hi when you make your first contact swinging, and agree to meet somewhere with another couple, is the build up more exciting than the event. was your first time a disaster, orks did you want more because it fulfilled all your dreams, who was turned on the most. its said that in swinging that the men take charge the first time, but after that the women take charge of when more meetings take place, as they enjoy the sex more being able to more cocks, while the man is limited due to his possible loss of power after a shag, so then has to watch his partner as she moves from mam to man, or to women depending on her was made for women more than men would you agree.