Why is it that every swingers site is plagued with single guys. It doesnt seem to matter a jot if an add says couples only or no single guys, Your add box and responses are filled with replies from single guys. And the responses are all the same, they are all very fit and inteligent with oodles of sex appeal and staminer, And the greatest sex machine to ever walk the planet. They all say their single but cant accomodate, which surely means they live with there wives or mothers. So guys If you are single and that good you wouldnt need to look on here would you???
not all single males are bad, it's not fair to generalise like that
Yes there are some idiotiotic single guys, but there are also some idiotic couples and single females aswell. You cant just generalise. We have met some very nice single guys off here and have found them to be absolute gentlemen!
Dont give up, not everyone is out to make life difficult for you and loads of them are not married! Actually some couples prefer playing with married guys, less complications!
Thing is sussex you have to make allowances for all manner of people when you start advertising on public web sites and the like... Surely you weren't that naive that you thought everyone into swing were married couples when you took the plunge... Yes some single guys are a pain and won't read the small print, but there are a lot of nice guys about... If you aren't interested in someone who replies, just ignore them, don't get uptight about it, and don't tar all people of a certain class with the same brush... Lorri and I have found some bloody nice single blokes to play with over the years... Yes and we've met some tossers.
Not all the single guys are bad,the one's on here who get to know people first,go to muches etc......it pays off eventually,but it is the chancers who don't read the profiles,i bet there are some couples here who have said no single males in the past but have got to know some through the forum and have met upwith them, when the thought they wouldn't?
why do all black guys have big dicks?
why do all jews love money?
why are all French people arrogant?
Hey go easy on us.
I only joined up yesterday and yes you guessed it I'm a leper (single guy).
I can travel I can accomodate.
But it is down to the person reading whether or not they believe me.
Please don't tar us all with the same brush.
But believe me I do know what you are saying.
Reading all this makes me wonder if I have a hope in hells chance of joining in.
Since I got divorced I am not really looking for full time partner that is why I have thought about join you fine fun loving people.
And also don't get the time with the hours in need to work to keep a decent roof over my head.
Unfortunately for me I am one of huge surplus you seem to have in here.
Anyway rant over you guys and gals got a good group here.
Have fun and enjoy
well said mal, good and bad in all catagories but then it takes all sorts.
Sussexpair,
I'm afraid I don't fit the stereotype you have outlined. I am a single man, however I'm not a swinger or even a swinger wannabe. I am a member of this site because I enjoy the topics discussed on here and also to maybe make some friends. If I swing in the future that will be a bonus, however it is not something I actively seek.