How can you convince someone, you are who you say you are. I am having a problem with a certain person on here who I am planning to meet for the first time soon, that I am who I say I am.
I have not tried to deliberately mislead said person and have sent several pictures of myself for viewing. Now I am being told that all the pictures I have sent are different and that my avatar is not me .. well I thought that was obvious.
I am being accused of lying to this person and I am feeling quite upset as I really don't know how to convince this person I am genuine.
Can people who know me perhaps post that I am kosher.
Also how would you deal with this situation, if you were the one being told you are suspect.
DD
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Don't bother trying to convince him. Tell him you are who you are, you're not misleading him, but if he seem to want more, then it's his problem, not yours.
And I know you're genuine!
Mal
And I know you're genuine!
Mal
Sex God
sounds like after more explicet pics if they dont beleive bollocks move on there loss
Sex God
Take a picture of yourself with a daily newspaper that clearly shows the date so they know its a current picture. Then remove a finger with a sterilised blade and post the two together, (I've seen this in films). Do this daily until they believe you. I kinda guess that this is only gonna work for 4-5 days cos removing the fingers from the other hand if they are still not convinced ain't gonna be easy on account of not being able to grasp the blade.
Other than that, don't bust a gut over it, folk need to take some things on trust and if they can't there isnt much else you can do
Other than that, don't bust a gut over it, folk need to take some things on trust and if they can't there isnt much else you can do
Mod
Quote by devondelight
Don't bother trying to convince him. Tell him you are who you are, you're not misleading him, but if he seem to want more, then it's his problem, not yours.
And I know you're genuine!
Mal
Just as well as I never remember who you are do I
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Even though it IS me in my avatar!!
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Quote by Mal
Even though it IS me in my avatar!!
I thought you were going to say it was someone elses arse :shock:
DD, as the others have said, if the guy does not believe you, is asking for more pics, then move on. Its his loss not yours
Quote by davej
Take a picture of yourself with a daily newspaper that clearly shows the date so they know its a current picture. Then remove a finger with a sterilised blade and post the two together, (I've seen this in films). Do this daily until they believe you. I kinda guess that this is only gonna work for 4-5 days cos removing the fingers from the other hand if they are still not convinced ain't gonna be easy on account of not being able to grasp the blade.
Other than that, don't bust a gut over it, folk need to take some things on trust and if they can't there isnt much else you can do
Wimp!
You'd never make a Yakuza!
Sexlightened
No i cant but i will find out myself one day soon x
Sex God
Yakuza my arse stormie. Been buying cosmetic fingers in their droves them yakuzas, trying to prettify up their mutilated digits. not very gangster that really is it? 
they'll be spraying on San Tropez tans and having their ponies extravagantly coiffured next!
could come in handy though them fingers. instead of actually chopping yer fingers off Devon, like what dave said, you could just keep posting off rubber things and the like. bit of tomato sauce on 'em, bob's yer uncle. could keep going for ages.
has the added advantage that you'd still be able to type after a bit, which is good, being a member of a t'interweb forum and stuff. 
the one flaw in the plan is that they might start thinking there's something not quite right going on when they get the eleventh through, which on reflection, might start to undermine the whole 'trying to prove i'm genuine with severed fingers' thing?
neil x x x ;)
p.s. devon? always looked real flesh and blood whenever i've seen you out? ;)
they'll be spraying on San Tropez tans and having their ponies extravagantly coiffured next! could come in handy though them fingers. instead of actually chopping yer fingers off Devon, like what dave said, you could just keep posting off rubber things and the like. bit of tomato sauce on 'em, bob's yer uncle. could keep going for ages.
has the added advantage that you'd still be able to type after a bit, which is good, being a member of a t'interweb forum and stuff. the one flaw in the plan is that they might start thinking there's something not quite right going on when they get the eleventh through, which on reflection, might start to undermine the whole 'trying to prove i'm genuine with severed fingers' thing?
neil x x x ;)
p.s. devon? always looked real flesh and blood whenever i've seen you out? ;)
Quote by devondelight
How can you convince someone, you are who you say you are. I am having a problem with a certain person on here who I am planning to meet for the first time soon, that I am who I say I am.
I have not tried to deliberately mislead said person and have sent several pictures of myself for viewing. Now I am being told that all the pictures I have sent are different and that my avatar is not me .. well I thought that was obvious.
I am being accused of lying to this person and I am feeling quite upset as I really don't know how to convince this person I am genuine.
Can people who know me perhaps post that I am kosher.
Also how would you deal with this situation, if you were the one being told you are suspect.
DD
Try me instead. Biker
n.b. That's not me in the avatar
Sex God
Quote by devondelight
How can you convince someone, you are who you say you are. I am having a problem with a certain person on here who I am planning to meet for the first time soon, that I am who I say I am.
