We are off to Bangkok and Koh Sumia next week for a couple of weeks, we are thinking of picking up a gogo girl when we are over, has anyone been to Koh Sumia?
Couple of questions.
Has anyone met genuinely Bi girls there,
Are we dodgy ground re STI's etc
Is this ethical has anyone ever met an escort to fulfill fantasies, we want a girl who is genuinely into us. But we do want to have some fun as well and on here we havent had any luck
advice most welcome
Never had to (or wanted to) pay for sex so I'm not best placed to comment, but :welcome: to the forums!
Seems a long way to go to play table tennis :twisted:
Hi
I guess with any travel, you need to have your wits about you! Just be careful that you don't get pulled into any unexpected scam!!
Paying for any sex is a hard one...I have absolutely no problem at all with people paying for sex, but I would always question/wonder if the person is doing it out of free choice!
Good luck with planning the trip and be safe! x
Ok here's my slant on it.
I don't think there is anything ethically wrong with paying for sex IF the person being paid is willing and happy to sell their "services" to you. It's about personal choice I suppose, if you want to do it then go ahead, it's your life and you have every right to do what you want to do!
The STI thing is a big issue in Thailand, I would strongly recommend using a condom and avoiding any mouth to sexual part contact if you and your female partner are looking to indulge in bisexual threesomes.
At the end of the day you will do as you please, so you don't really need our advice on whether or not it's ethical or not, only you can decide that.
A safer and less problematic option would be to hire an escort from a reputable agency in this country and have a night at a hotel or something? It's just my opinion but I think there are a lot of factors that could make it not the experience you are looking for by going looking for "bi" prostitutes in Thailand.
Some good advice from the previous poster too, have a good trip!!
Ok here's my slant on it.
I don't think there is anything ethically wrong with paying for sex IF the person being paid is willing and happy to sell their "services" to you. It's about personal choice I suppose, if you want to do it then go ahead, it's your life and you have every right to do what you want to do!
The STI thing is a big issue in Thailand, I would strongly recommend using a condom and avoiding any mouth to sexual part contact if you and your female partner are looking to indulge in bisexual threesomes.
At the end of the day you will do as you please, so you don't really need our advice on whether or not it's ethical or not, only you can decide that.
A safer and less problematic option would be to hire an escort from a reputable agency in this country and have a night at a hotel or something? It's just my opinion but I think there are a lot of factors that could make it not the experience you are looking for by going looking for "bi" prostitutes in Thailand.
Some good advice from the previous poster too, have a good trip!!
I think it's ethically wrong to go to a country where there is a lot of poverty; to the extent that people need to sell their bodies for money
You are encouraging not only that industry but other, far more horrific ones that I don't think I need to mention.
People like to switch their brains off when it's a matter of their own selfish pleasure though.
Last time I checked HIV infection in prostitutes/bar girls in Thailand was around 20%. Not gonna google to double check latest figures - but basically a 1 in 5 risk should be enough to put anyone off.
While I'm not 100% against the sex trade (when it is a trade and the girls are in control of their own destiny), it's not something I'd indulge in, not least because of the significant risk factor.
Things have improved in the area, particularly as a result of government efforts to boost condom use and awareness - but I think it's a very risky bet.
If you are looking to "hire" a third (surely there are willing participants herein?), Amsterdam may be your best bet. The girls have a union, and get themselves checked out regularly. As was said earlier - enjoy the sun and beach in the land of smiles - and perhaps stop in the 'dam on the way back for a little nookie!
I'll repeat what others have said; that the free decision to perform sexual acts for money is morally neutral.
In real life however it is usually not a free decison. Drugs, poverty and intimidation play an important part, in this country and elsewhere. Moreover the original poster talks of going to a country with well recorded examples of young girls being sold into prostitution by their families in rural districts in order to bring money in. Why is sex tourism centred on poor countries? I think the answer is obvious and to me unpalatable.
What's wrong with inviting a free minded volunteer from this country into your personal games? Or is the power of telling someone else what to do important for you?
it is unethical and last person has hit the nail right on the head.
If it was a young girl from a council estate who's parents you knew you wouldn't be doing it but becasue it's far away from your own country and any associated repercussions people do it. So it must be some kind of dirty, shameful secret if you've got to go half way around the world to do it!
If you thought it was ok you wouldn't be asking people on here to sanction it for you.
Being new to this scene, I haven't made my mind up yet if people who swing are less moral than the norm or not.
This type of thread inclines me to think less...
The fact that there is an imbalance in world prosperity, is due to western economies having a more powerful hold on the world markets than the poorer countries. We have more control and therefore more trade comes to us, and subsequently more products.
If it was the other way round and we were a poor economy, we would have tourist prostitution and black markets etc.
Why go all the way to Thailand to fulfil your fantacies? Surely there must be someway of fulfilling them here in good ole blighty! Not only that but many countries are now cracking down on sex tourism and it's far to easy to get caught up on something unsavoury and possibly illegle.
etc and you need to buy her present, this can be anything from make up to jeans/ t shirts etc or even a moped !!!
I can imagine you would not get much change out of £600 to go to an escort agency in the UK. In Thailand you could buy 5 girls all their drinks and probably the bar itself for that money. 
and :welcome: to the forums by the way :smile: