It seems that the in the majority of couples the fem is bi and the man is straight. Is that true? Were the bi fems bi curious before they got into swinging, or did curiousity get the better of them when they got involved in the sensuality of swinging. Sensual is not bi (although she admits to having had some bi thoughts in the past) Are there many other straight fems out there who enjoy a full swinging lifestyle as part of a couple. I am not talking about fems who play on their own, or separate to their partner, but as couples together.
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Sex God
Just because someone is bi doesnt mean they have to have sexual contact with a member of the same sex when part of a couple..
Bi people can be straight as well...
Bi people can be straight as well...
When we did have ads running it was based on the fact Ian and I are straight 
I think there are so many different relationships and couples advertising on here that it would be wrong to presume that most females are bi.
There is also the question of how Bi a person is, such as liking kissing ladies and being Boobie Bi but not fully Bi.
(Thanks Easy, been trying to get Boobie Bi into a post since Notts
)
I would play with a couple if the female was Bi, doesn't mean she is going to touch me :?
(OK so I'm probably not the best person to comment on this thread so shut up at the back :lol2
I think there are so many different relationships and couples advertising on here that it would be wrong to presume that most females are bi.
There is also the question of how Bi a person is, such as liking kissing ladies and being Boobie Bi but not fully Bi.
(Thanks Easy, been trying to get Boobie Bi into a post since Notts
)I would play with a couple if the female was Bi, doesn't mean she is going to touch me :?
(OK so I'm probably not the best person to comment on this thread so shut up at the back :lol2
Sex God
Quote by Dawnie
(OK so I'm probably not the best person to comment on this thread so shut up at the back :lol2
Boobie bi 
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Like Mallock said bi people can be straight as well but it all comes down to if you feel comfortable with being in an intimate situation with someone who is bi when you are not. Also an element of trust helps
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: Like Mallock said bi people can be straight as well but it all comes down to if you feel comfortable with being in an intimate situation with someone who is bi when you are not. Also an element of trust helps
There are a lot of straight couples here, but as has already been said just because a person is Bi it doesn't mean they always want to play with people of the same sex.
I have stated on my profile that I'm Bi as I have had bi experiences and do enjoy it, but the reality is I'm much more into men than women and am often more inclined to play straight.
My advice would be if you like a couple, but there profile states that the female is bi, also look at what they're looking for. Some people may only be looking for other couples with a bi female, some state straight couples as well.
I have stated on my profile that I'm Bi as I have had bi experiences and do enjoy it, but the reality is I'm much more into men than women and am often more inclined to play straight.
My advice would be if you like a couple, but there profile states that the female is bi, also look at what they're looking for. Some people may only be looking for other couples with a bi female, some state straight couples as well.
Sex God
It seems that the in the majority of couples the fem is bi and the man is straight. Is that true? Were the bi fems bi curious before they got into swinging, or did curiousity get the better of them when they got involved in the sensuality of swinging. Sensual is not bi (although she admits to having had some bi thoughts in the past) Are there many other straight fems out there who enjoy a full swinging lifestyle as part of a couple. I am not talking about fems who play on their own, or separate to their partner, but as couples together.
Hi and welcome guys, :welcome: great avatar and nice ad you've written.
I class myself as bi-curious and have had kissing and boobie play (love that phrase of Boobie-bi Dawnie) and other girls have done more to me but I am not ready to do more yet...I'm curious just not felt right in the situation yet as we've only been swinging a few months. Simply put I like the men far too much....and 95% of my play has been straight.
As for was I curious before we got into swinging - yes a little but then swinging is about enjoying sensual moments with others and if that "other" happens to be a woman I am attracted to then it'll happen.
pink x
Sex God
Quote by winchwench
Love tha Avatar & :welcome: to S.H.
I have nothing sensible to add at all, I just have visions of Dawnie singing
:karaoke: Bi Bi Boobie, Boobie Bi Biiiiiieeee
It was funny in my head!
And I now have an image of Dawnie waving a tartan scarf over head, whilst singing that!
Sex God
Quote by Freckledbird
Love tha Avatar & :welcome: to S.H.
I have nothing sensible to add at all, I just have visions of Dawnie singing
:karaoke: Bi Bi Boobie, Boobie Bi Biiiiiieeee
It was funny in my head!
And I now have an image of Dawnie waving a tartan scarf over head, whilst singing that!
