pregnant I found out I had a medical condition an underactive Thyroid Gland and once I was put on tablets my size has now dropped down to size 14 and has stayed this way for a year now. I am happy with my size now.
I can see it from the other size through so I am not having a pop at anyone as my cousin is size 4, and she eats as little as possible. She exercises way too much and has been know in the past to make herself sick. She always looks ill and has been unable to have children because of her weight issue. And yet she still claims shes fat.
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i really wanna post in support of BG but i do agree that there shouldn't b name calling wether fat or thin but i do wish to defend him all the same some days on here it can feel like digs are being made wether its just feeling a bit self concious of our size and feeling that we should stick up for ourselves i don't know but i do feel sure BG did it with the best intentions just not thinking through the consequenses of his comment i'm sure
big wobbly hugs BG
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Hey thanks for the hugs hon, I know I could have been a little more polite in the way I have posted this thread. I was on the defensive because of threads in here and because someone in chat said I was too fat. One day I might swing round your way and return all those lovely hugs n kisses!!
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