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are you trying to get me run over :crazy:
sounds like you happened to be chatting with a complete twat...
the joys of the chatrooms huh???
Quote by Sara_2006
are you trying to get me run over :crazy:

Don't be silly Sara I like you too much altho getting run over would have its advantages.
You would be lying down and I would need to give you the kiss of life wink
Quote by Mallock2006
Tell em to fuck off....
You have as much right as the next to be here...
There are plenty of members who dont swing...
:thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled:
Course you have every right to be here puss hun, due to unforeseen problems I am currently experiencing I am now a swonger!!!!
Have to say the idea that this site is all about swinging and sex is a joke. I have made many more genuine friends and acquaintances either through this site or swinging in general than I have in everyday life because the people are more open honest and genuine, and their support in this my time of need has been both gratefully recieved and appreciated.
Anyone who thinks a swinger site or a club for that matter is all about having sex with strangers is sadly mistaken.
Not all of us are everybody else's cup of tea either physically or sexually and World Wars were fought on the basis of freedom, and encapsualted in that was an ethos on the basis that an individual or individuals should have freedom of choice in the way they decided to live and conduct their personal affairs, beliefs etc.
Anyone who thinks differently is obviously either blinkered by their own ignorance or very self centred
Puss hun you know I LOVE you and your other half and I for one think the chatrooms would be a poorer place without people like you two
Carry on as you are hun and tell them all to go forth in short sharp jerking movements
Dale
XXXXX
Quote by woohoo
are you trying to get me run over :crazy:

Don't be silly Sara I like you too much altho getting run over would have its advantages.
You would be lying down and I would need to give you the kiss of life wink
no need for that sort of excuse just grab me and snog me mmmmmmmmmmmmm
Quote by Sara_2006
are you trying to get me run over :crazy:

Don't be silly Sara I like you too much altho getting run over would have its advantages.
You would be lying down and I would need to give you the kiss of life wink
no need for that sort of excuse just grab me and snog me mmmmmmmmmmmmm
can i please watch????
Quote by DeeCee
are you trying to get me run over :crazy:

Don't be silly Sara I like you too much altho getting run over would have its advantages.
You would be lying down and I would need to give you the kiss of life wink
no need for that sort of excuse just grab me and snog me mmmmmmmmmmmmm
can i please watch????
why watch .......... join in lol
as has been mentioned earlier this site is now more of a community and i have made many friends here and even if i was not swinging and i was a swonger i would not want to lose the friendships i have made through the site.
friends help each other out in difficult circumstaces. no matter what they are a true friend wont blame you or criticise you only offer help and support in whatever way you need. a true friend tells you straight if you done somthing wrong and will take the anger when necessary without throwing your friendship away cos we all understand that sometimes we have things going on in our lives that we need to vent out anger and somtimes friends take the brunt of that anger and still say things like ...... its ok i understand and forgive you.
for those friends going through tough times all i can say is ..... there is light at the end of the tunnel and no it is not the headlights of the train comming towards you xxxxxx
:thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:
If only every female thot that way Sara wink
But My sentiments exactly :thumbup:
Quote by Sara_2006
are you trying to get me run over :crazy:

Don't be silly Sara I like you too much altho getting run over would have its advantages.
You would be lying down and I would need to give you the kiss of life wink
no need for that sort of excuse just grab me and snog me mmmmmmmmmmmmm
can i please watch????
why watch .......... join in lol
there is a god afterall
Quote by Sara_2006
are you trying to get me run over :crazy:

Don't be silly Sara I like you too much altho getting run over would have its advantages.
You would be lying down and I would need to give you the kiss of life wink
no need for that sort of excuse just grab me and snog me mmmmmmmmmmmmm
can i please watch????
why watch .......... join in lol
there is a god, afterall
I think i may be the swonger half of a swinging couple confused biggrin I believe it's more than just a shag site. As Woohoo says, we have met and chatted to people from this site. Some of these people we have been become more errmmm involved :? dunno with, to our good fortune.
With the chat and the forum together with the socials and munches our circle of friends is now quite impressive to what it once was. And our inner circle of friends is precious indeed. It'd more than just shag on this site for us. It has to be our attention span is more than one night.#
All those posting have said it all. You are here and welcome here by the vast vast majority.
Quote by Sgt Bilko
If you read my profile you will see you have as much right as I have to be here!! confused :? lol :lol: :lol:

More right really mate , shes quite nice just to look at ! ;-)
Quote by Sara_2006
puss we luffs you in the forums and in the chat rooms and most of all luffs you at the various socials. always a pleasure to see you ( not sure about the minger tho pmsl :twisted: ) you bring sunshine and smiles whenever i have chatted and met you so i say sod the ignorant and carry on with how you carry on your swinging/swonging

u after gettin into Puss's knickers Sara ?????
tuff that spots saved for me when i turn lezzer
anyway here goes lol
Puss as 1 of my best mates on and off the site the chatrooms wudnt be the same without ya especially our room, u come in and bring laughs for all, u keep ya fat ass jus where it is!!! I for 1 love ya craic (not crack) we bounce off each other and ppl love it,u also do the intellectual stuff when required (even if ya dunno wot ya talkin about always sounds good), but mostly u jus make ppl feel good specially when they had a bad day.
We had a break earlier in the yr and u were there supporting us thru it all, well not on ya own (dare i call him Mr Puss :twisted: ) ur both very special ppl in our world, good mates r few n far between, but its good to know we have u 2 we can rely on thru thick n thin
thinkin about it Puss..................
will u marry me ???? :rose:
always stay the same girl never change and dont let the feckers get ya down
Chilli xxxxxxx
Quote by Laff_n_Chilli
puss we luffs you in the forums and in the chat rooms and most of all luffs you at the various socials. always a pleasure to see you ( not sure about the minger tho pmsl :twisted: ) you bring sunshine and smiles whenever i have chatted and met you so i say sod the ignorant and carry on with how you carry on your swinging/swonging

u after gettin into Puss's knickers Sara ?????
tuff that spots saved for me when i turn lezzer
anyway here goes lol
Puss as 1 of my best mates on and off the site the chatrooms wudnt be the same without ya especially our room, u come in and bring laughs for all, u keep ya fat ass jus where it is!!! I for 1 love ya craic (not crack) we bounce off each other and ppl love it,u also do the intellectual stuff when required (even if ya dunno wot ya talkin about always sounds good), but mostly u jus make ppl feel good specially when they had a bad day.
We had a break earlier in the yr and u were there supporting us thru it all, well not on ya own (dare i call him Mr Puss :twisted: ) ur both very special ppl in our world, good mates r few n far between, but its good to know we have u 2 we can rely on thru thick n thin
thinkin about it Puss..................
will u marry me ???? :rose:
always stay the same girl never change and dont let the feckers get ya down
Chilli xxxxxxxwill u marry me ????
omg can i wear black this time ive done red white and cream confused: :?: they dont call me the black widow for nowt ya know :!: :!: rolleyes :roll:
Quote by pussygalore33
puss we luffs you in the forums and in the chat rooms and most of all luffs you at the various socials. always a pleasure to see you ( not sure about the minger tho pmsl :twisted: ) you bring sunshine and smiles whenever i have chatted and met you so i say sod the ignorant and carry on with how you carry on your swinging/swonging

