Swinging - miscellaneous thread

13 Jul 2007

Ok so we often see the same old topics coming up on the Forum and threads then just die with little interest.
I know we all like different threads but I particularly like swinging related ones, we are after all NOT A KNITTING CIRCLE as so many people say and I love to read and talk about swinging issues. redface

SO...............
This is the miscellaneous thread, ask any question about swinging you've always wanted to ask but not wanted to start a thread or hijack one. Tell a funny swinging story. Open up a discussion on our naughty old lifestyle. Whatever. It's an open forum.
pink x

13 Jul 2007

Ive got a question regarding fantasy's.
We all have fantasy's, im sure but do you think its a good idea to act out all your fantasy's or keep a few hidden away just as fantasy's.
I have one or two that might be considered a little extreme :shock: and apart from Joe have only told one other person here what they are.
Although I think about them sometimes, I wonder if I might shock myself by arranging to act them out.
What I would call mild fantasy's, I have acted upon and really enjoyed :thumbup:
The extreme ones, I dont know about. I might put myself off for life :giggle:
So, act them out, or not?
Louise xx
Ps I cant tell you what they are, I have a reputation to protect lol

13 Jul 2007

Quote by louise_and_joe
Ive got a question regarding fantasy's.
We all have fantasy's, im sure but do you think its a good idea to act out all your fantasy's or keep a few hidden away just as fantasy's.
I have one or two that might be considered a little extreme :shock: and apart from Joe have only told one other person here what they are.
Although I think about them sometimes, I wonder if I might shock myself by arranging to act them out.
What I would call mild fantasy's, I have acted upon and really enjoyed :thumbup:
The extreme ones, I dont know about. I might put myself off for life :giggle:
So, act them out, or not?
Louise xx
Ps I cant tell you what they are, I have a reputation to protect

Good question Louise, I think most people probably have different kinds that fall into two camps, easy to act out and enjoy and ones best left as fantasties....dunno...that's my guess anyway, the extreme ones are maybe our inner minds whirring but our practical, sensible minds takeover dunno

pink x

13 Jul 2007

I would love to know what people think of kissing confused

I know some people kiss during swinging and others don't which is fair enough but just recently my reasons to kiss have crossed my mind :?
Have you ever fancied someone really badly but had a good old snog and it hasn't worked at all, even turned you off?
OR
Have you not really looked at someone with any intent but ended up snogging someone and thought woooooohhhhhhhooooo :rascal:
OR
Do you snog someone to aid your decision on if you want to play with them dunno

13 Jul 2007

Quote by Dawnie
Have you ever fancied someone really badly but had a good old snog and it hasn't worked at all, even turned you off?

Yes

Too much dribble and tongues to see him again :shock:

Quote by Dawnie
Have you not really looked at someone with any intent but ended up snogging someone and thought woooooohhhhhhhooooo :rascal:

More times than I care to remember
lol

13 Jul 2007

Quote by Dawnie
I would love to know what people think of kissing
Absolutely adore kissing, an essential part of swinging for me
I know some people kiss during swinging and others don't which is fair enough but just recently my reasons to kiss have crossed my mind :?
Have you ever fancied someone really badly but had a good old snog and it hasn't worked at all, even turned you off?
Yes, gorgeous guy, crap kisser, thought he'd improve thr further we got, but sadly no!
OR
Have you not really looked at someone with any intent but ended up snogging someone and thought woooooohhhhhhhooooo :rascal:
OR
Do you snog someone to aid your decision on if you want to play with them

To question above:
No, choice of playing for me is a mix of things, but if he's not a great kisser then I just concentrate on other areas, but non excellent kissers do not get repeat tickets! lol

pink x

13 Jul 2007

the wife and i love kissing while swinging...so far its not been a problem with other couples...i have even been told what a good kisser i am.....to be honest...it just wouldn't be the same not being able to snog someone's face while shagging them!

13 Jul 2007

James Blunt song comes to mind here:
I saw your face, in a crouded place, all I want is you
& they are vanillas :cry:
oh well never mind come here you lot passionkiss

13 Jul 2007

Random swinging question:
Have you ever faked it during a meet? If so, was it to save the other persons' blushes or just to get it over with ?
OR
Do you suspect someone you've played with has faked it and how pissed off were you? :lol2:

13 Jul 2007

Quote by BiWelshMinx
Have you ever faked it during a meet? If so, was it to save the other persons' blushes or just to get it over with ?

