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HI all - i hope im posting this in the right place - if not please forgive me.
Im still a newbie around here but i am confirmed for the Leicester Munch and the afters party in a couple of weeks time. Now i have to confess something - Im terrified!!!! sad
Ive been reading posts from all you lovely people and ive even made a few myself. Im looking forward to meeting up but it doesnt alter the fact that im "scare". Dont really know why - i can usually mix with anybody. I think its my age biggrin
You all seem so much younger than me, and on top of that a lot of you all seem to know each other.
You see, to begin with im quite a shy person.
I still want to go though - and if anyone wants to say hello - i will be easily recognised!
I'll be the shivering jelly in the corner!
Galien,
I knew six people at my first munch and one of those was my boyfriend! lol
Don't worry, we all get nervous! Even the ones counted as hold hands. It's part of the fun and the buzz that is a munch! Age doesnt matter, hun, most of the people on here are older than me (im 23 before you wonder) so no stress biggrin
See you there Galien!
Quote by gailen
I still want to go though - and if anyone wants to say hello - i will be easily recognised!
I'll be the shivering jelly in the corner!

Gailen - I was that shivering wreck in the corner at the Notts Munch last year - so understand where you are coming from!!!!!
You will last 5 secs there before being drawn into the general meleee. Trust me!!!! Just be yourself and have no expectations. Have fun! That's the main thing!!!
Rs :color:
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Age doesnt matter, hun, most of the people on here are older than me (im 23 before you wonder) so no stress biggrin
See you there Galien!

Thanks Little Gem i'll look forward to meeting you - but im probably older than your
dad? :shock:
Quote by rainbows
Gailen - I was that shivering wreck in the corner at the Notts Munch last year - so understand where you are coming from!!!!!
You will last 5 secs there before being drawn into the general meleee. Trust me!!!! Just be yourself and have no expectations. Have fun! That's the main thing!!!
Rs

I intend to have fun and enjoy, and NO i have no expectations other than to meet some lovely people
Quote by gailen

Age doesnt matter, hun, most of the people on here are older than me (im 23 before you wonder) so no stress biggrin
See you there Galien!

Thanks Little Gem i'll look forward to meeting you - but im probably older than your
dad? :shock:


eagerslut is as old as my dad!!!!!!!..................but he doesn't act like it! redface surprisedops: :oops:
Now where's he got to?? FFS! - I'll find him the bugger!
Your a lucky fella. It's only natural to be apprehensive. For one reason or another some of us don't get to the munches - so go for it.
Have fun.
I can relate to that Gailen
I am down for the Scottish Munch at the end of March and I only know a couple of people and to be honest i dont even know them that well!
So i am terrified as well!!
But things will pan out and i have faith in the people that i have spoken to on here!
So you will be in good hands!
Quote by gailen
HI all - i hope im posting this in the right place - if not please forgive me.
Im still a newbie around here but i am confirmed for the Leicester Munch and the afters party in a couple of weeks time. Now i have to confess something - Im terrified!!!! sad
Ive been reading posts from all you lovely people and ive even made a few myself. Im looking forward to meeting up but it doesnt alter the fact that im "scare". Dont really know why - i can usually mix with anybody. I think its my age biggrin
You all seem so much younger than me,
!
we are
and on top of that a lot of you all seem to know each other.
we do
You see, to begin with im quite a shy person.
were not
I still want to go though - and if anyone wants to say hello - i will be easily recognised!
I'll be the shivering jelly in the corner
:shock: shiverrrrr!!!!!:shock:
Quote by davej
HI all - i hope im posting this in the right place - if not please forgive me.
Im still a newbie around here but i am confirmed for the Leicester Munch and the afters party in a couple of weeks time. Now i have to confess something - Im terrified!!!! sad
Ive been reading posts from all you lovely people and ive even made a few myself. Im looking forward to meeting up but it doesnt alter the fact that im "scare". Dont really know why - i can usually mix with anybody. I think its my age biggrin
You all seem so much younger than me,
!
we are
and on top of that a lot of you all seem to know each other.
we do
You see, to begin with im quite a shy person.
were not
I still want to go though - and if anyone wants to say hello - i will be easily recognised!
I'll be the shivering jelly in the corner
:shock: shiverrrrr!!!!!:shock:
Thanks Dave - just what i needed - i knew i could rely on someone!! :(
Only kidding - im looking forward to it really - especially now wink
Quote by gailen
HI all - i hope im posting this in the right place - if not please forgive me.
Im still a newbie around here but i am confirmed for the Leicester Munch and the afters party in a couple of weeks time. Now i have to confess something - Im terrified!!!! sad
Ive been reading posts from all you lovely people and ive even made a few myself. Im looking forward to meeting up but it doesnt alter the fact that im "scare". Dont really know why - i can usually mix with anybody. I think its my age biggrin
You all seem so much younger than me,
!
we are
and on top of that a lot of you all seem to know each other.
we do
You see, to begin with im quite a shy person.
were not
I still want to go though - and if anyone wants to say hello - i will be easily recognised!
I'll be the shivering jelly in the corner
:shock: shiverrrrr!!!!!:shock:
Thanks Dave - just what i needed - i knew i could rely on someone!! :(
Only kidding - im looking forward to it really - especially now wink
I've got my name down for the Herts/Beds Munch.
Thats not till May and I'm worried now :!: redface
Went to my first munch this weekend, didn't know a soul but left having made a load of new friends. Looking forward to making many more. cool
Gailen, I'm sure we've spoken before in a pm. Not into dogging "yet", who knows......not into sinlge males only "yet"...again who knows.
But we're going to Wishmasters Birthday party in May (Herts/Beds Munch as was) and if your old enough to be someone's Dad then I'm old enough to be someone's Granny. But I don't care.....still young at heart, stil think and act like 17 (sometimes this can cause embrassament)....but again I don't care. But we're as nervous as HELL :!:
Life is for living and you only here just one time....this isn't the practice lap...it's the only chance we've got......so
ENJOY
:love:
Netsuke
Quote by Bignetsuke bird
Gailen, I'm sure we've spoken before in a pm.
Yes we have!
Netsuke

Quote by Bignetsuke bird
But we're going to Wishmasters Birthday party in May (Herts/Beds Munch as was) and if your old enough to be someone's Dad then I'm old enough to be someone's Granny. But I don't care.....still young at heart, stil think and act like 17 (sometimes this can cause embrassament)....but again I don't care. But we're as nervous as HELL :!:
Life is for living and you only here just one time....this isn't the practice lap...it's the only chance we've got......so
ENJOY
:love:
Netsuke

Im down for that party too - or at leat i think i am?
Look forward to talking to you - unless you both fancy a beer before then?
Sounds like a great idea, we''ll arrange something soon.
:love:
Netsuke
Hi gailen mate
I will not quote all the quotes but if you feel a bit out look for me or ask where I am lol = usualy in the corner on me own .
Age=wise we may be in the same boat lol = may even buy you a pint if you can beat my age lol
See you at the munch mate.
Fred
Voddy Babe
At the price of Vodka these days :--
NO WAY
Fred wink :love:
ps :- whats it worth lol
Quote by vodka_babe22uk
excuse me medic seeing as im shy too do i get a pint silly
voddy xxx

SHY??????????
rotflmao :rotflmao:
apart from groping strange mens arses in the high street
:twisted: :twisted:
Well he is a little strange!!!
well this will be my first munch as welland iam sure they will be loads more people venturing out forr the first time .people have been reassuring him that it will be fine i know it will be so am not afraid ,scared or pensive iam not cocky iam confident and am looking forward to only thing is iam dying with anticipation day is just not arriving for me seeyou all there cool