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hisandhers
Sex God
as you can see in the perv points thread I get very redface when it comes to flirting with others.
So....... Ladies & Gentlemen, could you please give me some guidance on how to flirt. surprisedops:
Thank heavens for the emoticons wink kiss :grin: :rascal: thats my flirting :giggle:
Caliwen
Warming the Bed
Um, just to check, are you the straight male or bi female wanting tips?
hisandhers
Sex God
Quote by Caliwen
Um, just to check, are you the straight male or bi female wanting tips?

bi female hunni lol
Thats a point, do you flirt differently to men & women dunno
hisandhers
Sex God
How about wait till BB is over then we can get down to it lol
Is that flirty dunno :giggle:
fem_4_taboo
Sex God
thats not fliting that panic mongering foo sake i thought i was missing big brother then
smackbottom xx fem xx
Unknown User
Quote by hisandhers
How about wait till BB is over then we can get down to it lol
Is that flirty dunno :giggle:

I can't do the flirting thing either .......... so not sure if it is flirting to a serious flirter! :rascal: :giggle:
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hisandhers
Sex God
Quote by fem_4_taboo
thats not fliting that panic mongering foo sake i thought i was missing big brother then
smackbottom xx fem xx

9 o clock hun already checked :giggle:
we could have a BB party is that flirty wink
hisandhers
Sex God
Quote by Stormwalker
Sprouts, lots and lots of sprouts.

:shock: would knock you all dead :giggle:
hisandhers
Sex God
Quote by blonde
How about wait till BB is over then we can get down to it lol
Is that flirty dunno :giggle:

I can't do the flirting thing either .......... so not sure if it is flirting to a serious flirter! :rascal: :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
sounds good to me passionkiss
Caliwen
Warming the Bed
I've never flirted with a woman. I am bi curious but I'd never have the guts to flirt with one! But I would say flirting would be different with a man then a woman.
And it also depends on what I'm looking to get out of it. Generally, I'd say when flirting mith a man, it's all about body language. Talk a load of crap but as long as you're giving out the right physical signals you're okay. In the past I've been told a couple of times that what I do with my eyes really does the trick!
I'm just stating the obvious really, aren't I? Sorry I'm no much help.
But, don't worry if you think you're hopeless. I used to not be able to look at someone I fancied without making a fool out of myself, now I'd say I'm a pretty good flirt!
hisandhers
Sex God
Quote by Caliwen
I've never flirted with a woman. I am bi curious but I'd never have the guts to flirt with one! But I would say flirting would be different with a man then a woman.
And it also depends on what I'm looking to get out of it. Generally, I'd say when flirting mith a man, it's all about body language. Talk a load of crap but as long as you're giving out the right physical signals you're okay. In the past I've been told a couple of times that what I do with my eyes really does the trick!
I'm just stating the obvious really, aren't I? Sorry I'm no much help.
But, don't worry if you think you're hopeless. I used to not be able to look at someone I fancied without making a fool out of myself, now I'd say I'm a pretty good flirt!

Its hard to use body language on here though :giggle:
nice to see you in the different threads as a newbie kiss It took me ages redface
Caliwen
Warming the Bed
I thought I'd make the effort!
And I thought you meant in person flirting. Oops! redface
hisandhers
Sex God
Quote by Caliwen
I thought I'd make the effort!
And I thought you meant in person flirting. Oops! redface

both really!! I'm shy in person & not sure how to go about it on here. I'm not a go n get person :giggle:
Unknown User
Quote by Caliwen
I And I thought you meant in person flirting. Oops! redface

Nah... everything we do here is done online. We never ever meet up! :shock:
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Caliwen
Warming the Bed
Just try to be confident in yourself. It makes all the difference.
hisandhers
Sex God
Quote by Cubes
I And I thought you meant in person flirting. Oops! redface

Nah... everything we do here is done online. We never ever meet up! :shock:
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smackbottom
Unknown User
Quote by hisandhers
I And I thought you meant in person flirting. Oops! redface

Nah... everything we do here is done online. We never ever meet up! :shock:
:grin: bolt
smackbottom
Smacking a mod:
Pervy practice (i.e. not on the list) = 6 points
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hisandhers
Sex God
Quote by Cubes
I And I thought you meant in person flirting. Oops! redface

Nah... everything we do here is done online. We never ever meet up! :shock:
:grin: bolt
smackbottom
Smacking a mod:
Pervy practice (i.e. not on the list) = 6 points
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really confused: :giggle: :bounce: :bounce:
Mmmaybe
Sexpert
I think you can even do evening courses now! Or there's a book called 'the flirt coach' by Peta somebody which is a good read - it's basic NLP so good for all communication stuff in all situations, not just flirting