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Warming the Bed
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There are plenty of fetishes out there-none weirder than any some cases of rare fetishes but there all viable if its your thing.
So for those who have one, share it!!
Il start the ball rolling by sharing mine-I have a Nappy Fetish. Basically all it intails is women wearing a nappy.
Cheers J
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Just a Nappy.....or do they have to do the whole baby thing.....and suck on a dummy etc??
Warming the Bed
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Not really bothered about the whole baby thing,do it if they want-but the nappy is enough for me.
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I sniff used knickers. And have a good wank.
Not used nappies.
Warming the Bed
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I have to confess but mine is the complete stereotypical male thing!!
STOCKINGS AND SUSPENDERS. lol
I know its a cliche but hey the seams do it for me every time. biggrin :D :D :D
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dont get me started!! :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
crisps
stormtrooper outfits
tai fighter outfits
leather
rubber
pvc
being chucked around the room
violet wands
violet wands
did i mention violet wands
having my feet worshipped by a little subs
bruises on my ass
suspension
fluffy little kittens
tool
daaaaaaaaaaaave
shall i name more?
ok one more did i mention CRISPS!! lol
Warming the Bed
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I'm totally obsessed with giving beatuful women orgasms
Orgasminator
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mine is is to be used by couples and ladies and abused to a certain extent
Warming the Bed
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love sexy lingerie.........especially french knickers....
biggrin :D
Sex God
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Smells, as in aftershave
and
Humour
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Yellow hard hats
Men with yellow hard hats
Workmen with yellow hard hats
Big workmen with yellow hard hats
Big black workmen with yellow hard hats
Long haried big black workme with yellow hard hats
Long haried big black workme with yellow hard hats with a foot fetish
Long haried big black workme with yellow hard hats with a foot fetish and their own handcuffs!!!
Did i mention yellow hard hats?
Did i mention yellow hard hats?
Did I?
:happy: :happy: :evil2: :evil2:
Sex God
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Kilts :giggle:
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All fetishes are based on the primary senses.
Sex God
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What's a violet wand please Rachel?
I don't think I have any fetishes as such, but I do like massages
Jas
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Sex God
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Quote by foxylady 123
Yellow hard hats
Men with yellow hard hats
Workmen with yellow hard hats
Big workmen with yellow hard hats
Big black workmen with yellow hard hats
Long haried big black workme with yellow hard hats
Long haried big black workme with yellow hard hats with a foot fetish
Long haried big black workme with yellow hard hats with a foot fetish and their own handcuffs!!!
Did i mention yellow hard hats?
Did i mention yellow hard hats?
Did I?
:happy: :happy: :evil2: :evil2:

Oii,
What about women in yellow hard hats, I'm quite fetching in mine :P
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Yellow hard hats
Men with yellow hard hats
Workmen with yellow hard hats
Big workmen with yellow hard hats
Big black workmen with yellow hard hats
Long haried big black workme with yellow hard hats
Long haried big black workme with yellow hard hats with a foot fetish
Long haried big black workme with yellow hard hats with a foot fetish and their own handcuffs!!!
Did i mention yellow hard hats?
Did i mention yellow hard hats?
Did I?
:happy: :happy: :evil2: :evil2:

Oii,
What about women in yellow hard hats, I'm quite fetching in mine :P
Bugger!!!
I can only find a White Hard hat...................... :cry:
Sex God
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A man that smells good..ummmm !!!
Yep Jas massages for me too... :twisted:
Bums.... lol
Humour......
Smile biggrin
Oh Dawn kilts...never thought of that one... cool
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What's a violet wand please Rachel?
I don't think I have any fetishes as such, but I do like massages
Jas
XXX

