Swinging - miscellaneous thread

14 Jul 2007

hotels?when no one in a meet can accom,(we got a meet this w/end and other cpl booked)we aint ever done a hotel meet before ,how do you feel when your ready to go to the room and you have to pass reception ,trying to keep that guilty look off your face redface

the other cpl had booked the room and the receptionist actually said "is this for a orgy" the mr of the cpl said no for a biz meeting and asked to see the manager any way in end e thought was to dear and cancelled the room ,tbh we were glad cause after they had the arguement i dont think we coulda done the walk by bit lol

14 Jul 2007

for us kissing is a part of sex so we kiss and not had any couples not wanting it.
question safe sex is a must, but girls do you take a blow job to completion ?
I do if it feels right :shock: :shock:

14 Jul 2007

Quote by northeastcoupleuk
the other cpl had booked the room and the receptionist actually said "is this for a orgy" the mr of the cpl said no for a biz meeting and asked to see the manager any way in end e thought was to dear and cancelled the room

I'd have complained and got a reduction - fancy the receptionist asking that! Most (vanilla) folks would have found that very offensive! confused

14 Jul 2007

Quote by Freckledbird

the other cpl had booked the room and the receptionist actually said "is this for a orgy" the mr of the cpl said no for a biz meeting and asked to see the manager any way in end e thought was to dear and cancelled the room

I'd have complained and got a reduction - fancy the receptionist asking that! Most (vanilla) folks would have found that very offensive! confused

to be honest ,i would not have even tryed to book after what she said ,our faces would of been to red redface

but ws the other cpl who booked,dont think we could of even tryed to go past reception after that.

14 Jul 2007

Quote by meat2pleaseu
And Dawnie, i do love a good kissing session so get your tight little ass over here :giggle:

I think I had better buy myself some lip balm :giggle:

Quote by hisandhers

Ooooooooooooooooooo was she that good then? :rascal:

Dawnie, Dawnie, straight then are we :giggle:
Who said I've been kissing the girlies dunno

Admittedly I never said it wasn't :rascal:

14 Jul 2007

Quote by Freckledbird

I get extremely horny at a meet and always have to make love when we get home just the two of us, that's the finale of the evening and sometimes the more intense of the orgasms from the whole evening.

Yep, we do that - kind of 'go back' to one another.
and that's what it's all about at the end of the day isn't it? the love between the two of you - the rest is enhanced fun :rascal:

14 Jul 2007

we do the same get back say 2 in the morning and then have sex
I had 3 at home not counting the ones I had at the meet.

14 Jul 2007

Quote by essex34m
I have had the occasional snog and enjoyed it

Just the occasional snog?? :shock:
And I know of one other you've still to experience Widey! wink

Fee
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14 Jul 2007

Quote by BiWelshMinx

Have you ever fancied someone really badly but had a good old snog and it hasn't worked at all, even turned you off?

Yes

Too much dribble and tongues to see him again :shock:
Look
I did apologise about that. I take it you didn't believe the story about having just been at the dentist???
With regards to snogging......I just love it, some people can obviously kiss better than others.
I did have one kiss recently that had a major impact but she knows that anyway wink

14 Jul 2007

Quote by louise_and_joe
...do you think its a good idea to act out all your fantasy's or keep a few hidden away just as fantasy's.

I doubt if I acted out my fantasies that they would live up to my very active imagination so they will probably stay firmly in my mind only wink

Quote by Dawnie
Have you ever fancied someone really badly but had a good old snog and it hasn't worked at all, even turned you off?

Yep

Quote by Dawnie
Have you not really looked at someone with any intent but ended up snogging someone and thought woooooohhhhhhhooooo :rascal:

Yes and it really surprised me!

Quote by Dawnie
Do you snog someone to aid your decision on if you want to play with them

Yes I do. I don't think I've ever slept with someone without snogging them first to check 'em out! biggrin

Fee
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14 Jul 2007

Quote by Mr-Powers
What do you tell the babysitter where your going,when your all dressed up in a PVC outfit?

do they do them in your size now......... :shock:

14 Jul 2007

hang on a minute, some people DON'T kiss!?!? :doh:
But how can you have sensual or even purely sexual fun without it?
And sure, I've too been disappointed by bad kissers, but then I just carry on kissing everything else. :lickface:
Seriously though,a good snog is almost a complete sex. I love it. LOVE IT!

