Swingers!

21 Aug 2004

I dare not tell any of my family or friends that I am a member of Swinging Heaven, not ashamed of the fact, you understand, but if they knew, they would assume that I was a pervert and a bad person, so I consider it best not to say anything, I am the only one who knows and intend to keep it that way, to maintain my reputation.
Who knows if anyone,? that you are a swinger? and how much do you say to others? do you tell them you go dogging,?allow people to watch you having sex?, go to clubs?munches,? swinging parties,? do your children know,? your neighbours,?if they know, do they give you funny looks,? who tells everyone,? and do they treat you any different as if they didn't know.

21 Aug 2004

Quote by O.K.
I dare not tell any of my family or friends that I am a member of Swinging Heaven, not ashamed of the fact, you understand, but if they knew, they would assume that I was a pervert and a bad person, so I consider it best not to say anything, I am the only one who knows and intend to keep it that way, to maintain my reputation.
Who knows if anyone,? that you are a swinger? and how much do you say to others? do you tell them you go dogging,?allow people to watch you having sex?, go to clubs?munches,? swinging parties,? do your children know,? your neighbours,?if they know, do they give you funny looks,? who tells everyone,? and do they treat you any different as if they didn't know.

Pretty much everyone who knows Big G and I knows about our swinging past. They know what G and I haven't experienced in the swinging scene, we couldn't write on the back of a stamp. I don't have a problem talking about it, and I am rather open about my sexuality. I wouldn't drop it into the conversation over my purchase of a pint of milk at the shops as it would be inappropriate.
The way I look at it is, if it comes up in conversation, and I am asked, only in a couple of rare occasions would I feel the need to lie about it. Even my family knows, although if it isn't discussed, then to them, it isn't real. Fair enough and I can live with it.
At the end of the day, unless you are flirting with someone, or about to actually fuck them (bar friends made through swinging) why would it come up in coversation? Surely there are a plenty more topics to talk about?
Silky xx