sub guy''''s question: how to find a man who can & will?

guys how easy do YOU find it to get a man in u?

18 Jan 2009

i've been on this site for a few days now. i was so very fortunate to meet a very cool bloke within the first day or so. things you could say started with a bang acting out a role play fantasy in real life.
but...although i have had a lot of men come on strong and i am licking my lips with excitement. when i try to firm up a meet it just fizzles out or they don't call or get to the point of firming up a date.
i guess what i was hoping was for some real predatorial males to hunt me down until they get me in bed.
is this normal? am i just niave. i'd love some feedback from others and any tips on how to find a man who can and will...i so would like a run of great sex and some regular meets from this site. lol

18 Jan 2009

Sorry that it is a str8 Couple answering you, but wonder why you say you have been on this site 'for a few days' when ur Profile suggests not ! ? Maybe ur Post would be better in Cafe ? surprised

Good luck 2 u & hope u get lot's of fun. X

18 Jan 2009

I did thunk that too bev confused

As for the Question and the poll? Not sure they're sort of the same topic?
Only suggestion I can make is too look through the ads, maybe mail a few guys wanting other guys with your ideas on a role play scenario perhaps?
That user name makes me cringe and J just went "yuck"

18 Jan 2009

you asked, so I'll answer....
I dont think your user name will be helping you to be honest.
Its a "yuk" name and it isn't an accurate description ....... but thats just my opinion. (not meant to offend)
Good luck with your search!
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

18 Jan 2009

no its not the most pleasant of usernames
have you tried looking for what your after on sites specifically for bi/gay men?
this is a swinging site and although i do see that theres alot of bi male action on here, it would seem to make sense that you tried to find what youre looking for on a site for bi and gay males?
i do know of one called squirt, try that?
in edit: after looking at your profile it would seem that youre quite experieced and know where to find meets? so im not sure what youre asking now.... just carry on using the sources you already have? :?

18 Jan 2009

I'm afraid that this seems to be a 'look at my profile' thread. You appear to have been on this site for over a year, and already have plenty of experience. So the question appears to be a cover for some blatant advertising.
And, given what this site offers in the way of an advert area, chat rooms and this forum, why on earth would someone need to hide the fact that they are advertising? LOL
I would feel that a post in the LMU titled something like "I'm available for Bi-male action, are you?" or similar might at least look more honest.
Keep trying anyway :thumbup:

18 Jan 2009

I think this did start in the LMU - it's just very curiously worded for that Forum. It's a sort LMU thread in Café clothing.
So CFF (yuk! - name sorry) is advertising and shouldn't be pilloried for it.
.

18 Jan 2009

Quote by westerross
I think this did start in the LMU - it's just very curiously worded for that Forum. It's a sort LMU thread in Café clothing.
So CFF (yuk! - name sorry) is advertising and shouldn't be pilloried for it.
.

I didn't mean to criticise the advertising in any way. just the way it was presented (in a lighthearted way) that seemed to hide the very advert itself.

18 Jan 2009

Your user name is awful (IMO)
Do a search in the photo ads, you may find what you want in that section.
Your profile suggests you have been here since 07.

18 Jan 2009

Quote by Sarah
Your user name is awful (IMO)
Do a search in the photo ads, you may find what you want inthat section.
Your profile suggests you have been here since 08.

Agreed :thumbup:
... and if you try and use this site in the same way that you would do a gay one you'll find it won't work. The dynamic is completely different mate biggrin

18 Jan 2009

Quote by Cuntforfucking
i guess what i was hoping was for some real predatorial males to hunt me down until they get me in bed.

Blimey wouldn't that be fabulous?! :thumbup:
*dribbles*

Quote by Cuntforfucking
is this normal? am i just niave. i'd love some feedback from others and any tips on how to find a man who can and will...i so would like a run of great sex and some regular meets from this site.

I think everyone would love a run of great sex. I know I would! :rascal: You put in what you get out really and I would think about a name change were I in your shoes. I've not looked at your profile yet, that was deliberate, I figured I'd probably write a list of the bits I'd change if I had looked. redface

If you don't have an advert already then perhaps that's the way forward. I guess when it comes to the will they/won't they turn up moment, we all have those moments regardless of who we arrange to meet. Real life gets in the way, situations arise and sometimes we can't help that. It happens to everyone. I know I've had to cancel a munch or a weekend away because something has come up. I also know that the people I play with understand that because it happens to them too. wink

I have to say though... I found the wording of your poll part a little on the... erm... crude side? I guess it's not all about "getting a man in me" in my world. :lol:
And I know time flies when your having fun but even I've not as much fun to get me from 2007 to now and it seeming like a few days! :lol:
Anyway... not sure I've been very helpful but good luck in your search! :mrgreen:

18 Jan 2009

Quote by R6_biker
Your user name is awful (IMO)
Do a search in the photo ads, you may find what you want inthat section.
Your profile suggests you have been here since 08.

Agreed :thumbup:
... and if you try and use this site in the same way that you would do a gay one you'll find it won't work. The dynamic is completely different mate biggrin

And what would you know?

18 Jan 2009

Quote by essex34m
And what would you know?

Lots

6 Feb 2009

Just to clarify I did indeed register over a year ago but NEVER paid to use the site until Jan 2009 when SH offered me a discounted subscription.
I never thought that would be the main focus of people's replies. But NO guys and girls I am not making things up I have only started using the site and having full access to it.
As for the username - maybe it is too in yer face but I thought being direct was the best policy. I like to be f**ked and to be sub.
I have had however had lots of replies from men but what I was getting at is few seem really genuine. That is the issue I have. They only seem to want to just talk about sex when I enjoy it in 3D.
Thanks to everyone who replied > smile

I am gonna keep looking as I like bi or married men - the masculine the better and this site trumps any others for that hands down.

6 Feb 2009

well ya had me well n truelly confused i thought your name meant you had a cunt for fucking not you are a cunt
not meaning i think you are just meant that how i read your name i thought you was a fem till i read your profile

6 Feb 2009

Quote by bouncy332
well ya had me well n truelly confused i thought your name meant you had a cunt for fucking not you are a cunt
not meaning i think you are just meant that how i read your name i thought you was a fem till i read your profile

Would you like to borrow a shovel?
lol

:lol: :lol: :lol:

6 Feb 2009

Quote by ForestFunsters
well ya had me well n truelly confused i thought your name meant you had a cunt for fucking not you are a cunt
not meaning i think you are just meant that how i read your name i thought you was a fem till i read your profile

Would you like to borrow a shovel?
lol

:lol: :lol: :lol:
yes please then i can move some snow too whilst i'm at it :lol:

6 Feb 2009

Quote by bouncy332
well ya had me well n truelly confused i thought your name meant you had a cunt for fucking not you are a cunt
not meaning i think you are just meant that how i read your name i thought you was a fem till i read your profile

Would you like to borrow a shovel?
lol

:lol: :lol: :lol:
yes please then i can move some snow too whilst i'm at it :lol:
Sorry that made me laugh

:rotflmao:

6 Feb 2009

i guess maybe i didn't put as much thought into my username as i should have.
just i find some real masculine men relate to this language more as it shouts what they r looking for.
anyhow you live and learn and i am 100% sub "guy".
wishing you all well ;)