I have not tried to deliberately mislead said person and have sent several pictures of myself for viewing. Now I am being told that all the pictures I have sent are different and that my avatar is not me .. well I thought that was obvious.
I am being accused of lying to this person and I am feeling quite upset as I really don't know how to convince this person I am genuine.
Can people who know me perhaps post that I am kosher.
Also how would you deal with this situation, if you were the one being told you are suspect.
DD
DD, I agree with those who urge you not to bother, this person is behaving rather bizarrely, and even if you persist through this strange set of hurdles he is putting up for you, and do get as far as meeting him, he is most certainly going to come up with some other sort of odd behaviour.
Stick to the normal ones!
Quote by Stormwalker
Ummmmm, thats not me in my avatar either
Now look Stormie babe you know perfectly well I have met you and know you are a great big bad wolf
DD
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
When FFS!
was it Bristol?
don't tell me I had another freckledbird moment
Of course it was ... me thinks you need to eat more fish to improve your memory ... surely I wasn't that easy to forget lol.
DD
Sex God
Quote by devondelight
How can you convince someone, you are who you say you are. I am having a problem with a certain person on here who I am planning to meet for the first time soon, that I am who I say I am.
I have not tried to deliberately mislead said person and have sent several pictures of myself for viewing. Now I am being told that all the pictures I have sent are different and that my avatar is not me .. well I thought that was obvious.
I am being accused of lying to this person and I am feeling quite upset as I really don't know how to convince this person I am genuine.
Can people who know me perhaps post that I am kosher.
Also how would you deal with this situation, if you were the one being told you are suspect.
DD
Don't worry Dave, if they don't want to play with a 6ft muscled, rugby playing adonis like yourself it's their loss. Although i must agree that you do look a bit different in a little black dress
Sex God
Its the 6 inch stilettos that make all the difference
Quote by neilinleeds
Yakuza my arse stormie. Been buying cosmetic fingers in their droves them yakuzas, trying to prettify up their mutilated digits. not very gangster that really is it?
Tightly curled perms were what the well dressed Yakuza sported the last time I was in Japan......never a good look on a bloke.
could come in handy though them fingers. instead of actually chopping yer fingers off Devon, like what dave said, you could just keep posting off rubber things and the like. bit of tomato sauce on 'em, bob's yer uncle. could keep going for ages.
the one flaw in the plan is that they might start thinking there's something not quite right going on when they get the eleventh through, which on reflection, might start to undermine the whole 'trying to prove i'm genuine with severed fingers' thing?
neil x x x ;)
p.s. devon? always looked real flesh and blood whenever i've seen you out? ;)
Yes, but shes a Devon Lass..........eleven fingers are practically normal in this neck of the woods
Quote by devondelight
Ummmmm, thats not me in my avatar either
Now look Stormie babe you know perfectly well I have met you and know you are a great big bad wolf
DD
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
When FFS!
was it Bristol?
don't tell me I had another freckledbird moment
Of course it was ... me thinks you need to eat more fish to improve your memory ... surely I wasn't that easy to forget lol.
DD
I think Dawnie must have put somthing in my glass i don't remember half of it.......god I must be getting old.
Quote by Stormwalker
Ummmmm, thats not me in my avatar either
Now look Stormie babe you know perfectly well I have met you and know you are a great big bad wolf
DD
:shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:
When FFS!
was it Bristol?
don't tell me I had another freckledbird moment
Of course it was ... me thinks you need to eat more fish to improve your memory ... surely I wasn't that easy to forget lol.
DD
I think Dawnie must have put somthing in my glass i don't remember half of it.......god I must be getting old.
Lol it was quite a while ago and I forget people too. I'll forgive you if you give me a kiss next time we meet lol
DD :lol:
Quote by Stormwalker
Yakuza my arse stormie. Been buying cosmetic fingers in their droves them yakuzas, trying to prettify up their mutilated digits. not very gangster that really is it?
Tightly curled perms were what the well dressed Yakuza sported the last time I was in Japan......never a good look on a bloke.
could come in handy though them fingers. instead of actually chopping yer fingers off Devon, like what dave said, you could just keep posting off rubber things and the like. bit of tomato sauce on 'em, bob's yer uncle. could keep going for ages.
the one flaw in the plan is that they might start thinking there's something not quite right going on when they get the eleventh through, which on reflection, might start to undermine the whole 'trying to prove i'm genuine with severed fingers' thing?
neil x x x ;)
p.s. devon? always looked real flesh and blood whenever i've seen you out? ;)
Yes, but shes a Devon Lass..........eleven fingers are practically normal in this neck of the woods
Now you've made me chock on my tea
