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My girlfriend and I are looking for personal recommendations, from both ends, for a good quality strap-on for both vaginal and anal penetration.
To add a little bit of complexity to our requirements, we'd like something that also has a dildo or vibrator that goes into the wearer's vagina, so she can be stimulated while she's fucking the other person.
Various friends have recommened different brands, but after a bit of web-surfing and a tour of the sex shops of London, we've yet to encounter something that satisfies our requirements, looks sturdy enough to last, and doen't require a second mortgage to purchase.
My girlfriend's main concern is over the strength and fit of the harness, having had previous experience of strap-ons that were not really up to the task of energetic fucking. Having had an over-enthusiastic (but very cute!), girl try to ram a too-large strap-on up my arse, with predicatably painfull consequences, I'm interested in something that has interchangeable dildos, so she can fuck me pleasureably with something not too broad, but still have something of a suitable size to please her female partners.
Any suggestions from the strap-on fans on SH?
Thanks,
PJ.
we've spent pounds at shops like ann summers etc but like you say after few good sessions are crap and the elastics broken etc however our last purchase was from birmingham bazzare bazarre, all straps made with leather and choice of 3 dildo sizes to fit it,average prices too, as your long way from brum maybe some 1 may add a web address for them as they may post to you.
We have just returned from Amsterdam and they have a huge selection of strap ons, the choice was unbelievable many of the shops have websites so it may be worth using a search engine to find shops in the Dam and you could order on line.
Alternatively you could book some flights over (we paid less that £35 return) and have a mucky weekend over there lol :lol:
The fun4two club also offers a wide variety of activities to enjoy too!!!!!! biggrin
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I my opinion this place has the best selection:

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No idea.
Let me know when the road test is though wont you?
kiss
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Just perved Kiss link, the multi coloured ones look great BUT at £50 to £80 IMO they are having a laugh.
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Rest of the stuff look good lol
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Just perved Kiss link, the multi coloured ones look great BUT at £50 to £80 IMO they are having a laugh.
:shock:
Rest of the stuff look good lol

Seriously they are amzing and made of soft (not too soft!) silicone - I have found others in the past to be too rigid or the rubber smells or degrades over time. :eek:
Also the plus points are that they all have 'names' and give the exact dimensions etc - so when you buy a harness can stipulate which dildo it's for or like me you can buy a harness that is able to ajust to all the sizes! :rascal:
ps: I'm not on their payroll!
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Knowing what you are doing helps........ :rascal:
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Is that a threat lol
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Knowing what you are doing helps........ :rascal:
Classes begin at 4pm sharp!
I missed it :doh: I was ermmm.........busy in my mate's garden innocent
I'm going to start saving! I've always wanted one but they generally look far too cheap and flimsy.... make my Rammy the Ram bleat that's for sure!
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No idea.
Let me know when the road test is though wont you?

Of course. Sooner, rather than later, one hopes. Your input will be most appreciated... smile
kiss
H.x

Take care, :)
PJ.
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I my opinion this place has the best selection:

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Is this a personal recommendation? Only, when my girlfriend said "strap-on", I said, "B 'n' H..."
... well, no, okay, I said some other things first, not repeatable on a respectable swinging website such as this one, but after we'd got that out of the way, we looked, dribbled, counted our pennies, and cried. And that's why we haven't bought yet - price. The large selection appeals, but harness plus a couple of dildos is, err, *ouch!*
... and that's not just a lack of lube talking. :)
Take care,
PJ.
OMG elastic ones! noooooooooooooo! completely pointless, and an entire waste of money!
it MUST be a decent leather harness to keep everything in place and comfortable ((( and that works both ways! ;) ))) as for anne summers? their buying department wouldn't know a decent strap-on if it slapped them round the head! lol o.k. for rabbits, but that's as far as they go? ;)
kiss_me's link looks as good as any i could recommend? a decent harness and dildo is gonna cost you some, unfortunately! sad
neil x x x ;)
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as for anne summers? their buying department wouldn't know a decent strap-on if it slapped them round the head!
neil x x x ;)

OMG My mind is working overtime here :shock: rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Speaking from experience, the babes and horny stuff is first class, and i really do mean that! We bought a dildo and harness from them in Manchester, they have a stall at most of the big gay pride events and you can try the harnesses on and have a feel of all the dildos so it might be worth. Although they are pricey, they are worth every penny and we are bbw and have found the harness a comfy (adjustable) fit and up to vigorous activity, even the cheapest harness ( - go to harnesses and look at Euphoria) which is the one we have and have never needed another.
A slightly cheaper alternative is the feeldoe/thrill dil (depending on which brand you buy) - see here: which requires no harness but I do wonder if its going to be comfortable for the wearer if things get a bit rough/energetic/etc.
A useful attachment is the dual tool see here: which allows you to strap a further dildo on to the leg straps of the harness to enable the wearer to have a dildo inside them too. The other advantage of is that their dildos come in a wide choice of colours but can (almost) all be made to include a vibrator in them too.
Anyway, I hope this helps, any further info you need just ask!
Lava x
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Anyway, I hope this helps, any further info you need just ask!

Yay! Loads of useful stuff. I've passed it onto my g/f for our mutual consideration. Many thanks...
Lava x
Professor in Dildology :twisted:

Hehe. You ain't kiddin' smile
Take care,
PJ.
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No idea.
Let me know when the road test is though wont you?

Of course. Sooner, rather than later, one hopes. Your input will be most appreciated... smile
kiss
H.x

Take care, :)
PJ.
I'll check my diary.
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H.x