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Stop Cam Stelth?

Can you not see the main bug bear is the removal of choice for those people who choose not to pay extra and "go stealth" from who is and who is not seeing the cam without having to go through the arduous task of hand selecting people for a private room cam thing? rolleyes
I've been in the rooms when people I've known on the forums or socially have been camming. I know that they prefer people they know not to watch them, so out of respect I don't click their cam unless invited to.
Not everyone holds this same ethos and I do agree with one point you made about removing the camming all together. I do feel while it is a good source of fun and laughs quite a double standard to ban all adult photos on the forums but cammers can do pretty much whatever they want. dunno
Any system is open to abuse but admin have to be careful not to encourage this abuse to happen in a way where creeping around is deemed normal. If its that normal, why not get rid of the eye symbol collectively, why do you have to pay to have this "feature"?
When Ops are in the rooms, they are already in 'stealth' mode - nobody can tell which cam they are watching. If it was such a big deal, why hasn't anyone kicked off about that?
If Admin decided to include in the 'Extras' option, the ability to 'block' viewers, how many would pay for that?
Bearing in mind how many people actually use chat, although this is quite a vociferous thread, not many have either voted for or against, compared with the total number of actual users.
I have no feelings one way or another on this, just see it going round in circles.
Mal wink
Quote by Jas-Tim
St3v3's response in the other thread was that admin thought it sounded good as an option, although it doesn't really offer much of an additional service. rolleyes
He also says that everyone in the room is listed and viewable.
So for members camming, rather than waiting for the eye icon to display before you shut your camera down because you don't want that person watching, you will have to turn your camera off as soon as you see them listed in the room with the extra logo by their name as that identifies them as having the ability to watch you without the eye icon.
If they don't have the extra logo identifying them as someone who has paid the extra then they can't watch your cam without the eye icon coming up, at which point you would turn the cam off
So I understand that to mean you can identify anyone who has stealth ability very easily thus giving you the option to turn your cam off immediately on their entry to the room you are camming in.
So as well as looking for unwanted eye icons you also have to look for unwanted extra logos, is that really such a huge additional chore?
That's a genuine question by the way as I rarely go into chat and don't cam, but if looking for an additional icon is the most inconvience that it puts non upgraded members to, then I can't see admin scrapping a paid for service on that basis alone.
Jas
XXX

Jas kiss
It is a huge chore ............ if you are on dial up the rooms are slow anyway ........ sometimes I cant scroll down the list to see who is in ............... if you are in a room with 70 people .......... it takes forever ............ new entries to the room do not appear in any order ......... the list of names is not in an alphabetical order ........... you cant view all 70 names on the same screen............It doesnt flag when someone new enters ........... so you would constantly be going up and down the list to see who is new and working out if they can do the stealth thingy .
All you have to do at the moment is look for the eyes and read the nick !!
Hope that explains why some of us think its not a good thing :kiss:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Quote by blonde
All you have to do at the moment is look for the eyes and read the nick !!

But all you have to do with the Extra users, is look for a tick! If you dont know them, turn off the cam.
Not aimed at Blonde, just general observation!
Im sorry but I really cant see the problem with it all. We didnt have cams before December and half of the people in chat complained when cams were allowed, but before long people thought they were brilliant and were spending loads of time in chat camming each other. Soon got used to using the thing they disliked so much when it was introduced. confused
Now something new has been introduced and again, people are complaining about it, saying its wrong, shouldnt be allowed, just the same as they did when the new chat room and cam system went on line back in December.
And dont say this is different, it is no different what so ever! If there are 70 people in a room I very much doubt that anyone knows all 70. Ok so they look for the eye, but all they need to do is look for a tick! If they dont know the person, turn off the cam!
Quote by blonde
St3v3's response in the other thread was that admin thought it sounded good as an option, although it doesn't really offer much of an additional service. rolleyes
He also says that everyone in the room is listed and viewable.
So for members camming, rather than waiting for the eye icon to display before you shut your camera down because you don't want that person watching, you will have to turn your camera off as soon as you see them listed in the room with the extra logo by their name as that identifies them as having the ability to watch you without the eye icon.
If they don't have the extra logo identifying them as someone who has paid the extra then they can't watch your cam without the eye icon coming up, at which point you would turn the cam off
So I understand that to mean you can identify anyone who has stealth ability very easily thus giving you the option to turn your cam off immediately on their entry to the room you are camming in.
So as well as looking for unwanted eye icons you also have to look for unwanted extra logos, is that really such a huge additional chore?
That's a genuine question by the way as I rarely go into chat and don't cam, but if looking for an additional icon is the most inconvience that it puts non upgraded members to, then I can't see admin scrapping a paid for service on that basis alone.
Jas
XXX

