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Swinger or Swomger - do I have a right to be here?

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Quote by splendid_

As time goes on, I realise I'm not a swinger,

oh, now you tell me :stompingoff:
splendid
Wanna convert me?
:twisted:
I haven't 'swung' in ages.
That's down to a mixture of lack of interest due to my being single male no:999,999 or, for whatever reason on whichever side, not getting past initial contact with recent interested parties.
Wherever one is in the spectrum of SH you have a right to be swingerly fortunes can fluctuate but your involvement has its value come what may!
have to sympathize with pussy here big time i was in chat room this morning and was asked why was i here just because at the moment i am not a swinger am having a rest due to medical reasons and it was suggested by he who shall not be named that i should go to another "tame" site if i just wanted to chat. just gonna say TWO things,
ITS GOT NOWT TO DO WITH YOU WHY I AM HERE"
"DOWN WITH THE SWONGER HATERS"
Quote by crazybabe69
have to sympathize with pussy here big time i was in chat room this morning and was asked why was i here just because at the moment i am not a swinger am having a rest due to medical reasons and it was suggested by he who shall not be named that i should go to another "tame" site if i just wanted to chat. just gonna say TWO things,
ITS GOT NOWT TO DO WITH YOU WHY I AM HERE"
"DOWN WITH THE SWONGER HATERS"

That's two fair comments. As for the nmedical condition. Here's hoping you get better soon.
Welcome to posting in the forum btw wave
Quote by crazybabe69
have to sympathize with pussy here big time i was in chat room this morning and was asked why was i here just because at the moment i am not a swinger am having a rest due to medical reasons and it was suggested by he who shall not be named that i should go to another "tame" site if i just wanted to chat. just gonna say TWO things,
ITS GOT NOWT TO DO WITH YOU WHY I AM HERE"
"DOWN WITH THE SWONGER HATERS"

That's two fair comments. As for the nmedical condition. Here's hoping you get better soon.
Welcome to posting in the forum btw wave
ty lost for your get well wishes xxxx
sorry to be ignorant, but what the hell is a swonger ?
Quote by sleazy
sorry to be ignorant, but what the hell is a swonger ?
swonger = non swinger was a name that derived from the north west room i fink confused: :?: i thought it was better to be referred to as a swonger rather than a boring cow :!: :!: rolleyes :roll:
Quote by essex34m
As a single male, I don't face half the grief that others do, whats just been said by anais is nothing I have encountered
Am I a swinger?
As time goes on, I realise I'm not a swinger, but thats by my own definition, I would say I'm known to the swinging community, but thats as far as it goes, I go to munches and socials, but thats pretty much as far it as it goes, there is someone I play with, but I don't consider it to be swinging, it's spending time with a good friend
Swinging is whatever the individual wants it to be, some are here for cold, clinical sex, some are here to embrace all that the scene offers, some for the munches, some to just use the site, maybe for the chatrooms or forums
I don't think anybody has the right to challenge why someone else is here, purely on the basis that that person doesn't want to meet or play

:thumbup:
Totally agree with you mate. :cheers:
I've been here for a little while now.... ok I'm part of the furniture and was included in the inventory list when the site was sold :lol2: and for most of that time I never "indulged" in the lifestyle. To be honest it never really crossed my mind to want to join in, so I've had this levelled at me on a number of occasions and I always find it offensive that people think that I don't belong on an internet forum because I don't partake of things that happen in real life confused :? :? :? :?
So does that mean that I can't be a member of the motorbike site because I don't own a bike? Or that I can't be a member of a certain brand of car site because I don't own that make? Does it bugger. evil
I've had a 3rd party tell me that a couple would no longer "bother to waste time talking to me" because I didn't swing. Fine cool To be honest if you feel like that I'd rather not have anything to do with your limited and judgemental personalities anyway. :rude:
I choose my friends carefully and I have as many people I think of as friends here as I do in real life (not sure if that's a good thing or a bad thing :? :lol2: ). People who's opinions about someone else are based around just one part of what they do or who they are do not number in any of my mates.
If you come on here to look for meets and sex, fine, there's plenty of others who are doing the same. Moaning and abusing others because they don't play is just ignorant imho.
Quote by tricky-dicky
You have every right to stay on the site. The fact you choose not to swing has no bearing on the issue - - - - - IMHO its the people who hurl abuse because they don't get what they want who shouldn't be here.

Exactly!!!!!