Nope, I have never ever faked it. If I can't quite get there, I'll finish it myself :lol2:

Quote by BiWelshMinx
you suspect someone you've played with has faked it and how pissed off were you? :lol2:

I don't think so, I tend to have evidence to prove they haven't faked :rascal:

13 Jul 2007

I'm actually going to answer my own questions :lol2:

Quote by Dawnie
Have you ever fancied someone really badly but had a good old snog and it hasn't worked at all, even turned you off?

Yep, just the once and I was very disappointed at the time

Quote by Dawnie
Have you not really looked at someone with any intent but ended up snogging someone and thought woooooohhhhhhhooooo :rascal:

Yep, just the once so far confused

Quote by Dawnie
Do you snog someone to aid your decision on if you want to play with them

I think I have decided that I would do this because kissing is important to me :?

13 Jul 2007

I've faked it in vanilla world, my hangover suddenly kicked in and i needed a lie down redface

And Dawnie, i do love a good kissing session so get your tight little ass over here passionkiss

:giggle:

13 Jul 2007

Quote by Dawnie
I would love to know what people think of kissing
I know some people kiss during swinging and others don't which is fair enough but just recently my reasons to kiss have crossed my mind :?
We love kissing but have met folks who don't and it's not really been a problem.
Have you ever fancied someone really badly but had a good old snog and it hasn't worked at all, even turned you off?
Nope
OR
Have you not really looked at someone with any intent but ended up snogging someone and thought woooooohhhhhhhooooo :rascal:
Ohh yesssssss
OR
Do you snog someone to aid your decision on if you want to play with them
Nope

13 Jul 2007

Quote by Dawnie
I'm actually going to answer my own questions :lol2:

Have you not really looked at someone with any intent but ended up snogging someone and thought woooooohhhhhhhooooo :rascal:

Yep, just the once so far confused

Ooooooooooooooooooo was she that good then? :rascal: lol

13 Jul 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
I'm actually going to answer my own questions :lol2:

Have you not really looked at someone with any intent but ended up snogging someone and thought woooooohhhhhhhooooo :rascal:

Yep, just the once so far confused

Ooooooooooooooooooo was she that good then? :rascal: lol

Dawnie, Dawnie, straight then are we :giggle:

13 Jul 2007

Quote by louise_and_joe
Ive got a question regarding fantasy's.
We all have fantasy's, im sure but do you think its a good idea to act out all your fantasy's or keep a few hidden away just as fantasy's.
I have one or two that might be considered a little extreme :shock: and apart from Joe have only told one other person here what they are.
Although I think about them sometimes, I wonder if I might shock myself by arranging to act them out.
What I would call mild fantasy's, I have acted upon and really enjoyed :thumbup:
The extreme ones, I dont know about. I might put myself off for life :giggle:
So, act them out, or not?
Louise xx

i'd probably say, if you've had positive experiences so far, more often than not with exploring your fantasies, then you might as well keep on going with the flow, and explore a few more.
course, chances are it could well turn that some fantasies would maybe have been better left as fantasies, and nothing more, and the deeper and darker the fantasy, the more you need to explore it mentality, in depth, before you come anywhere near acting it out.
neil x x x ;)

Ps I cant tell you what they are, I have a reputation to protect

can't you even whisper them so noone will hear? we're all intrigued now! ;)

13 Jul 2007

Louise, if you type in pink and really small font, only the true perves can see it wink

13 Jul 2007

Quote by Dawnie
I would love to know what people think of kissing
I know some people kiss during swinging and others don't which is fair enough but just recently my reasons to kiss have crossed my mind :?
Have you ever fancied someone really badly but had a good old snog and it hasn't worked at all, even turned you off? yep! :?
OR
Have you not really looked at someone with any intent but ended up snogging someone and thought woooooohhhhhhhooooo :rascal: yep!
OR
Do you snog someone to aid your decision on if you want to play with them yep! ;)

next question? lol

neil x x x ;)

13 Jul 2007

I have to say I'm not one for kissing other men much, I've kissed ladies but for me personally, full on snogging with tongues etc is a part of Jay and I. Everyone's different I know but that's just me. I'll kiss every other part of the body but don't do the snoggin! (although there is one particular man, he knows who he is and he got the sensual kissing... cool

).
As for faking it, no I've never done that, I'm a "jolter" when I have an orgasm and it's pretty hard to fake that.
I get extremely horny at a meet and always have to make love when we get home just the two of us, that's the finale of the evening and sometimes the more intense of the orgasms from the whole evening.

