Can you not see the main bug bear is the removal of choice for those people who choose not to pay extra and "go stealth" from who is and who is not seeing the cam without having to go through the arduous task of hand selecting people for a private room cam thing?
I've been in the rooms when people I've known on the forums or socially have been camming. I know that they prefer people they know not to watch them, so out of respect I don't click their cam unless invited to.
Not everyone holds this same ethos and I do agree with one point you made about removing the camming all together. I do feel while it is a good source of fun and laughs quite a double standard to ban all adult photos on the forums but cammers can do pretty much whatever they want.
Any system is open to abuse but admin have to be careful not to encourage this abuse to happen in a way where creeping around is deemed normal. If its that normal, why not get rid of the eye symbol collectively, why do you have to pay to have this "feature"?