Here is a subject that I am sure will separate opinion! We have a fantasy of Mrs Livelife having fun with a younger fella as she wants to use all her skills to dominate him :-) At first we thought Swingers club, talk with a guy (stranger) and then fun times :-) In the last few days a lad from our gym has made it clear that he would love to have some fun with Mrs Livelife and she is very keen too! So my question to you all is - Do you prefer the rush of meeting a stranger and making out or do you prefer the risk of the acquaintance, knowing that you will see him most days and that he will probably show off and tell his mates and all of a sudden everyone knows?
For us we love the risk of people finding out even if we don't really want them too as we understand this is not everyone's idea of fun. Please share with us your experiences and opinions!
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For us we love the risk of people finding out even if we don't really want them too as we understand this is not everyone's idea of fun. Please share with us your experiences and opinions!
If you don't mind being the talk of the town then go have fun with this lad...
I'm sure he won't mind anyone knowing.....Unless he has the mindset of most other people here in as much as he values discretion...
I do quite like the slow build up and tension with someone you see on a regular basis. It feels good for something to finally happen between the two of you.
But, from past experiences, I tend to prefer meeting the stranger as I like to meet a lot of new people as it tends to be more discreet and a bit of a rush as you say. A casual relationship with someone you know or just see regularly can sometimes get a bit awkward. Though I have had times where we've continued to be friends with no problems.
But, from past experiences, I tend to prefer meeting the stranger as I like to meet a lot of new people as it tends to be more discreet and a bit of a rush as you say. A casual relationship with someone you know or just see regularly can sometimes get a bit awkward. Though I have had times where we've continued to be friends with no problems.
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I was going to post earlier but my situation is slightly different. I couldn't care less if people know. I have no real need or desire for 'discretion'.
I don't discuss my sex life at work. Not because I am a swinger but because one doesn't discuss one's sex life at work regardless. Some vanilla friends know, my sister has an idea and I'm pretty sure my (adult) son knows. So getting together with a friend/aquaintence would not be a problem if I knew they were interested. I don't seek out non-swinging friends to play with but if the situation arose (so to speak :giggle
I wouldn't have a problem.
I don't discuss my sex life at work. Not because I am a swinger but because one doesn't discuss one's sex life at work regardless. Some vanilla friends know, my sister has an idea and I'm pretty sure my (adult) son knows. So getting together with a friend/aquaintence would not be a problem if I knew they were interested. I don't seek out non-swinging friends to play with but if the situation arose (so to speak :giggle
I wouldn't have a problem. 
Sex God
For us it would have to be a stranger.
Sex God
For us I suspect they would not only be strange but positively odd
Sex God
I wouldn't mind an acquaintance as long as he was also into the scene and therefore understood a bit if etiquette. What I mean is that an acquaintance who doesn't understand our lifestyle may not be quite as above board as someone with an understanding of what we do, and therefore make inappropriate advances without the knowledge of my hubby. I think this could prove dangerous for our relationship.
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ElaineI think it'd have to be a stranger on account of having no fit mates
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We enjoy strangers best. Cant imagine the embarassment of having the whole town knowing and beside if guys no good then we wont meet him again lol
Quote by livelife_cpl
Here is a subject that I am sure will separate opinion! We have a fantasy of Mrs Livelife having fun with a younger fella as she wants to use all her skills to dominate him :-) At first we thought Swingers club, talk with a guy (stranger) and then fun times :-) In the last few days a lad from our gym has made it clear that he would love to have some fun with Mrs Livelife and she is very keen too! So my question to you all is - Do you prefer the rush of meeting a stranger and making out or do you prefer the risk of the acquaintance, knowing that you will see him most days and that he will probably show off and tell his mates and all of a sudden everyone knows?
For us we love the risk of people finding out even if we don't really want them too as we understand this is not everyone's idea of fun. Please share with us your experiences and opinions!