14 Jul 2007

Quote by jaymar
I get extremely horny at a meet and always have to make love when we get home just the two of us, that's the finale of the evening and sometimes the more intense of the orgasms from the whole evening.

Yep, we do that - kind of 'go back' to one another.

14 Jul 2007

Quote by Freckledbird
Louise, if you type in pink and really small font, only the true perves can see it

Unless like me you cannot read the small print without glasses, you hit the quote button and read it all lol

Off to perv :lol:

14 Jul 2007

Quote by Dawnie
I would love to know what people think of kissing
love kissing! i can see why some couples wont/dont do it in a swinging situation. but for us the more kissing the better!
I know some people kiss during swinging and others don't which is fair enough but just recently my reasons to kiss have crossed my mind :?
Have you ever fancied someone really badly but had a good old snog and it hasn't worked at all, even turned you off?

yes! and eugh it was like kissing a dyson with a wriggly eel in my mouth
OR
Have you not really looked at someone with any intent but ended up snogging someone and thought woooooohhhhhhhooooo :rascal:
yes - just the once... so far
OR
Do you snog someone to aid your decision on if you want to play with them
Usually by the time we get to kissing i have made my mind up mentally anyway, however it can mean the difference from enjoying and REALLY enjoying a meet

14 Jul 2007

I have had the occasional snog and enjoyed it redface

14 Jul 2007

Quote by hisandhers
James Blunt song comes to mind here:
I saw your face, in a crouded place, all I want is you
& they are vanillas :cry:
oh well never mind come here you lot

oooh hers, know that problem. We've got new neighbours silly

hwoar: they really are good enough to eat wink

and she's so sexy she's making my shy bi side pop up! :lol:

14 Jul 2007

Quote by jaymar
always have to make love when we get home just the two of us, that's the finale of the evening and sometimes the more intense of the orgasms from the whole evening.

Same here.

14 Jul 2007

What do you tell the babysitter where your going,when your all dressed up in a PVC outfit?

14 Jul 2007

Quote by Mr-Powers
What do you tell the babysitter where your going,when your all dressed up in a PVC outfit?

If you get Mrs Powers to dress in PVC too you could tell the babysitter you're going to a fancy dress party. cool

14 Jul 2007

Quote by Mr-Powers
What do you tell the babysitter where your going,when your all dressed up in a PVC outfit?

Ah now when we go to clubs, the kids are generally staying over at someone else's so we have that blissful time to get ready and can leave the house in our playing clothes which (so far) mostly are no different to normal clothes just a little tighter and sexier.
Once my sister was staying and babysitting while we went to a meet. The idea of the meet was turn up in underwear and stockings just under a coat. I put on a dress over the whole look and a cardigan to cover up the cleavage) to say bye to my sis then whipped the dress off in layby ready for our meet.
Will be wearing my new pvc boots tonight, but are travelling there first then changing when we get there (fancy dress - skirt too short for public consumption redface

) as we're dropping the kids off on the way.
Good question Mr P.
pink x

14 Jul 2007

Quote by northwest-cpl
What do you tell the babysitter where your going,when your all dressed up in a PVC outfit?

If you get Mrs Powers to dress in PVC too you could tell the babysitter you're going to a fancy dress party. cool

true....but how many times can you use the fancy dress party excuse? lol

.....shame hollowe'en is only once night a year! :lol:

14 Jul 2007

Quote by blueandpink
What do you tell the babysitter where your going,when your all dressed up in a PVC outfit?

Ah now when we go to clubs, the kids are generally staying over at someone else's so we have that blissful time to get ready and can leave the house in our playing clothes which (so far) mostly are no different to normal clothes just a little tighter and sexier.
Once my sister was staying and babysitting while we went to a meet. The idea of the meet was turn up in underwear and stockings just under a coat. I put on a dress over the whole look and a cardigan to cover up the cleavage) to say bye to my sis then whipped the dress off in layby ready for our meet.
Will be wearing my new pvc boots tonight, but are travelling there first then changing when we get there (fancy dress - skirt too short for public consumption redface

) as we're dropping the kids off on the way.
Good question Mr P.
pink x
yes...could get changed at the club...best to put the bag in the car before sitter turns up!