Hi guys,
We are inexperienced newbies to the swinging scene and after lots of discussion we have decided that the first step for us should be a swinging club.
However we are not entirely sure what to expect so we would appreciate some advice from the "experts" out there.
We were wondering if there is anything we should or shouldnt do as first timers and what should we expect when we first get there...?
Also, what is the usual thing to wear? We realise the obvious answer is "whatever feels comfortable" but is there anything too tame or too outrageous? Issey likes the idea of wearing a schoolgirl type outfit but I dont think it would suit me and would feel more comfortable in trousers and a shirt lol.
We look forward to some honest advice...
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Swinging Clubs - Advice Needed
I would say with regards to what to wear, why don't you ring the Club that you are thinking of going to and ask them?
I would advise you both to sit down and talk about what your boundaries are....what you will and won't do...and stick to that on the night...
Swinging Clubs are not all about walking in there and getting jumped on...you will go in, sit around chatting for a while and then maybe start chatting to other couples or single men or single females...
Things are usually pretty relaxed in Swinging Clubs in my experience...so you can do things at your own pace...so don't worry!!
I would advise you both to sit down and talk about what your boundaries are....what you will and won't do...and stick to that on the night...
Swinging Clubs are not all about walking in there and getting jumped on...you will go in, sit around chatting for a while and then maybe start chatting to other couples or single men or single females...
Things are usually pretty relaxed in Swinging Clubs in my experience...so you can do things at your own pace...so don't worry!!
