''Straight'' men that suck cock...

23 Mar 2009

The thread title I've used has been the same as one of the rooms in Chat on and off now for a few weeks and the name has caused lots of debate and discussion so.. I thought I'd bring it here biggrin

Can men that 'suck cock' be 'straight'? Can men that let blokes suck their cock be 'straight'? Will some 'straight' men let it happen in the heat of the moment when there's female involvement? Do t-girls count? Do gloryholes mean it doesn't matter who's on the other side? dunno

Now I'm playing mmf again I'm genuinely stunned by the amount of guys that will play when there's female involvement - it's like the rule book gets completely re-written :shock: A good friend of mine said 'straight men that come here get curious, gay men that come here just get devious' :rascal: I hope I'm not being devious but I know for a fact that since playing/clubbing/Dogging with sexy female pals life has become.. well let's say much more fun wink

Mind you, I thought there was no such thing as bi men until I joined here. I thought bi blokes were just gay blokes that couldn't come to terms with it confused

Silly me.
I also have a VERY sexy and convincing t-girl friend and that's like a whole new arena for debate. Looks female, smells good, sounds good and some of the 'straight' guys 'she' has landed are truly wonderful specimens of alpha males.
I ain't posting this so it can become a testosterone and bicep flexing type of debate, more to see what people's views are and how many guys will be honest. After all, we're all adults in an adult community but there still seems to be some around bi blokes over bi females, well I think so lol

I like the term 'situationally bi' - it seems to work for me... but what are your thoughts, experiences, fantasies? :P
BIoke x

23 Mar 2009

I have done the 'bi-thing' and probably would again, though it is not an important thing for me. I don't consider it part of 'what I am', and wouldn't miss it if it never happened again. I have no particular desire for the bi-sexual act, as it were.
However, whener it has happened, planned or otherwise, it has been as you state above BIoke, with female involvement.
I would like to consider myself fairly broadminded, and open to suggestion ... not one for many hard and fast rules, so if a happy combination of people, circumstance and mood should all come together, well...
but I'm straight! Alright! Got that??!!
lp

23 Mar 2009

We would term it "bi comfy"
Can be very rauchy and a big turn on for all concerned in a good MMF wink

P.s Mike says I have to add that straight men can jump, and suck cock, but not necessarilly at the same time!

23 Mar 2009

{------- awaits nicewheels reply on the subject
bolt

fil :grin:
sorry m8 but folk will think am goin fuckin soft lol

23 Mar 2009

Oooh great thread sir!
Well, "situationally bi" just about covers me I reckon :rascal: so I see no reason why it can't be an equally applied and gender neutral term!
I know quite a few blokes who enjoy being "orally bi" (their terminology) and some who will also fuck if it's a Tgirl or TV.
Strange, I find, the difference a dress and wig make. I mean that with the greatest respect - I used to spend a fair bit of time in the TV chatroom in here and go out with various Tgirl/TV mates. I don't know if it's the lack of stubble that does it, in those cases...
My experiences tell me that sexuality is a continuum and we are all somewhere on it - and sometimes, in different situations, that place varies.
Hmmm... I'm going to ponder some more and come back to this!
Nola x

23 Mar 2009

Quote by flower411
Somebody mentioned it before
Hope you get a better response
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/291994.html

Ah, I didn't see that, ta very much! We'll see :P

Quote by lilnfil
{------- awaits nicewheels reply on the subject

fil :grin:
sorry m8 but folk will think am goin fuckin soft :lol:

He he - it was partly my bantering with him on Saturday night in Chat after the Munch that made me think about posting.
Make sure you point the thread out to him :rascal:

23 Mar 2009

it just gets worse - everywhere i turn!!!! omg
Post subject:
Posted: Mon Mar 23, 2009 10:09 pm
lilnfil wrote:
.......the odd straight guy that likes to suck cock........btw did you get home ok nicewheels
lilnfil xxx
lilnfil wrote:
Nicewheels wrote:
grrrrrrrrrrrrr
dont u start alan !!!!!!!
gonna kill fil when i next see him down the gay sauna or out cottaging lol
i would like to publicly apologise for the very immature way i have edited nicewheels quote above.
to my knowledge he is not bi and never has been
this is just a personal joke that i foolishly posted in the open forums
plz accept my sincere apologises nicewheels
fil the tit
does this mean you'll let me shag you now
_________________
lil's favourite quote "i don't believe in sexual discrimination..........."
we don't post very often because we are a shy and quiet couple
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Fil seems to be fixated with me !!! he clearly has dreams that, one day, i too will become 'BI-COMFY'
sadly for him, this will never be the case
but good luck and have fun to those who are!!!!
Nicey

23 Mar 2009

Quote by Nicewheels
Fil seems to be fixated with me !!! he clearly has dreams that, one day, i too will become 'BI-COMFY'
sadly for him, this will never be the case
but good luck and have fun to those who are!!!!
Nicey

That's NOT what you said to me in front of the fire the other night while you were feeding me chocolate covered cherries and calling me 'babe'!

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

23 Mar 2009

Quote by BIoke

Fil seems to be fixated with me !!! he clearly has dreams that, one day, i too will become 'BI-COMFY'
sadly for him, this will never be the case
but good luck and have fun to those who are!!!!
Nicey

That's NOT what you said to me in front of the fire the other night while you were feeding me chocolate covered cherries and calling me 'babe'!

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
ffs now i'm jealous.........really jealous :upset:

23 Mar 2009

Fil maybe its because you haven't had the arsehole bleaching to make it look prettier rolleyes

23 Mar 2009

Quote by Kez_n_ste
Fil maybe its because you haven't had the arsehole bleaching to make it look prettier

you mean nicey has :shock:

23 Mar 2009

Hey I aint seen niceys ass (& dont feel the need to change that!) but just thought he might prefer the tendered & Coiffured look Fil wink

Kez

24 Mar 2009

worlass and I had loads of replies to an advert for two bi-men. Most of the respondents were 'straight' but enjoyed sucking men off and giving anal. They insisted that giving meant they were still straight.
I class myself as a lesbian to the straight people that I work with. Queer to all my friends (who are mainly gay) and bi to swingers (it is easier) My sexuality is my own definition and is only relevant to those that I have sex with really and I am honest and open with those people.
I couldn't care less what people class themselves as the only definition that matters is for those that I want to fuck is whether they will fuck me or whether they won't.
It is never surprising how flexible men are when I am setting up a meet with worlass and I tho' (they don't even need to see face pictures rolleyes

)

24 Mar 2009

Quote by Lucyandmike7
We would term it "bi comfy"
...!

i like that term. I have never been able to find a term that fits, that almost does.

24 Mar 2009

I love bi guys and am friends with guys that are really bi, by which they mean they suck/fuck and are sucked/fucked ... But I also know guys that outside the swinging world are straight but for the purposes of fun call themselves 'bi playful' or 'bi cooperative' meaning they dont 121 with a guy but should the situations present it self in a three or more sum have been known to join in or allowed another guy to play with them.
Personally I think my world would be a lot easier and happier if everyone was bi biggrin

24 Mar 2009

Quote by
We would term it "bi comfy"
...!

i like that term. I have never been able to find a term that fits, that almost does.
It justs fits Travis!
A little bit of touching and sucking within a MMF but nothing more, and when we are all in full flow, its amazingly horny!
Mike is so straight though.

26 Mar 2009

Quote by Lucyandmike7
We would term it "bi comfy"
...!

i like that term. I have never been able to find a term that fits, that almost does.
It justs fits Travis!
A little bit of touching and sucking within a MMF but nothing more, and when we are all in full flow, its amazingly horny!
Mike is so straight than bendy bi?

26 Mar 2009

Quote by noladreams
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My experiences tell me that sexuality is a continuum and we are all somewhere on it - and sometimes, in different situations, that place varies........

:thumbup:
This was exactly the same point I was going to make. I have always though that at any one time, there are those that are very homosexually biased and those that are very heterosexually biased and everyone is somewhere on that spectrum. I think that most feel that their sexuality is fixed and that they identify with one end of the spectrum more than the other, but given changes in time/situation/opportunity etc then this can become challenged and alter. Some people don't change their sexual "situations" and remain happy with their choice and some don't but don't or feel that they can't do anything about it. Given the nature of swinging and the type of people that the lifestyle attracts, there's far more scope for new situations and chances to rethink, challenge and re-invent yourself.

Quote by splendid_
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My sexuality is my own definition ............

I like this phrase. biggrin

As for me, at this juncture I think of myself as hetro. I have toyed with the bi idea, but after a few thoughts about the "logistics" of "straying to the dark side" as one friend put it :D I don't feel that it's for me. However, who knows what lies in my future and why should I limit who I could become, o what I may enjoy by sticking a big label on myself and sitting in a pigeon hole? :D

26 Mar 2009

Quote by easy
However, who knows what lies in my future and why should I limit who I could become, o what I may enjoy by sticking a big label on myself and sitting in a pigeon hole?

Throws hat into the ring, ties PK up with gaffa tape and bundles her into the cupboard under the stairs without a word to anyone :rascal:
wink

26 Mar 2009

Quote by BIoke
However, who knows what lies in my future and why should I limit who I could become, o what I may enjoy by sticking a big label on myself and sitting in a pigeon hole?

Throws hat into the ring, ties PK up with gaffa tape and bundles her into the cupboard under the stairs without a word to anyone :rascal:
wink

Gets camera out :rascal:
What!?! dunno

I can take pics one handed :rascal:

26 Mar 2009

I see what you did there bloke......... rolleyes

26 Mar 2009

Quote by markz
I see what you did there bloke.........

I'm glad you did because I haven't got a clue! confused

:P

26 Mar 2009

Quote by BIoke
I see what you did there bloke.........

I'm glad you did because I haven't got a clue! confused

:P
I'd call it market research...... :roll:

26 Mar 2009

Quote by BIoke
Throws hat into the ring, ties PK up with gaffa tape and bundles her into the cupboard under the stairs without a word to anyone :rascal:

hmmm that sounds quite fun....:rascal:

26 Mar 2009

Quote by poshkate

Throws hat into the ring, ties PK up with gaffa tape and bundles her into the cupboard under the stairs without a word to anyone :rascal:

hmmm that sounds quite fun....:rascal:
I was here first- you can sit on my lap if ya like- but only if you don't have a bony bum. We could be here some time. confused

27 Mar 2009

OOoo, this is like Sardines - ain't played that in years? Who's hand is that?? :shock: lol

29 Mar 2009

Quote by BIoke
Who's hand is that?? :shock:

That reminds of a story I must tell you next time I see you.
Just as a matter of interest is a straight guy sucking cock the same as a gay guy licking pussy?
.

29 Mar 2009

ARRGH i HATE seeing straight men selecting in there looking for list... gay singlemen, gay male couples, gay single females gay female couples !!!! durrr
why would a straight man want gay guys, why would a gay female want a straight man??
im kinda bi lol, by that i mean sexually i will be with a woman, but i wouldnt have a 1-on-1 vanilla relationship with a woman, so i think im not actually bi, only sexually bi.
but if a guys sucking cock hes sexually bi.
xx fem xx

29 Mar 2009

Its all part of the fun.. wink

go with it I have xx its what swinging is about :wink:
you want a one to one :shock:
then get married :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
steve x

29 Mar 2009

Quote by westerross
Who's hand is that?? :shock:

That reminds of a story I must tell you next time I see you.
Just as a matter of interest is a straight guy sucking cock the same as a gay guy licking pussy?
.
Oh, I think so :twisted: