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who was the first to suggest to start swinging and how did did you react to it
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who was the first to suggest to start swinging and how did did you react to it

Who was first? Mr or Mrs NE Couple? I dunno.
How did I react? I'll tell you when I know the answer to the above.
sorry vix, it was kinds me left some site for her to see ....... no reaction then let it all come out " would not mind seeing ya play with another fem" she said "cant do that" booked up for the sexcroft ,a good night ...me 1st with cloths off in bar ,...she "cant beleive you lol" up to playroom her a 3sum with 2 other fems then nothing said all week .think both our reaction was we werre stunned what we had done. took us a while to come to terms with it.
any other peaple any thought
I got thinking about it when some girls on another forum were discussing munch parties and one after another 'came out' as either swingers, doggers, bi, tried 3sums and moresomes etc, all the stories came out from the more sexually adventurous girls! It got censored shortly after as some other members got the hump but we discussed it more off site and the more I thought about it the more I fancied giving it a try.
I also started thinking about the bi fantasies that I had indulged in and the times I had crushes on women and thought maybe it was about time I took a chance to see if I liked the reality.
So I put an ad on here and another site, met a few guys for some nsa sex then went to a party with one of them where I indulged my bi-curiousness as well as my curiosity about group sex and I thoroughly enjoyed it! Since then I have only been to one other party which was even more of an eye opener (yes I mean you Satin wink ) and loved every minute so I am keen to do it again asap!
In between I have met more guys and had a great time! And tomorrow I will be at my first meet so that's another first experience for me. I feel liberated and fantastic!
yes no wat ya mean mq ,we a bit new just experementing ,satons party pics look very good entertaining redface
Ok - didn't have anyone to discuss it with first - being a single girl and all. But I WAS bi-curious - and being an open minded sort of girl with a "lets try everything at least once" view on life, so I met up with a couple of couples. I guess I was REALLY lucky in that both turned out to be really great, non pressured situations. That was 7 years ago. Now I'm back. Why? ---- well - why not continue to enjoy great situations? biggrin
Finding SH was the good thing for me - especially the cafe - 'cos now I know that I there is a whole world out ther with people who won't pressurise me , but may also lead me to try some of those things at least once :twisted:
funny enough northeast couple, my first party was at the same place as yours! They're a good bunch aren't they biggrin
we picked up on a site online by accident realy!!!!!!!
we both looked and thought this looks like great fun mmmmmmm.
we had been fantasizing for a while and wow what a thrill it was to think or wonder what it would be like to play with other partners .
so we took the plunge .
we met a couple and started there and with time it just gets better and more fun .
we dont do this just for sex its the friendships and the feelings you all get by meeting strangers , but most of all its fun fun fun !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
jaky xxxx
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funny enough northeast couple, my first party was at the same place as yours! They're a good bunch aren't they biggrin
yes they are we were a bit sat back ,just taking it all in ,then the games began and i ended up with no cloths on, well its a funny story remind us to tell you tomorrow cause it was a couple of weeks of thoughtful err regrets and guilt mmmm like we say thats another story
hehehehe
my first and second and third party was the same place as you 2 heheheh
and im always naked lol
nah not realy but very cheekey anyway
you should do more mq and northeast
jaky xxxx
No doubt I will asap after xmas Jaky, I want to go again for sure! Will get onto my special friends who might accompany me :twisted:
same here will give it ago again ,but wont drink £30 worth of red bulls
northeast realy bet you were quivering for days redbull must have given you more than wings the next morning hehehehe
Naked next time mq ???????
will be nice to see you again biggrin :shock: :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D
jaky xxxxxx
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we picked up on a site online by accident realy!!!!!!!
jaky xxxx

same as me. swinging had never crossed my mind untill i "stumbled" upon this sight. has a quick nose around and 8 months later i'm still here. and not budging!!
being a single bloke. i guess it was me that made the descision to swing... well lead the life of a swinger anyway
JGL
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northeast realy bet you were quivering for days redbull must have given you more than wings the next morning hehehehe
Naked next time mq ???????
will be nice to see you again biggrin :shock: :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D
jaky xxxxxx
yes it did well was mixed with vidka lol
us too and we cumming back here .
this life style is sooooooooo
adictive
jakyxxxx
Neither of us mentioned it first. We had a 3 some. It just kinda happened. Then we decided to look for more biggrin

I thought I would resurrect this post from 2004. Although not many use the forum, it would be interesting to see if there is any change in the way we all started.

Before 1999, we were just an ordinary, vanilla couple (to a point!) We did watch some porn and had sex in some really strange places. (But never where unsuspecting members of the public may have seen us.)Then we came across a site that had photos of gorgeous people, looking to meet others for some fun. So we looked about for more. The first site was Photo Personals. Innuendo wasn't sure, she though no one would want to meet, so we did a profile with her in undies "Charlie145". We were inundated! Not just from single guys, but couples and females as well. We never met anyone off of that site, but moved to another.

The next site was called Melanies. It was a great site and we did meet a couple from there in the October of 1999. Neither couple knew how to "start" so we had a meal. Then they said goodnight and went! BUT... We were very lucky to meet a couple from Derby. They invited us to their house and said to just watch. We did and we loved it. Next time was soft swap. We were hooked..

We lost our virgin cherries for full swap with a local couple. We soft swapped once and at the end of the evening, told them that next time, we would full swap and that is what we did. Bizarrely, we found out we had played with his sister and her partner some months before. They lived in Eastbourne, we, Both couples) lived in Wellingborough! Hows that for spooky!

We were one of those lucky couples who met via the site. 18 years later very happy together and still play with others when the right singles or couples cross our path, or we go to clubs.