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The curious thing was that on chatting to him he claimed that I had first added him and that he accepted me! :confused:
Now if we are both correct in that neither of us initiated the contact then isn't this impossible.
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So my only conclusion is that there is a third party out there matching up swinging couples & singles! :twisted: