Swinging Clubs!!??

25 Mar 2006

we have decided to take the plunge after a year on the site and having had only three meetings (we are ever soooo picky lol

) we are thinking about going to a swinging club :shock: :shock:
we have no idea what this might entail and are not sure what transpires at these dens of iniquity but im sure some of you great ppl can enlighten us, and before some of you more unscrupulous piss taker vulture types get in there first (yes we know you are out there :lol: ) we DO realise SWINGING takes place!!
what we want to know is, do we have to get involved if we feel we donot want to and also what is the dress code usually for a guy in his late 20's and a very fine looking lady in her early 20's. are there evenings that are best for swingclub virgins that are not as full on as others etc, and what are the costs.
any information and invites by regulars at NEast or NWest Clubs (we dont mind travelling) to show us the ropes would be very much appreciated cool

steanrachy

25 Mar 2006

there is advice on swinging clubs in the information section under advice which should help..
i went to my first club last night and was terrified, but it was fine, dress depends up on the individual clubs dress code, and as for playing, there is no pressure there are areas where no play goes on, and there is no pressure to do anything you want, i went to Chameleons in darleston and was very impressed and relaxed in no time.

25 Mar 2006

check out wot clubs are in ur area and wot reviews that they have
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/clubs/index.html
have fun
chesty
xxxx

25 Mar 2006

were the same really pickey lol, but we can beat your three meets ...........2 meets :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: like you said....and like we said picky :giggle:

Quote by steanrachy
we have decided to take the plunge after a year on the site and having had only three meetings (we are ever soooo picky ) we are thinking about going to a swinging club :shock: :shock:
we have no idea what this might entail and are not sure what transpires at these dens of iniquity but im sure some of you great ppl can enlighten us, and before some of you more unscrupulous piss taker vulture types get in there first (yes we know you are out there :lol: ) we DO realise SWINGING takes place!!
what we want to know is, do we have to get involved if we feel we donot want to and also what is the dress code usually for a guy in his late 20's and a very fine looking lady in her early 20's. are there evenings that are best for swingclub virgins that are not as full on as others etc, and what are the costs.
any information and invites by regulars at NEast or NWest Clubs (we dont mind travelling) to show us the ropes would be very much appreciated
steanrachy

25 Mar 2006

thanks guys i had looked through the clubs section but was wanting a more personalised bit of imput from ppl who had visited the clubs hence the thread, very much appreciate all advice etc, there's nothing like word of mouth! lol

25 Mar 2006

come tonight theres 8 of us meeting for a drink then to club f

25 Mar 2006

:shock:

25 Mar 2006

thanks for the info guys biggrin

26 Mar 2006

what we want to know is, do we have to get involved if we feel we do not want

ABSOLUTELY NOT! lots of people go to a swinging club at times purely to lounge about half naked and have a drink and a chat soaking up the atmosphere, much like any other club you'd care to visit. if anyone really tried pressuring you, or forcing their attentions on you, management and other club goers would i'm sure take a very dim view of it indeed! your mere presence at the club does not signal intent to play! permission should always be asked, and obtained . . . . pretty much everyone knows that.
dress code . . . a towel, underwear, lingerie, fetish wear, whatever you're comfy in . . . so long as it ain't everyday clothes.
typical costs for a couple . . . about 20 quid on average. some are a touch less, some a touch more. some have membership fees. most i've been to don't.
best nights . . . depends? are you happier with a couples only night? most have them?
i'm not a big clubber, but found cupids and utopia are fantastic. they have enough facilities there that you really can go just for the social side of things and find your feet without feeling like you've missed out. ;)