Violet Wands have been around for some time. I have seen some old ones at yard sales that go back to the 1930's and they are still currently produced. They have been used as quack medical machines, skin and muscle toners/ relaxers, etc. the rolls royce of sex aids (We just like them because of the way they light up a sub's eyes! ) They are devices that plug into the wall and convert the household electricity into high-frequency, high voltage. This voltage may be upwards of 30,000 Volts! The electricity is transfered to the willing (or not so willing ) subject in the form of myriads of small sparks.
Technical:
Ordinary household electricity is a low frequency alternating current (120 Volts, 60 Hz in the USA) and is extremely hazardous to come in contact with! The Violet Wand "transforms" the household current by means of what is called a Tesla coil. At the "business" end of the wand is a detachable glass tube filled with Argon gas. When Argon is is excited by a high voltage, it glows with a purple color, hence the name Violet Wand. I have heard of other gasses being used and glowing with different colors. These tubes come in different sizes and shapes... more about attachments later. It also makes a nice evil buzzzzzzzz.
The reason the electricity from the Violet Wand is relatively safe is due to two major items.
Because the electricity is going through the glass attachment there is not a direct connection from the sub to your wall outlet. This is a good thing!! We want the eyes to be wide... not popped out of their sockets!
Because the high voltage produced by the wand is at a high frequency, a phenomenon occurs that is called the "skin effect". Without going into the details, basicaly what happens is that as the frequency of an AC voltage increases, the depth to which that the electricity penetrates a conductor (whether copper wire or human) diminishes. This helps to keep the electricity from the Violet Wand away from internal organs, etc. where electricity just doesn't belong.
Attachments:
Violet Wand attachments come in various shapes and sizes. I have seen glass attachments in the shape of a mushroom (probably the most common attachment), a comb (or rake) shape, a "Y" shape, etc. There is also a metal tube attachment. (see note under SAFETY Considerations).
Using the Wand (or how not to!)
Common sense prevails here. Remember too much of anything can be a bad thing! The sparks from a Violet Wand can be applied most anywhere on the body although one should make a point of avoiding the head and eyes. Experimentation is in order! Remember though, the glass tubes are made out of fairly thin glass... do NOT insert them into any body cavities!!! Should you need to clean your attachments just wipe them off with a damp rag, the glass is not dishwater safe (I broke a mushroom just under hot tap water!)
Avoid too much exposure in one spot at any time. The Wand produces sparks that irritate the skin and the glowing tubes also produce Ultraviolet light. You can produce a localized sunburn!! I remember watching someone play with a Violet Wand once and the next day the women he used it on had redness and blistering on their chests that lasted for least a week.
The Violet Wand produces real sparks! Some clothing is very flamable! Alcohol vapors (you shouldn't be drinking and playing!) could ignite. (btw some clothing may have metalic threads... zap one spot and it goes all over! Don't leave it turned on and laying down unattended.
Some Doms use the mushroom attachment and hold the Wand between their legs and with one hand grasping the mushroom attachment. They then trace patterns on their sub with the fingers of their other hand..quite erotic!!
Safety:
As I have already stated don't insert the glass tube into body cavities. Many are interested in the metal tube attachment because of the much more intense "jolt" as well as it is not an attachment that will break. This attachment must be used with great care!! In general I have to recommend against it's use in play. In every Violet Wand I have examined, I have found that all exposed metal parts (and this includes the metal tube) have a direct connection to the AC line, and hence, are a shock hazard! If you are insistant on using the metal tube attachment, purchase what is called an "Isolation Transformer", available from most Geek supply stores[DEL: . There may be confusion to some sales people as to just what an Isolation Transformer is. It is not an Autotransformer, nor does it raise or lower the AC line Voltage. An Isolation Transformer has no direct connection from it's input (Primary) to it's output (Secondary).
When playing with a Violet Wand do so in a place where neither party can come in contact with water pipes, radiators, metal frames of buildings, electrical conduit, etc. This will help avoid the risk of shock. Do not use it on someone unable to communicate to you when they are in distress. Do not use it on someone with a heart ailment or pacemaker. Use your head!!
tempted??? :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: have one on order wink
oh its next week !! violet wand violet wand violet wand :twisted: :P
Warming the Bed
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I have 2 yellow hard hats and one blue one, work boots, a myriad tools, gloves, tool belt all kinds of things, wear nice aftershave, shower lots and am a part time comedy writer...does that count?
Some of my personal fetishes are:
Laying in a room, naked while people play with me and do what they like (within reason)
Outdoor nudity and sex...I love the feeling of the breeze on my skin
Silent sex...pretend you have never met the person, meet them outdoors, shag and leave
The above with someone you haven't actually met
Office sex, cliched I know, but great fun
Not into car sex, I'm too tall
Flashing, women more than men as it is so much easier but love a quick flash in public
Driving nude
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Mine include, but aren't limited to......
Stockings and suspenders
Hold ups (stockings, not banks)
White cotton socks on a woman, or any longer sock than normal
Nurses uniforms
School uniforms
Pigtails (on women, not pigs)
Peephole bras and crotchless knickers
Seeing women using a double ended dildo
Basques or corsets
There's loads more, but those can't really be classed as fetishes as their more mainstream, or sexual scenarios/positions.
Sex God
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Kilts :giggle:

Yumm, Kilts work for me, black leather kilts in particular :twisted:
Oh and stockings - on males
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[quotDo not use it on someone with a heart ailment or pacemaker. Use your head!!
Because nutting someone with a pacemaker is more fun? :shock:
lhk
Kat wink
Sex God
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FEET and toes not mine though mens like sucking toes lol
Warming the Bed
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Quote by rachel-lane
What's a violet wand please Rachel?
I don't think I have any fetishes as such, but I do like massages
Jas
XXX

Violet Wands have been around for some time. I have seen some old ones at yard sales that go back to the 1930's and they are still currently produced. They have been used as quack medical machines, skin and muscle toners/ relaxers, etc. the rolls royce of sex aids (We just like them because of the way they light up a sub's eyes! ) They are devices that plug into the wall and convert the household electricity into high-frequency, high voltage. This voltage may be upwards of 30,000 Volts! The electricity is transfered to the willing (or not so willing ) subject in the form of myriads of small sparks.
Technical:
Ordinary household electricity is a low frequency alternating current (120 Volts, 60 Hz in the USA) and is extremely hazardous to come in contact with! The Violet Wand "transforms" the household current by means of what is called a Tesla coil. At the "business" end of the wand is a detachable glass tube filled with Argon gas. When Argon is is excited by a high voltage, it glows with a purple color, hence the name Violet Wand. I have heard of other gasses being used and glowing with different colors. These tubes come in different sizes and shapes... more about attachments later. It also makes a nice evil buzzzzzzzz.
The reason the electricity from the Violet Wand is relatively safe is due to two major items.
Because the electricity is going through the glass attachment there is not a direct connection from the sub to your wall outlet. This is a good thing!! We want the eyes to be wide... not popped out of their sockets!
Because the high voltage produced by the wand is at a high frequency, a phenomenon occurs that is called the "skin effect". Without going into the details, basicaly what happens is that as the frequency of an AC voltage increases, the depth to which that the electricity penetrates a conductor (whether copper wire or human) diminishes. This helps to keep the electricity from the Violet Wand away from internal organs, etc. where electricity just doesn't belong.
Attachments:
Violet Wand attachments come in various shapes and sizes. I have seen glass attachments in the shape of a mushroom (probably the most common attachment), a comb (or rake) shape, a "Y" shape, etc. There is also a metal tube attachment. (see note under SAFETY Considerations).
Using the Wand (or how not to!)
Common sense prevails here. Remember too much of anything can be a bad thing! The sparks from a Violet Wand can be applied most anywhere on the body although one should make a point of avoiding the head and eyes. Experimentation is in order! Remember though, the glass tubes are made out of fairly thin glass... do NOT insert them into any body cavities!!! Should you need to clean your attachments just wipe them off with a damp rag, the glass is not dishwater safe (I broke a mushroom just under hot tap water!)
Avoid too much exposure in one spot at any time. The Wand produces sparks that irritate the skin and the glowing tubes also produce Ultraviolet light. You can produce a localized sunburn!! I remember watching someone play with a Violet Wand once and the next day the women he used it on had redness and blistering on their chests that lasted for least a week.
The Violet Wand produces real sparks! Some clothing is very flamable! Alcohol vapors (you shouldn't be drinking and playing!) could ignite. (btw some clothing may have metalic threads... zap one spot and it goes all over! Don't leave it turned on and laying down unattended.
Some Doms use the mushroom attachment and hold the Wand between their legs and with one hand grasping the mushroom attachment. They then trace patterns on their sub with the fingers of their other hand..quite erotic!!
Safety:
As I have already stated don't insert the glass tube into body cavities. Many are interested in the metal tube attachment because of the much more intense "jolt" as well as it is not an attachment that will break. This attachment must be used with great care!! In general I have to recommend against it's use in play. In every Violet Wand I have examined, I have found that all exposed metal parts (and this includes the metal tube) have a direct connection to the AC line, and hence, are a shock hazard! If you are insistant on using the metal tube attachment, purchase what is called an "Isolation Transformer", available from most Geek supply stores
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Mine include, but aren't limited to......
Stockings and suspenders
Hold ups (stockings, not banks)
White cotton socks on a woman, or any longer sock than normal
Nurses uniforms
School uniforms
Pigtails (on women, not pigs)
Peephole bras and crotchless knickers
Seeing women using a double ended dildo
Basques or corsets
There's loads more, but those can't really be classed as fetishes as their more mainstream, or sexual scenarios/positions.

I can't really argue with a lot of the above for myself - but I would also append interracial sex - when the guy is white - ( I'm white, Mrs SJ is black - but I think that is only co-incidental ) any colour is good, but in porn sites the caucasian women look too plastic. Same with lesbian porn - a little colour helps to flick my switch! Same with bi - and gay stuff, if it comes to that - damned if I can write that any better.
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i quite like pregnant women if that counts as a fetish dunno
Warming the Bed
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mines gotta be dangerous sex, not as in dangling from a bridge but the thought of getting caught like in a cinema or the channel tunnel
Sex God
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bondage..mild
spanking
nurses outfits
basque stockings and small mask
but best of all full leg boots ..shiny black pvc please
Forum Virgin
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I'm the archetypical male and gone for lingerie. Agent provocateur have made a bleedin' fortune out of me over the last few years! lol :lol: