Hi from those who have read our profile you will see that as a couple we do this kinda thing on the odd occasion.
Our question really is this, we love exhibitionism and we love fucking infront of others and watching others fuck. We have been to Swinging clubs before and generally enjoyed the atmosphere, loved being naked infront of others and getting touched and felt up buy others, but as far as full swap goes it's just not for us.
However we are not sure how others who go to these clubs to swap partners feel about this, does it annoy them that people go just to watch and be watched and to play a little bit, or are people generally ok with this. As far as we are concerned everyone so far has respected our limits even if a couple of lads tried to push it, but we do enjoy just the nakedness and the openness and the softer side of sex. We are never going to be gangbanging junkies apart from in our dreams and bedroom play, but do people like us spoil the enjoyment of swingers clubs for others.
Your views are very welcome, but be nice we are genuinely interested and everyone is entitled to their own opinion and preferances.
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Sex God
stop worrying and carry on enjoying what you are doing. i'd say you are probably fairly typical of a clubbing couple and bear in mind that you will, with time, experiment and push your boundaries as you see fit. for now just enjoy................
Sex God
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Your views are very welcome, but be nice we are genuinely interested and everyone is entitled to their own opinion and preferances.
Why would anyone not be nice? If they are abusive to you, it's against the AUP and they will face the consequences.
As you said, everyone is entitled to their opinions and preferences - so are you. It doesn't matter what anyone thinks about your activities/limits. You pay your money to get in to clubs; as long as what you do is acceptable to the club, ie. within their rules/regulations, nobody has any right to complain. People know they're likely to be watched or they'd go into private rooms.
Sex God
some clubs have areas that are just for exhibitionists so chill guys and enjoy
Sex God
it doesn't really matter what others really think... you do what you want to do and don't worry about others 
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I'm all for a bit of exhibitionism, after all, it's one of the main reasons I visit clubs.
But I am saddened by those that seem to want to push the boundaries all the time.
I go to Cham's as often as I can, and there is a room which could be discribed as a lounge, chill out room, place to be away from all the action, it has many titles.
When being given the tour by the staff on first joining the club I was told that the room is exactly that, a place to get away from it all.
Recently though, it's become just another play room, and so if you wanted to watch "icey dancey pop factor get me out of here" on the telly, or have a chat about the footie or something, then you would have to stand on the stairs as that seems to be the only part of the club that isn't used for action.
I'm not a prude, far from it, but when you visit a club for an evening, sometimes it's nice to take a break.
I'm all for a bit of exhibitionism, after all, it's one of the main reasons I visit clubs.
But I am saddened by those that seem to want to push the boundaries all the time.
I go to Cham's as often as I can, and there is a room which could be discribed as a lounge, chill out room, place to be away from all the action, it has many titles.
When being given the tour by the staff on first joining the club I was told that the room is exactly that, a place to get away from it all.
Recently though, it's become just another play room, and so if you wanted to watch "icey dancey pop factor get me out of here" on the telly, or have a chat about the footie or something, then you would have to stand on the stairs as that seems to be the only part of the club that isn't used for action.
I'm not a prude, far from it, but when you visit a club for an evening, sometimes it's nice to take a break.
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then you would have to stand on the stairs as that seems to be the only part of the club that isn't used for action.
What we love about chams is being able to shag on the stairs
So long as you don't give offence to other people then clubs are places to do what you want. Having said that, it's always worth finding the club that suits your particular needs because they are all different.
Hi there, tbh i`ve never been to a club, but we are very much exhibitionists and enjoy parties where we can play together and be watched, sometimes with a bit of fem to fem contact, but we do not swap either, not even soft swing really and if we did go to clubs i would expect people to respect our choice of play as i would respect others, even tho it may not be our preference.
So like the other replies i`d say just go and enjoy yourselves, and let the others in the club find their own niche and enjoy that for themselves
So like the other replies i`d say just go and enjoy yourselves, and let the others in the club find their own niche and enjoy that for themselves
Sex God
didn't vote on your poll cause i can't quite work out what the options mean sorry having a blonde day i think 
we are regs at chams and tbh with you if exhibitionism is your bag then exhibit away everyone likes diff things it makes swinging more interesting the more diversity there is out there
we started out with exhibitionism and have progressed over the last few years to where we are now and although i do thoroughly enjoy where we are now i did also thoroughly enjoy the exhibitionist side at the time actually that said i still do we don't always play with others
sorry rambling now got a fuzzy head i'm a poorly girl today so i just hope it made sense
happy swinging
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we are regs at chams and tbh with you if exhibitionism is your bag then exhibit away everyone likes diff things it makes swinging more interesting the more diversity there is out there
we started out with exhibitionism and have progressed over the last few years to where we are now and although i do thoroughly enjoy where we are now i did also thoroughly enjoy the exhibitionist side at the time actually that said i still do we don't always play with others
sorry rambling now got a fuzzy head i'm a poorly girl today so i just hope it made sense
happy swinging
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we are a full swap couple who visit Chams when we can as its a bit of a drive for us.
We have always thought that whilst our thing is playing with others, we are quite happy for anyone who wishes to watch to do so all they like as we would make use of a private room if we wanted to be alone.
we have never seen the TV room as we call it being used for anything other than chilling but can understand someone being put out if people use this area as just another area to get down and dirty.
In our minds swinging clubs are for whatever floats your boat and no 1 group of people have the right to say someone wanting something different is wrong to be in the club.
Happy swinging
Zoe & Steve
We have always thought that whilst our thing is playing with others, we are quite happy for anyone who wishes to watch to do so all they like as we would make use of a private room if we wanted to be alone.
we have never seen the TV room as we call it being used for anything other than chilling but can understand someone being put out if people use this area as just another area to get down and dirty.
In our minds swinging clubs are for whatever floats your boat and no 1 group of people have the right to say someone wanting something different is wrong to be in the club.
Happy swinging
Zoe & Steve
Thanks for the reply's and sorry about the vote I messed it up a little and sorry mods about the activar or whatever it's called, I did not read the rules.
Glad to hear that we don't put people off or make them feel uncomfortable, actually suprised how many replies from people who are into similar experiences.
It's been a real insight, I guess when we are in a club we don't really get to ask people who are busy shagging, excuse me guys but do you mind stopping so we can ask if we are putting you off. lol.
We'll have to go back soon, with better confidence.
Glad to hear that we don't put people off or make them feel uncomfortable, actually suprised how many replies from people who are into similar experiences.
It's been a real insight, I guess when we are in a club we don't really get to ask people who are busy shagging, excuse me guys but do you mind stopping so we can ask if we are putting you off. lol.
We'll have to go back soon, with better confidence.
i can only speak for myself but it don't annoy me if people only go to watch and be watched, what i don't like are the poser couples that only go to walk round looking good, you can do that anywhere why go to a sex club to do it? at the end of the day we all go for our own reasons, i go to play but that does not mean i'll play with anyone, i have the rights to say no as do you for whatever your reason
Sex God
Duckandbunny, if you enjoy the exhibitionism, then you go for it. I bet there is always some around who wants to watch, and if they dont, then its their loss 
We have recently started to visit partners in Bury and often we dont want to play with anyone else, and that has nothing to do with the people who are there, it is just because we just want to play together in a semi-public place.
If you enjoy it, then go for it and sod to pushing boundaries or anything, just do what feels right for you two
We have recently started to visit partners in Bury and often we dont want to play with anyone else, and that has nothing to do with the people who are there, it is just because we just want to play together in a semi-public place.
If you enjoy it, then go for it and sod to pushing boundaries or anything, just do what feels right for you two
Sex God
I was told a little while ago, that swinging now
is not propa swinging ..swinging means
swapping partners, well my answer 2 that is
swinging is watever floats ur boat.
That may be anything from waching others get it
on, or getting it on urselves for others to wach.
Swinging is very diverse, and 4 me, thats wat
makes it so much fun.
There is sumthin in swinging 4 every1, watever
that may b....and we should all respect the
descisions of others.
Go and do wat u r happy doing,
but most of all..............
ENJOY.!!!!
is not propa swinging
..swinging meansswapping partners, well my answer 2 that is
swinging is watever floats ur boat.
That may be anything from waching others get it
on, or getting it on urselves for others to wach.
Swinging is very diverse, and 4 me, thats wat
makes it so much fun.
There is sumthin in swinging 4 every1, watever
that may b....and we should all respect the
descisions of others.
Go and do wat u r happy doing,
but most of all..............
ENJOY.!!!!