And I have visions of Dawnie doing some
:smackbottom: :smackbottom: :giggle: :giggle:
Sexlightened
Welcome Strong and Sensual - lovely avatar
:swingingchair:
I can't speak as part of a couple at the moment - I'm a bi single female, but I've always been interested in women, and the more I get into it the more I enjoy both women and men, though as a member of a couple in the past I was Bi but not interested in having a mff three some while part of the couple, guess that doesn't really address your question - but welcome any way
Amber xx
:swingingchair:
I can't speak as part of a couple at the moment - I'm a bi single female, but I've always been interested in women, and the more I get into it the more I enjoy both women and men, though as a member of a couple in the past I was Bi but not interested in having a mff three some while part of the couple, guess that doesn't really address your question - but welcome any way
Amber xx
Warming the Bed
Red is both straight and perfectly happy to "enjoy a full swinging lifestyle as part of a couple". Never been a problem for us, as long as others understand that when Red says she's straight she mean exactly that. If anything swinging has reinforced that. The only times we have had problems when meeting couples with bi-fems has been when said b-fem assumes she can "convert" Red. Not a good idea......
CB
CB
Casanova
& :welcome: I was bi-curious for years before i started swinging and would now say im bi-sexual,but that doesnt mean i want sex with all bi-women, just as i dont want sex with all men. There has to be a connection/attraction for me to want to have sex with either. Most bi-females are very respectful and dont go around trying to convert the straight and quite often swing as a straight fem even when the other fem is also bi.
My personal path from curious to full bi was one that progressed at its own speed. I enjoyed many soft bi experiences and recieved many times before i just naturaly responded and returned the gift.
Hope this makes sense
Nicky
Quote by Freckledbird
Love tha Avatar & :welcome: to S.H.
I have nothing sensible to add at all, I just have visions of Dawnie singing
:karaoke: Bi Bi Boobie, Boobie Bi Biiiiiieeee
It was funny in my head!
And I now have an image of Dawnie waving a tartan scarf over head, whilst singing that!
:rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao:Not with my singing, just isn't happening :eeek:
Sex God
I was curious a long time before I considered swinging or even knew it existed to be honest. To the extent that I worried myself sick for a while that perhaps I was really a lesbian and had a married a man and it was all a huge mistake. Even though I enjoyed sex with my husband. Being Bi was'nt really something I really understood. I just thought you liked men or you liked women.
HOWEVER now I know different and I am most definately bi and enjoying every minute of the sheer deliciousness of it :twisted:
HOWEVER now I know different and I am most definately bi and enjoying every minute of the sheer deliciousness of it :twisted:
Sex God
I am straight, but that doesnt mean i wont play with a couple that has a bi male,
i think like anysituation, you have to be comfatable, and lay out the boundries, so you know what and how would be acceptable
Mike
i think like anysituation, you have to be comfatable, and lay out the boundries, so you know what and how would be acceptable
Mike
Sexlightened
Quote by strong and sensual
It seems that the in the majority of couples the fem is bi and the man is straight. Is that true? Were the bi fems bi curious before they got into swinging, or did curiousity get the better of them when they got involved in the sensuality of swinging. Sensual is not bi (although she admits to having had some bi thoughts in the past) Are there many other straight fems out there who enjoy a full swinging lifestyle as part of a couple. I am not talking about fems who play on their own, or separate to their partner, but as couples together.
dee is not bi-sexual. although she is not adverse to being touched by a female she would describe herself as straight
Quote by strong and sensual
It seems that the in the majority of couples the fem is bi and the man is straight. Is that true? Were the bi fems bi curious before they got into swinging, or did curiousity get the better of them when they got involved in the sensuality of swinging. Sensual is not bi (although she admits to having had some bi thoughts in the past) Are there many other straight fems out there who enjoy a full swinging lifestyle as part of a couple. I am not talking about fems who play on their own, or separate to their partner, but as couples together.
i'm sure there are lots of couples with bi fems that would be happy to meet str8 couples and the women play only with the guy, tho i have to admit we was turned down in the past by a str8 couples cause the women was scared i would look at her naked in a sexual way :lol2: had to laugh wouldn't have minded but she wasn't my type anyway
i think there are a lot more bi males in couples that will admit to it as they are scared it will put other couples with str8 males off, sad really that people think cause your bi you HAVE to play with people your own sex and i also find it odd why some str8 people are so scared of bi ones to the point that they not even be seen naked by them Quote by Dee_Vic
It seems that the in the majority of couples the fem is bi and the man is straight. Is that true? Were the bi fems bi curious before they got into swinging, or did curiousity get the better of them when they got involved in the sensuality of swinging. Sensual is not bi (although she admits to having had some bi thoughts in the past) Are there many other straight fems out there who enjoy a full swinging lifestyle as part of a couple. I am not talking about fems who play on their own, or separate to their partner, but as couples together.
dee is not bi-sexual. although she is not adverse to being touched by a female she would describe herself as straight
Morbius is straight but in a similar vein will not be put off playing with a bi-male ... we just call it bi-friendly.
There isn't any specific intention for him to play with the same sex but he won't run a mile should male to male contact occur.
Cx
Sex God
mrs north aint bi but her girl freind is