Jas kiss
It is a huge chore ............ if you are on dial up the rooms are slow anyway ........ sometimes I cant scroll down the list to see who is in ............... if you are in a room with 70 people .......... it takes forever ............ new entries to the room do not appear in any order ......... the list of names is not in an alphabetical order ........... you cant view all 70 names on the same screen............It doesnt flag when someone new enters ........... so you would constantly be going up and down the list to see who is new and working out if they can do the stealth thingy .
All you have to do at the moment is look for the eyes and read the nick !!
Hope that explains why some of us think its not a good thing :kiss:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Does it not take just as long to scroll up and down 70 names to look for the eye symbol?
dunno
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Im sorry but I really cant see the problem with it all. We didnt have cams before December and half of the people in chat complained when cams were allowed, but before long people thought they were brilliant and were spending loads of time in chat camming each other. Soon got used to using the thing they disliked so much when it was introduced. confused
Now something new has been introduced and again, people are complaining about it, saying its wrong, shouldnt be allowed, just the same as they did when the new chat room and cam system went on line back in December.
And dont say this is different, it is no different what so ever! If there are 70 people in a room I very much doubt that anyone knows all 70. Ok so they look for the eye, but all they need to do is look for a tick! If they dont know the person, turn off the cam!

NWC if there is nothing special about being able to watch cams in stealth mode, why can you buy it dunno
Why can a paid member buy the ability to watch cams in private and remove the option of knowing who is watching them from a free member :dunno:
Quote by Dawn_Mids
Why can a paid member buy the ability to watch cams in private and remove the option of knowing who is watching them from a free member dunno

Why do Op's need to be able to do it? - Honestly, I am curious about that one.
Quote by PoloLady

Why can a paid member buy the ability to watch cams in private and remove the option of knowing who is watching them from a free member dunno

Why do Op's need to be able to do it? - Honestly, I am curious about that one.
PL that is because we had reports on people using illegal substances on cam, it is fairly obvious that if we are showing as watching people are going to stop what they are doing.
As it happens, we have caught many people doing things that break the AUPs.
If I am watching a cam for any other reason than that, I would tell you by shouts of "look at the baps on that" :lol2:
Quote by little gem
Can you not see the main bug bear is the removal of choice for those people who choose not to pay extra and "go stealth" from who is and who is not seeing the cam without having to go through the arduous task of hand selecting people for a private room cam thing? rolleyes

Honestly.... no, I just don't get it.
I see people either getting wound up by the removal of a 'choice' they never really had in the first place or getting wound up by a choice they still have.
If people want to retain control over who is watching them - the only answer is to use a private room. However, the reasons being given why this is not a suitable option are in fact a demonstration that they have no idea who is watching them anyway.
Quote by PoloLady
St3v3's response in the other thread was that admin thought it sounded good as an option, although it doesn't really offer much of an additional service. rolleyes
He also says that everyone in the room is listed and viewable.
So for members camming, rather than waiting for the eye icon to display before you shut your camera down because you don't want that person watching, you will have to turn your camera off as soon as you see them listed in the room with the extra logo by their name as that identifies them as having the ability to watch you without the eye icon.
If they don't have the extra logo identifying them as someone who has paid the extra then they can't watch your cam without the eye icon coming up, at which point you would turn the cam off
So I understand that to mean you can identify anyone who has stealth ability very easily thus giving you the option to turn your cam off immediately on their entry to the room you are camming in.
So as well as looking for unwanted eye icons you also have to look for unwanted extra logos, is that really such a huge additional chore?
That's a genuine question by the way as I rarely go into chat and don't cam, but if looking for an additional icon is the most inconvience that it puts non upgraded members to, then I can't see admin scrapping a paid for service on that basis alone.
Jas
XXX

Jas kiss
It is a huge chore ............ if you are on dial up the rooms are slow anyway ........ sometimes I cant scroll down the list to see who is in ............... if you are in a room with 70 people .......... it takes forever ............ new entries to the room do not appear in any order ......... the list of names is not in an alphabetical order ........... you cant view all 70 names on the same screen............It doesnt flag when someone new enters ........... so you would constantly be going up and down the list to see who is new and working out if they can do the stealth thingy .
All you have to do at the moment is look for the eyes and read the nick !!
Hope that explains why some of us think its not a good thing :kiss:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Does it not take just as long to scroll up and down 70 names to look for the eye symbol?
dunno
Yes Polo it does !
But an eye means they are watching me .............. a Tick means they are in Stealth mode and could be watching anyone !
In my humble opinion its about honesty ........... why would anyone want to hide the fact that they are watching someones Cam ?
I just find the whole thing creepy ......... not because I show ........ coz the only thing you will ever see on my cam is from the shoulders up !!
But I dont object to anyone who does show .......... I just think we all have the right to know who is watching.
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Quote by Pushed
The New Cam Stealth Feature goes against my morals. I think it should be removed. Does anyone agree.?

