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Swingers clubs ....do u think they could do more to improve?

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We been to a few swingers clubs in UK and some of them r not wellcoming what is ur view on swingers clubs wink
We are new to the scene and recently visited a club / party. I had called the hostess the day before and explained that I was going to be new and nervous. The second I got throught the door hubby and I got a big hug and introduced to some people who were great. She also checked up on us several times throughout the night to check we were ok.
I guess if you are going somewhere as a newbie there, it would be worth calling.
we've only been to one..we arranged to meet a few regulars in a bar close to the club(this was arranged thru the chat room),so our first experience of walking thru the door was alot easier than some peoples first time......even when we were inside we were welcomed and made to feel a part of the furniture....
ive had a pretty good reception in all the 3 clubs ive been to, whether as a couple or as a single girl. when i first saw this thread title i thought in terms of physical improvement to the venue's.......a certain club ive only been to the once and wouldnt ever go back as it was such a dingy hole! i mean....the amout they charge the single fellas (and there were plenty of them in that night) surely they can afford some basic renovations?
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We are new to the scene and recently visited a club / party. I had called the hostess the day before and explained that I was going to be new and nervous. The second I got throught the door hubby and I got a big hug and introduced to some people who were great. She also checked up on us several times throughout the night to check we were ok.
I guess if you are going somewhere as a newbie there, it would be worth calling.

This is an excellent example of getting things right. You will find that if you talk to the organisers they will gladly help you. lol
thanks guys for the help we might be better off if we go with somone else so at least we have company . but the most think we were trying to piont out is the inside of clubs we r sure that with the amount of money we all pay to go in they can do some changes even somtimes a lick of piant will do the place better .we went to this place were even the piant was fallen off the walls and the play rooms 6x6 no aircon it was horid . we r in germany for a wile and we been to clubs here and they r amazing inside clean never seen like it before and u only pay half the price of UK ones
The club we attend is very good with new people. They are shown round and introduced to a few people.
I have also never seen a couple left out by regulars who were talking. People are are invited into the group to join in the conversations.
My views on swinging clubs is theres good and bad in everything i have been to a few that are damn near perfect and some that you wouldn't tie your dog up outside, a lot could do much to inprove, like beds..... sorry but normal beds don't belong in swingers clubs they soak up body fluids and its just 'yalk' to be quite frank lol but i don't think you can say over all swinging clubs need to improve cause some are fine
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we have only ever used one, have been about 5 or 6 times now, and every time we have been we have always found fun. facilities are great. when we first went, we went on our own, it was nerve racking but after we were shown round and introduced to a few folk, it didn't take long before we were all getting along like a house on fire.
we have only ever used one, have been about 5 or 6 times now, and every time we have been we have always found fun. facilities are great. when we first went, we went on our own, it was nerve racking but after we were shown round and introduced to a few folk, it didn't take long before we were all getting along like a house on fire.
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We are new to the scene and recently visited a club / party. I had called the hostess the day before and explained that I was going to be new and nervous. The second I got throught the door hubby and I got a big hug and introduced to some people who were great. She also checked up on us several times throughout the night to check we were ok..

This happened to me too and it makes a huge difference. As a single fem newbie, I was apprehensive but introduced to a few people, personally shown around and checked up on, I felt welcome and at ease and I've been back for more several times.
The only thing AbFab could do to improve is maybe have an extra night mid-week!