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Evenin' all.
I'm a little curious about this one....and its a for the lovely girls mainly.
When it comes to men are you attracted by tall men or short men? Does it actually make any difference at all or is the idea of 'the big man putting his protective arm around you' what attracts you?
OK, I'll admit that I'm a short arse but can honestly say that I've not had too many problems with the laydeez but feel my choice is limited as I don't like my girls to be much bigger than me, but those bastard big fellas seem to like nicking all the pocket rockets!! mad
So, do I need to buy a bag of fertilizer and stand in it for a few years or do I need to start looking towards the gay bars in the hope that my tight li'l arse catches someones eye ( :shock: no pun intended!).
Yes, I'm also bored!
Mrs HC is 5ft 1, nobody thought I would stoop that low!
i like my men tall.... freud would have a field day... alan is sooooo like my dad its untrue... dad is 6ft2, big bro is 6ft4 and alan is 6ft 6
i know, taking the piss a bit when it comes to height...
im a short arse at 5ft8!
p.s. the ex was over 6ft too
This is a good one for me.
Before I freed myself up from 'straight' or 'vanilla' sexual thinking (and joined SH) I would have said 'They have to be taller.' No question. Part of me still prefers a taller guy but I now think it's to do with conditioning, family traits etc.
Because.... I have now had such supremely sexy times with guys my height or a touch shorter (I'm 5' 4 and a bit) that I would never again discriminate on height. I like it when all the bits match up, if you see what I mean.
Also I think confidence comes into it. If a short guy keeps saying 'I'm such a short-arse' that would eventually put me off. But a short guy who acts as if he's no different from a tall one suggests lots of healthy confidence and self-approval. Which is good.
Jezzay.
Quote by DaFunkyone
...is the idea of 'the big man putting his protective arm around you' what attracts you?

Sorry but don't need "protecting" by a man.........can look after myself wink
..feel my choice is limited as I don't like my girls to be much bigger than me

Isn't it all relative to what size of heels we are wearing? dunno lol
Fee
XX
I must admit I usually go for taller men.... but with me being 5' most men are tall to me!
:P
Quote by onlyme1981
I must admit I usually go for taller men.... but with me being 5' most men are tall to me!
:P

Had me worried fer a minute!! lol
I prefer my men tall than me......................... :P
Quote by onlyme1981
I must admit I usually go for taller men.... but with me being 5' most men are tall to me!
:P

i agree as im only 5'2 so most men are taller than me to
sharron
im 6 5" and will shag woman of any height but i do prefer small woman my lady is only 5 1"
would be very strange for me to sleep with some one bigger than me is there any one out there confused
I am a shortie too at 5ft 1 so most men are taller than me but i have shagged someone shorter than me and it doesnt make a difference.
Having said that Mr Olive is 5ft 11 and I love the fact that he is so much taller than me and i can hide behind him etc
I have to say it doesn't bother me at all.
I'm a short arse at 5 foot and a half an inch(that 1/2 inch is all important, it means I'm not the shortest here lol ), but previous boyfriends have ranged from 5 foot to 6'8"
I do find that taller men seem to go for me more though dunno
For the perfect big man hug though, it's more about build than height for me.
Jas
XXX
Size doesn't matter
(apparently)
wink
I have in the past only gone for tall men even though I am a shorty!......but have recently met a gorgeous fella who is only 5ft 7 and think he is fab anyway. My opinions are now changed.
its not hard for a bloke to be taller than me with only being a short shit......i usually get used as a crutch at the end of the nite when they are a bit tipsy lol redface, good job we are all the same size lying down blast
Quote by jezzay
This is a good one for me.
Before I freed myself up from 'straight' or 'vanilla' sexual thinking (and joined SH) I would have said 'They have to be taller.' No question. Part of me still prefers a taller guy but I now think it's to do with conditioning, family traits etc.
Because.... I have now had such supremely sexy times with guys my height or a touch shorter (I'm 5' 4 and a bit) that I would never again discriminate on height. I like it when all the bits match up, if you see what I mean.
Also I think confidence comes into it. If a short guy keeps saying 'I'm such a short-arse' that would eventually put me off. But a short guy who acts as if he's no different from a tall one suggests lots of healthy confidence and self-approval. Which is good.
Jezzay.

Get yer coat love, you've pulled!! wink smile
I amjust over 5ft, so most guys are taller than me anyway.
Height is not realy an issue for me - it's just the crick in my neck that bugs me rolleyes
Quote by Kit
I am just over 5ft, so most guys are taller than me anyway.
Height is not realy an issue for me - it's just the crick in my neck that bugs me rolleyes
thats not what you said when you had me on the stretchy racky thing in the s/h dungeon confused :? :?
Quote by LadyFeeBee
...is the idea of 'the big man putting his protective arm around you' what attracts you?

Sorry but don't need "protecting" by a man.........can look after myself wink
..feel my choice is limited as I don't like my girls to be much bigger than me

Isn't it all relative to what size of heels we are wearing? dunno lol
Fee
XX
I`m 6`4" and Mrs is 4`11", she would need some big heels :lol:
Don't care! :rascal:
As long as they can put out :twisted:
I remember reading somewhere that men tend to be between 2 to 4 inches taller than their partner. I think people tend to find someone who is a similar height and the same is true of looks. People tend to go out with somebody they feel is a similar level of attractiveness as themselves.