u after gettin into Puss's knickers Sara ?????
tuff that spots saved for me when i turn lezzer
anyway here goes lol
Puss as 1 of my best mates on and off the site the chatrooms wudnt be the same without ya especially our room, u come in and bring laughs for all, u keep ya fat ass jus where it is!!! I for 1 love ya craic (not crack) we bounce off each other and ppl love it,u also do the intellectual stuff when required (even if ya dunno wot ya talkin about always sounds good), but mostly u jus make ppl feel good specially when they had a bad day.
We had a break earlier in the yr and u were there supporting us thru it all, well not on ya own (dare i call him Mr Puss :twisted: ) ur both very special ppl in our world, good mates r few n far between, but its good to know we have u 2 we can rely on thru thick n thin
thinkin about it Puss..................
will u marry me ???? :rose:
always stay the same girl never change and dont let the feckers get ya down
Chilli xxxxxxxwill u marry me ????
omg can i wear black this time ive done red white and cream confused: :?: they dont call me the black widow for nowt ya know :!: :!: rolleyes :roll:
does that mean ur gonna shag me to death or jus talk me to death as ur now a swonger ??????????/
Quote by Laff_n_Chilli
puss we luffs you in the forums and in the chat rooms and most of all luffs you at the various socials. always a pleasure to see you ( not sure about the minger tho pmsl :twisted: ) you bring sunshine and smiles whenever i have chatted and met you so i say sod the ignorant and carry on with how you carry on your swinging/swonging

u after gettin into Puss's knickers Sara ?????
tuff that spots saved for me when i turn lezzer
anyway here goes lol
Puss as 1 of my best mates on and off the site the chatrooms wudnt be the same without ya especially our room, u come in and bring laughs for all, u keep ya fat ass jus where it is!!! I for 1 love ya craic (not crack) we bounce off each other and ppl love it,u also do the intellectual stuff when required (even if ya dunno wot ya talkin about always sounds good), but mostly u jus make ppl feel good specially when they had a bad day.
We had a break earlier in the yr and u were there supporting us thru it all, well not on ya own (dare i call him Mr Puss :twisted: ) ur both very special ppl in our world, good mates r few n far between, but its good to know we have u 2 we can rely on thru thick n thin
thinkin about it Puss..................
will u marry me ???? :rose:
always stay the same girl never change and dont let the feckers get ya down
Chilli xxxxxxxwill u marry me ????
omg can i wear black this time ive done red white and cream confused: :?: they dont call me the black widow for nowt ya know :!: :!: rolleyes :roll:
does that mean ur gonna shag me to death or jus talk me to death as ur now a swonger ??????????/ silly :!: :!: :!: girls dont count :roll: :roll: :roll:
Quote by pussygalore33
puss we luffs you in the forums and in the chat rooms and most of all luffs you at the various socials. always a pleasure to see you ( not sure about the minger tho pmsl :twisted: ) you bring sunshine and smiles whenever i have chatted and met you so i say sod the ignorant and carry on with how you carry on your swinging/swonging

u after gettin into Puss's knickers Sara ?????
tuff that spots saved for me when i turn lezzer
anyway here goes lol
Puss as 1 of my best mates on and off the site the chatrooms wudnt be the same without ya especially our room, u come in and bring laughs for all, u keep ya fat ass jus where it is!!! I for 1 love ya craic (not crack) we bounce off each other and ppl love it,u also do the intellectual stuff when required (even if ya dunno wot ya talkin about always sounds good), but mostly u jus make ppl feel good specially when they had a bad day.
We had a break earlier in the yr and u were there supporting us thru it all, well not on ya own (dare i call him Mr Puss :twisted: ) ur both very special ppl in our world, good mates r few n far between, but its good to know we have u 2 we can rely on thru thick n thin
thinkin about it Puss..................
will u marry me ???? :rose:
always stay the same girl never change and dont let the feckers get ya down
Chilli xxxxxxxwill u marry me ????
omg can i wear black this time ive done red white and cream confused: :?: they dont call me the black widow for nowt ya know :!: :!: rolleyes :roll:
does that mean ur gonna shag me to death or jus talk me to death as ur now a swonger ??????????/ silly :!: :!: :!: girls dont count :roll: :roll: :roll:
well they wud in my book cos ud b me first ..................since i was 16 ........yeah i tried it once or twice :twisted: realised im strictly a dick chick
Quote by Laff_n_Chilli
puss we luffs you in the forums and in the chat rooms and most of all luffs you at the various socials. always a pleasure to see you ( not sure about the minger tho pmsl :twisted: ) you bring sunshine and smiles whenever i have chatted and met you so i say sod the ignorant and carry on with how you carry on your swinging/swonging

