the exploration of Swinging

14 Oct 2005

Hi all....
for those of you that dont know i have been in the swinging capital of the UK - Manchester this week. I personally thought before this week i was a horny git but i knew i had certain boundrys that i did not want to cross and certain things i wanted to try...
This week I have managed to fulfil a lot of things i wanted to try and have puhsed my own personal boundrys. I have learnt a lot about my self this week and it has made me sit back and take stock of my "vanilla" lifestyle as well as deciding that i want to take a more active swinging lifestyle.....
It seams that my exploration in to swinging has made me reasses my personal attidudes towards people. I will admit i was extremly judgemental of people and i will be honest here had not many experiances with meating people that society mite not include as "the norm".
A number of people have encouraged me talk about myself to them in a way i havent had to do before. Looking past the "tart" persona that most of you know. This week i have cryed at least 3 times, all have been caused by me delving in to the boundry i put up to protect myself.
I know this is not a discussion thread in the true sence however i feel that i know most of you so well that i can share some of my feelings with you. I struggle to put these feelings in to words in person. That is my shy side i suppose. So last nite when i cudnt sleep i done a lot of thinking and came up with this.....
anway thats is i suppose......
MikeC

14 Oct 2005

so the journey of discovery has well and truly started, best of luck in self dicovery, one day i will possibly meet you on this path.
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14 Oct 2005

So are you glad you came to manchester ?.
And when are you comeing back .
Im glad you had a good time and its good to cry now and then .
And your the lucky one mike for finding what it is you were looking for at your age it takes people years of lonely existance sometimes untill they find the right path.
Hope you come back to see us northern folk again .
just remember to bring better underware and no more pics that your mum takes .
missing you already muawwwwwwwwwwwww xxxxxx
Debz xxxxxx

14 Oct 2005

I did a simliar thing when I first started, had the best weekend in blackpool at a swingers hotel and to a club with them while there. and got a lot more than I was expecting from all the people i meet and just made me want to be part of the scene more.

14 Oct 2005

Join the club Mike..I've been off and on the scene fom the late 80's and i have to admit I have done things I thought I would never do and went with people who I would never usually entertain..but out of all these years and experiences from all over the UK and abroad I have met and still keep in touch with some amazing people.
I usually take a break every now and then because it does get stale and the characters come and go..but whenever I am low..it certainly picks me up!
Happy swinging!