14 Jul 2007

Quote by louise_and_joe
Ive got a question regarding fantasy's.
We all have fantasy's, im sure but do you think its a good idea to act out all your fantasy's or keep a few hidden away just as fantasy's.
I have one or two that might be considered a little extreme :shock: and apart from Joe have only told one other person here what they are.
Although I think about them sometimes, I wonder if I might shock myself by arranging to act them out.
What I would call mild fantasy's, I have acted upon and really enjoyed :thumbup:
The extreme ones, I dont know about. I might put myself off for life :giggle:
So, act them out, or not?
Louise xx
Ps I cant tell you what they are, I have a reputation to protect

Ah, but you see, if you DID tell me what they were, I'd be able to tell you whether you should make them happen or not. wink

Seriously though, as long as no one is getting hurt, what is the harm in trying them out. After all, you will either love having the memory of it for years to come, or your brain will jsut move on and make up a new one. I think you win either way. Personally, thefew of my fatasiez that I have realised, I still love, and the few that haven't - I can't wait to. mmmmmmmm

14 Jul 2007

Quote by Amarcord
Ah, but you see, if you DID tell me what they were, I'd be able to tell you whether you should make them happen or not.

Thats my job :rascal:

Quote by Amarcord
Seriously though, as long as no one is getting hurt, what is the harm in trying them out. After all, you will either love having the memory of it for years to come, or your brain will jsut move on and make up a new one. I think you win either way. Personally, thefew of my fatasiez that I have realised, I still love, and the few that haven't - I can't wait to. mmmmmmmm

I think some fantasies are best left as that...

16 Jul 2007

My next misc qustion, well it's a moan really and before you all jump at me and whinge about whingers whingeing lol

hear me out...
Why are so many people embarrased to say NO to people? I have got really frustrated at two recent(ish) PM conversations I've had with male halves of couples all going seemingly well, similar profiles, looking for same etc even one got to MSN, pic swapping etc. The all goes dead, no replies to our (polite, no pressure) PM's.
Now I know the valid reason may be:
1. Single male posing as couple, but honestly neither of these seemed that at all and believe me I have radars built in for that, neither what they were saying nor their range of pics on MSN implied this
2. The wife simply didn't fancy Blue's pics and didn't want to take it any further
Now we can accept these reasons, part of it all, but I would prefer people to simply say "No you're not what we're looking for" than ignore us.
It's become a real bug bear with me though, I get so irritated by impolite people in any walk of life from people not saying thanks you when you open a door for them to swingers not responding to polite PM's following up previous conversations.
I have even put in our profile and PM's we like honesty, please just say so, we really are not offended and prefer to know rather than not hear anything. Does this serve to put people off further? remember these are people we have at least establised a common interest in the first place not cold PM's
So I guess my question is do you not reply because you are embarrased to say NO?
pink x

16 Jul 2007

Quote by blueandpink
So I guess my question is do you not reply because you are embarrased to say NO?

If we weren't interested we'd say no.

16 Jul 2007

Quote by Freckledbird

So I guess my question is do you not reply because you are embarrased to say NO?

If we weren't interested we'd say no.
Now why doesn't that surprise me? :giggle:

16 Jul 2007

Quote by blueandpink

So I guess my question is do you not reply because you are embarrased to say NO?

If we weren't interested we'd say no.
Now why doesn't that surprise me? :giggle:
It doesn't surprise me either because people, as you quite understandably desire, respect honesty and the courage to say it as it is.
The other manifestation of lacking the courage to just say 'No' is to fabricate some reason as to why it is the other person's fault that the meet shouldn't take place. I recall a tale of a poor guy on here who was blown out by a couple because he had the temerity to suggest that they meet in a hotel FFS! rolleyes

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16 Jul 2007

Quote by blueandpink
Why are so many people embarrased to say NO to people? pink x

You're right to be pissed off. Absolutely!
However, I'd like to suggest 2 possible reasons. For one - the English middle classes (warning, a gross generalisation coming up innocent

) tend to be very polite, but I've noticed over the years that this politeness often leads to rudeness - they don't want to say no because they don't want to seem rude, or offend or hurt you, so they just back off (making themselves twice as rude, in the process). :doh:
Unfortunately, there is also the opposite reason - because of all the anonimity in swinging, some people feel unobliged to be polite ("it's not like I'm ever gonna meet them, again" - is not an uncommon phrase, is it?). In other words, they bottle out in the last minute for whatever personal reason they may have, ("oh, you mean we actually have to do it?") and then they just walk away, because you don't know where they live and they won't see you at the school drop off, tomorrw morning. :fuckinghell:

17 Jul 2007

Quote by Amarcord
Why are so many people embarrased to say NO to people? pink x

You're right to be pissed off. Absolutely!
However, I'd like to suggest 2 possible reasons. For one - the English middle classes (warning, a gross generalisation coming up innocent

) tend to be very polite, but I've noticed over the years that this politeness often leads to rudeness - they don't want to say no because they don't want to seem rude, or offend or hurt you, so they just back off (making themselves twice as rude, in the process). :doh:
Unfortunately, there is also the opposite reason - because of all the anonimity in swinging, some people feel unobliged to be polite ("it's not like I'm ever gonna meet them, again" - is not an uncommon phrase, is it?). In other words, they bottle out in the last minute for whatever personal reason they may have, ("oh, you mean we actually have to do it?") and then they just walk away, because you don't know where they live and they won't see you at the school drop off, tomorrw morning. :fuckinghell:
Hit the nail on the head Amarcord. Thanks.