u after gettin into Puss's knickers Sara ?????
tuff that spots saved for me when i turn lezzer
anyway here goes lol
Puss as 1 of my best mates on and off the site the chatrooms wudnt be the same without ya especially our room, u come in and bring laughs for all, u keep ya fat ass jus where it is!!! I for 1 love ya craic (not crack) we bounce off each other and ppl love it,u also do the intellectual stuff when required (even if ya dunno wot ya talkin about always sounds good), but mostly u jus make ppl feel good specially when they had a bad day.
We had a break earlier in the yr and u were there supporting us thru it all, well not on ya own (dare i call him Mr Puss :twisted: ) ur both very special ppl in our world, good mates r few n far between, but its good to know we have u 2 we can rely on thru thick n thin
thinkin about it Puss..................
will u marry me ???? :rose:
always stay the same girl never change and dont let the feckers get ya down
Chilli xxxxxxxwill u marry me ????
omg can i wear black this time ive done red white and cream confused: :?: they dont call me the black widow for nowt ya know :!: :!: rolleyes :roll:
does that mean ur gonna shag me to death or jus talk me to death as ur now a swonger ??????????/ silly :!: :!: :!: girls dont count :roll: :roll: :roll:
well they wud in my book cos ud b me first ..................since i was 16 ........yeah i tried it once or twice :twisted: realised im strictly a dick chickomg ur a virgin :!: :!: it ok i be gentle with ya i got a 14 inch strap on for leaners :twisted: :roll:
Quote by pussygalore33
puss we luffs you in the forums and in the chat rooms and most of all luffs you at the various socials. always a pleasure to see you ( not sure about the minger tho pmsl :twisted: ) you bring sunshine and smiles whenever i have chatted and met you so i say sod the ignorant and carry on with how you carry on your swinging/swonging

u after gettin into Puss's knickers Sara ?????
tuff that spots saved for me when i turn lezzer
anyway here goes lol
Puss as 1 of my best mates on and off the site the chatrooms wudnt be the same without ya especially our room, u come in and bring laughs for all, u keep ya fat ass jus where it is!!! I for 1 love ya craic (not crack) we bounce off each other and ppl love it,u also do the intellectual stuff when required (even if ya dunno wot ya talkin about always sounds good), but mostly u jus make ppl feel good specially when they had a bad day.
We had a break earlier in the yr and u were there supporting us thru it all, well not on ya own (dare i call him Mr Puss :twisted: ) ur both very special ppl in our world, good mates r few n far between, but its good to know we have u 2 we can rely on thru thick n thin
thinkin about it Puss..................
will u marry me ???? :rose:
always stay the same girl never change and dont let the feckers get ya down
Chilli xxxxxxxwill u marry me ????
omg can i wear black this time ive done red white and cream confused: :?: they dont call me the black widow for nowt ya know :!: :!: rolleyes :roll:
does that mean ur gonna shag me to death or jus talk me to death as ur now a swonger ??????????/ silly :!: :!: :!: girls dont count :roll: :roll: :roll:
well they wud in my book cos ud b me first ..................since i was 16 ........yeah i tried it once or twice :twisted: realised im strictly a dick chickomg ur a virgin :!: :!: it ok i be gentle with ya i got a 14 inch strap on for leaners :twisted: :roll:
bring it on Mamma !!!!!!!!!!1
people have been telling me for years I shouldn't be here....and of course I always do as I'm told....... rolleyes
Quote by Silk and Big G
If you read my profile you will see you have as much right as I have to be here!! confused :? lol :lol: :lol:

More right really mate , shes quite nice just to look at ! ;-)
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
What Mallock said..... Just tell them what I always say when I see people saying the same thing.... It's a chat room..... Chat being the operative word wink
Everyones got as much right to be here as anyone else, so don't worry about it. I've been told tonight that if I'm only here for the social side of things then I should go elsewhere confused That was after sending a polite no thanks message to an unsolicited PM. I wasn't going to even reply to it in the first place but I must have been in a good mood earlier and so thought i'd be nice and he got all sarcy on me....ya just can't win
evil lol
Quote by jaymar
You don't have to swing or swong (what's swong btw? confused ) to be a member here, you can be here for friendships, chats or social scenes or whatever you want.
I hate it when people become judge and tell people either they shouldn't be here or not to post in the forums! mad
You just remain here and be yourself Pussy, stuff them!

I agree!
Swong/swung; past tense of swing.
What will sh be without Puss??? know what i mean?
Puss, can only say that you are one on a billion, what i say billion? Million eh eh ..
No hun, you must stay, play or not, its your choice, well at least hope for your other half that you do play a bit with him lol
And I have only one word for you: Paella!!!!!!!!
Luv u lots xxxxxxxxxxxx
Quote by nwcouple1971
Course you have every right to be here puss hun, due to unforeseen problems I am currently experiencing I am now a swonger!!!!
Have to say the idea that this site is all about swinging and sex is a joke. I have made many more genuine friends and acquaintances either through this site or swinging in general than I have in everyday life because the people are more open honest and genuine, and their support in this my time of need has been both gratefully recieved and appreciated.
Anyone who thinks a swinger site or a club for that matter is all about having sex with strangers is sadly mistaken.
Not all of us are everybody else's cup of tea either physically or sexually and World Wars were fought on the basis of freedom, and encapsualted in that was an ethos on the basis that an individual or individuals should have freedom of choice in the way they decided to live and conduct their personal affairs, beliefs etc.
Anyone who thinks differently is obviously either blinkered by their own ignorance or very self centred
Puss hun you know I LOVE you and your other half and I for one think the chatrooms would be a poorer place without people like you two
Carry on as you are hun and tell them all to go forth in short sharp jerking movements
Dale
XXXXX
:!: :!: encapsualated confused: :?: why you using big words i dont knowwwwwwwwwwwwww :cry: :cry: i know ur trying to confuddle me :shock: :shock: easy i know and not very hard :idea: :idea: xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Im not a swinger, a swonger or a swingle........ and I get asked at least once or more a week why im hereby irate couples/guys who think I should meet them!! In fact one couple got quite rude about it and followed me around for weeks just going on at me that I shouldn't be here!
I didnt go to socials or munches for years as I felt that I would be taking up the place of someone who is in the lifestyle. After chatting about it with a number of people I plucked up the courage and went. In all everyone has been friendly and welcoming. As have the majority of members of the site.
Its only the very few who think a non swinger etc is a *timewaster* I dont take any notice anymore!! Just tell them if they have a problem speak to Admin/moderator/chat op.... smile :)
xanaisx
As a single male, I don't face half the grief that others do, whats just been said by anais is nothing I have encountered
Am I a swinger?
As time goes on, I realise I'm not a swinger, but thats by my own definition, I would say I'm known to the swinging community, but thats as far as it goes, I go to munches and socials, but thats pretty much as far it as it goes, there is someone I play with, but I don't consider it to be swinging, it's spending time with a good friend
Swinging is whatever the individual wants it to be, some are here for cold, clinical sex, some are here to embrace all that the scene offers, some for the munches, some to just use the site, maybe for the chatrooms or forums
I don't think anybody has the right to challenge why someone else is here, purely on the basis that that person doesn't want to meet or play
Quote by essex34m
As time goes on, I realise I'm not a swinger,

oh, now you tell me :stompingoff:
splendid