YES, definitely a bit creepy. I don't cam personally, but if I did I would want to know who was watching.
Bazza
Quote by Dawn_Mids

Why can a paid member buy the ability to watch cams in private and remove the option of knowing who is watching them from a free member dunno

Why do Op's need to be able to do it? - Honestly, I am curious about that one.
PL that is because we had reports on people using illegal substances on cam, it is fairly obvious that if we are showing as watching people are going to stop what they are doing.
As it happens, we have caught many people doing things that break the AUPs.
If I am watching a cam for any other reason than that, I would tell you by shouts of "look at the baps on that" :lol2:
Please don't take this the wrong way Dawn, I have no doubt most would not abuse the ability - but having a purple username does not instantly a saint make.
Quote by PoloLady
Please don't take this the wrong way Dawn, I have no doubt most would not abuse the ability - but having a purple username does not instantly a saint make.

Maybe not PL but I explained why OPs have the facility and believe me when I say we have caught many out with it.
I happen to chat and cam fairly often under another name so do not always have the facility anyway rolleyes
yup
Quote by PoloLady

Why can a paid member buy the ability to watch cams in private and remove the option of knowing who is watching them from a free member dunno

Why do Op's need to be able to do it? - Honestly, I am curious about that one.
PL that is because we had reports on people using illegal substances on cam, it is fairly obvious that if we are showing as watching people are going to stop what they are doing.
As it happens, we have caught many people doing things that break the AUPs.
If I am watching a cam for any other reason than that, I would tell you by shouts of "look at the baps on that" :lol2:
Please don't take this the wrong way Dawn, I have no doubt most would not abuse the ability - but having a purple username does not instantly a saint make.
Too right Polo
I work hard at being a sinner :twisted: :twisted:
Quote by the_Laird
Too right Polo
I work hard at being a sinner :twisted: :twisted:

You can sin in my direction anytime handsome! ;) :rascal:
redface hijacking.... eeek bolt
Quote by blonde
In my humble opinion its about honesty ........... why would anyone want to hide the fact that they are watching someones Cam ?

Someone else mentioned this one - but I saw the point of it this afternoon....
I went into a chatroom earlier today where there were a few folks who had cams on. I am a woman and therefore nosey by nature. I click on a cam - I rarely watch people beyond a quick glimps (and if it is some guy wanking I click the fuck off of it at lightening speed - ferkin' wankers!). However, the fact that I have took a peak at the persons cam seems to make them think they then have the right to start whispering and keep bloody whispering and whisper some more and send PM's and a winks.
At this point I had to leave the chatroom before I ended up just telling the twats to 'fluck off' and found myself thinking "now there is a time stealth would be useful". Not because I am some creepy perv stalker, but just to avoid the hassel - especially when you take a look at someone on cam and they turn out to be a right minger! lol
Quote by little gem

Too right Polo
I work hard at being a sinner :twisted: :twisted:

You can sin in my direction anytime handsome! ;) :rascal:
redface hijacking.... eeek bolt
Now, you can hijack me anytime Gem
and dont you know it wink
Quote by PoloLady
Can you not see the main bug bear is the removal of choice for those people who choose not to pay extra and "go stealth" from who is and who is not seeing the cam without having to go through the arduous task of hand selecting people for a private room cam thing? rolleyes

Honestly.... no, I just don't get it.
I see people either getting wound up by the removal of a 'choice' they never really had in the first place or getting wound up by a choice they still have.
If people want to retain control over who is watching them - the only answer is to use a private room. However, the reasons being given why this is not a suitable option are in fact a demonstration that they have no idea who is watching them anyway.
Still with you, Polo Lady.
Isn't everyone getting a little anal about camming ?
If you are so scared of catching something by being watched by bi men or can't handle the thought of someone above the age of thirty watching you then why swing in the first place? confused
Dare we suggest two words? 'Homophobic' and 'Ageist' :shock:
rolleyes confused
Quote by flidais-media
Dare we suggest two words? 'Homophobic' and 'Ageist' :shock:

One more word and we can envoke goodwins law and lock this shite before we delve even deeper. Personal choice folks, not that hard a concept to understand is it? :roll:
Well ..............................
It is becoming a little circular now.
btw - Was
Hitler homophobic and ageist ???
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btw - Was Hitler homophobic and ageist ???

He was everything else so why not LOL
C x
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btw - Was Hitler homophobic and ageist ???

He was everything else so why not LOL
C x
WHO said that??
:shock: :shock: :shock:
You know what happens now??
bolt
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You know what happens now??
bolt

I wish.
But - is there anything else really to be said ?
Quote by dambuster

You know what happens now??
bolt

I wish.
But - is there anything else really to be said ?
Some people hate it
Some people don't mind it
Some people don't have an opinion either way
Some people are being rude
Some people are being friendly
Some people are hijacking the thread
Some people are fed up to the back teeth with the bickering
How am I doing??
confused
Hello Jags :bounce:
Pretty much covered it! biggrin
The only thing left to do now is ..............
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How am I doing??
confused

That pretty much sums it up.
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