Thanks for that, sounds like alot of fun! We initially joined this site for me to explore my bi-sexual side and are hoping to get this from our visit to club 101. Im just very nervous about approaching people! Lets hope a few beers help me!!!!
and dont worry hun most clubs have locked rooms so if you dont feel like sharing you can go into one of those
Earthy xx
Thats good to know, i just imagined lots of big rooms where anyone can join in or watch but i did read about the other rooms. Lets hope i find a lovely lady to play with :twisted:
oh and as for if you have to go all the way or soft swing, thats entirely up to you just make sure anyone you are intending to play with knows your boundaries and you know theres and you wont have a problem.
just have fun, i was a nervous wreck going to my first club, but its nowhere near as scary as you think it will be.
Earthy xx
Its good to know im not the only one who is a nervous wreck. I guess everybody is going to have their bounderies, and i may not be the only woman who doesnt think she could see her husband sleep with another woman. But then again i might feel different on the night!!
Now its time to look for an outfit :P
I was bricking it! Thankfully I was met by a lovely couple. Thanks to PandA for letting me join them.
It really helps if you can arrange to meet people you know from SH. Doesn't have to be to play - just nice to have someone to go with.
I was still really nervous but within a few minutes of sitting and chatting with them everything became relaxed and they in turn introduced me to others in the club. After spending some time together I’d then found my feet to explore and meet others.
All the couples in Chams I met seemed to be very respectfull.
Go for it. No good having a fantasy if you don't do anything about it.
Friday x
Hello Charliebunny, I've just actually posted a bit on another thread regarding our first visit to a club, if you want to read it that is! 
