Swinging/Meets/Dogging Etiquette..........

14 May 2010

Everyone seems to have their own etiquette when it comes to Meeting and Dogging. What's yours? I thought it would be interesting to see how the relatively new people's views matched up to the more seasoned people on the site.
Sensible answers and down right amusing ones more than welcome smile

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You never know it may educate some of the more naive or downright rude people that crop up on here :).....
Gary xx.

15 May 2010

I think it depends on the situation/people involved.
My 'meet etiquette' is largely based on me being a single female and therefore needing to feel safe at all times.
As a result, I suppose my list of 'dos' would perhaps be different from other people's. My list of 'don'ts' are probably more universal: I don't meet anyone who has been rude, presumptuous or pushy; I don't do bareback; I don't cancel without good reason & letting the person know etc etc
Dogging etiquette? dunno

Not a clue! wink

15 May 2010

http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/30801.html All the dogging know how anyone will ever need.

15 May 2010

Quote by shad
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/30801.html All the dogging know how anyone will ever need.

With respect. That's not the point. The point is too get a discussion going so that people can post without having an answer that comes from way back when etc.
We met up with some friends on Weds at a local dogging spot at about 11pm. We ourselves aren't into the dogging but hanging out drinking a coffee with some mates at the sites can be fun, although very bloody cold. What I'd like to ask doggers is...Is there a reason to drive into a dogging site with headlights ablaze? Or is it just that the cars driving in just want to see more? Just that it ruins your night vision having cars doing this rather than just dipped beams.

15 May 2010

Meet in a public place, munch or social even better
I am of the understanding that wet wipes are useful if out dogging, and don't go dogging in the fog.

16 May 2010

Quote by Sarah
Meet in a public place, munch or social even better
I am of the understanding that wet wipes are useful if out dogging, and don't go dogging in the fog.

I know I'm thick and have never done dogging anyway, but I can't see the point of the "fog" remark. By the way we don't get fogs like we used to when all those coal fired chimneys were about.
Plim wink

16 May 2010

...What I'd like to ask doggers is...Is there a reason to drive into a dogging site with headlights ablaze? Or is it just that the cars driving in just want to see more? Just that it ruins your night vision having cars doing this rather than just dipped beams.
I think it's a few things Lost.
Some people want to see who's in the carpark and which cars have couples, singles, TV's etc in.
Some want to see where they are driving and in a lot of the carparks I know dipped beam just doesn't show much. They are typically dark, wooded spots and full of potholes nowadays and anything that can help avoid a knackered wheel rim or suspension is good. You literally used to bounce through one carpark I used to use in outer north London!
And then there the 'dickheads' who just do it to cause offence and then continue to move around and around and around and around with main beam on for the rest of the evening... scared that they are missing something at when side of the carpark, when they are parked at the other :undecided:

Quote by Plimboy
Meet in a public place, munch or social even better
I am of the understanding that wet wipes are useful if out dogging, and don't go dogging in the fog.

I know I'm thick and have never done dogging anyway, but I can't see the point of the "fog" remark. By the way we don't get fogs like we used to when all those coal fired chimneys were about.
Plim wink

Ask Uncle Mal to take you Dogging in the fog one night Plim and you'll realise how easy it is to rear end a Jaguar into a bush! innocent

16 May 2010

Quote by Lost
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/30801.html All the dogging know how anyone will ever need.

With respect. That's not the point. The point is too get a discussion going so that people can post without having an answer that comes from way back when etc.
We met up with some friends on Weds at a local dogging spot at about 11pm. We ourselves aren't into the dogging but hanging out drinking a coffee with some mates at the sites can be fun, although very bloody cold. What I'd like to ask doggers is...Is there a reason to drive into a dogging site with headlights ablaze? Or is it just that the cars driving in just want to see more? Just that it ruins your night vision having cars doing this rather than just dipped beams.
I think they do it so that they can see how many people are in the car so that they know where to hover!!
We do go dogging sometimes and it annoys me when some single guys at dogging sites think that they can do what they want without invites. I like to talk to them first and don't like to feel rushed into things (so that they can get home to their wives) and I don't take hints ... If you want something then ask!! ... any of the above will get nothing from me!! lol

Now, I like a bit of flirting in clubs and parties but we were at a party the other week and the girl that my hubby had been playing with couldn't take her eyes off him. She was really checking him out and flirting with him in a big way, but every time she noticed that I was looking at her she quickly looked away and wouldn't look me in the eye as if she'd done something wrong!! I found this very odd. In my opinion, the flirting happens before the playing, flirting afterwards kind of means you want more than playing and that isn't an option!!

16 May 2010

The way we do things is like this..... watch all you like but please dont touch, over step the mark and you will be firmly told

16 May 2010

what i never understand is when we are in chams, in the jacuzzi and the guy next to me suddenly has his hands on my boobs and/or between my legs .. he hasnt said anything to me nor has he made eye contact with me, or even asked if i wanna play, he just goes straight in with his hands lol usually when i turn round in suprise he isnt even looking at me !!
also at chams when in the cinema with gary, watching the porn and other people, some guy will wander in and sit right next to me and grab me ... same as in the jacuzzi, no eye contact or speaking ... so odd and so rude and definetly not ever gonna get to play with us !!!
saying hello is a good start to possibly getting to play with us at chams altho the guy yesterday who obviously wanted to chat to us but really didnt choose his words right but at least he made conversation and eye contact bless him lol

17 May 2010

Quote by Sarah
Meet in a public place, munch or social even better
I am of the understanding that wet wipes are useful if out dogging, and don't go dogging in the fog.

Is that "fogging"?

17 May 2010

Quote by Kaznkev
Understand its just sex , not a relationship, if someone doesn't want to meet you are not dumped,
i despair of how many people call themselves swingers but don't know what nsa means.

NSA? i thought it was spelt NASA... and whats Space travel got to do with Swinging? :-)
for me.. its all about being honest with someone.. dont lead them on, or be something your not, as you are soon found out. I love the socail side to the scene.. so for me you need to enjoy that side. and not just be thee sex... as its about mental stimualtion as well as sexual stimulation.