I recently met up with someone (from another site). We msn'd & chatted on the phone for a week of so before meeting. The day arrived we met at a pub for a drink and a chat and a flirt so that we could take things further.
She looked great from her picture - just the type of person I was looking for.
We met up and she disclosed to me that:-
Despite asking her on a couple of occasions 'Is that really you in the pic?' - Her opening line was 'I guess you can tell it's not really me in the picture'
She wasn't married but divorced.
She also went on to say that she wasn't 35 but 42 (and looked more like 52)
and she wasn't a size 10-12 but a size 18-20.
Also the two names she gave were both false (I accept that many people including myself use a different screen name than their actual name until personal contact is made and then you tell them!)
and didn't like giving oral - something she was supposed to love!
And lied about where she lives
Bascially lied about just about everything.
Consequently I have had no further contact with her and it was a complete waste of my time and hers.
The thing is I didn't lie about a single thing & felt betrayed - How could I trust her at all?
It does seem to be different here and I do feel safe that poeple are generally truthfull as I am.
Has anyone else had a similar experience or is it me being too naive?
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Dear Jamie,
If you think you had it bad (though it can't have been that bad as you seemed to have hung around talking for long enough to find out she don't give head), wait till you get a real whopper-teller.
I was expecting to meet a 6ft+ tanned & toned young guy named Tony and found myself waiting near the pub for a pot-bellied balding midget named Abdul - who had thoughtfully been sending photos of his mate (as his mate had more luck with the ladies).
If you think you had it bad (though it can't have been that bad as you seemed to have hung around talking for long enough to find out she don't give head), wait till you get a real whopper-teller.
I was expecting to meet a 6ft+ tanned & toned young guy named Tony and found myself waiting near the pub for a pot-bellied balding midget named Abdul - who had thoughtfully been sending photos of his mate (as his mate had more luck with the ladies).
Quote by de_sade
Dear Jamie,
If you think you had it bad (though it can't have been that bad as you seemed to have hung around talking for long enough to find out she don't give head), wait till you get a real whopper-teller.
I was expecting to meet a 6ft+ tanned & toned young guy named Tony and found myself waiting near the pub for a pot-bellied balding midget named Abdul - who had thoughtfully been sending photos of his mate (as his mate had more luck with the ladies).
Hmmmmm.....But how did the story end?
I was wondering the same thing as I can't quite tell from Polos post whether she was disappointed or not?
Quote by PoloLady
Dear Jamie,
If you think you had it bad (though it can't have been that bad as you seemed to have hung around talking for long enough to find out she don't give head), wait till you get a real whopper-teller.
I was expecting to meet a 6ft+ tanned & toned young guy named Tony and found myself waiting near the pub for a pot-bellied balding midget named Abdul - who had thoughtfully been sending photos of his mate (as his mate had more luck with the ladies).
Did you get his mate's phone number?
I had a very similar thing only mine turned up in cuban heels thinking I wouldn't notice he was 6" shorter than he said he was.
H.x
Quote by de_sade
Dear Jamie,
If you think you had it bad (though it can't have been that bad as you seemed to have hung around talking for long enough to find out she don't give head), wait till you get a real whopper-teller.
I was expecting to meet a 6ft+ tanned & toned young guy named Tony and found myself waiting near the pub for a pot-bellied balding midget named Abdul - who had thoughtfully been sending photos of his mate (as his mate had more luck with the ladies).
Hmmmmm.....But how did the story end?
The total conversation went something like this........
(me sat in the car on my mobile)
Hi, I am just parked at the end of XXXXXXXX Street.
(him on mobile)
I have just pulled up at the bottom of the road. Which car are you in?
(me sat in the car on my mobile)
The silver XXXXX right at the end outside Subway.
(him on mobile)
I am just walking up now,
(me sat in the car on my mobile)
Which side are you on... I can't see you?
(him on mobile)
I am just coming up behind you now.
(me sat in the car on my mobile)
I still can't see you... there's some short fat asian bloke in the way!
(him on mobile)
I am here.
Mobiles get switched off.
(me - laughing)
Why did you send me a photo of someone else?
(him)
So you would meet me.
(me - laughing)
Who is he?
(him)
He is a friend of mine. He doesn't have any trouble meeting people so I thought I would send his photos instead of mine.
(me)
But didn't you think I would notice?
(him)
I thought you would like me once you got to know me.
(me)
I know all I need to know already... you're a liar now fuck off!
Thinking about it - doesn't a watered down version of that happen in just about every meet/date/courtship?
My sister and I have discussed this. She flirts big time and is, in my opinion, a completely different person when she is dating a bloke. Things go well until about a year into the relationship when she can't keep up the masquerade anymore. Okay so physically she doesn't change - this is all about the way she acts. My sister's relationships hardly last more than 1 - 2 years.
Me - well she always had a go at me becuase I kind of go with the "what you see is what you get" attitude. If you don't like me at the beginning - well you just aren't going to like me full stop. Okay so I haven't dated as much as she has - but I'd rather be me from the beginning.
As for the absolute blatant lie -( the old photo being a fave for example) - it seems to happen a lot. I have been fortunate and not come across it in my life - but I would have to walk away and feel (if not say) the same as POLO. You are a Liar!
RSxx :color:
My sister and I have discussed this. She flirts big time and is, in my opinion, a completely different person when she is dating a bloke. Things go well until about a year into the relationship when she can't keep up the masquerade anymore. Okay so physically she doesn't change - this is all about the way she acts. My sister's relationships hardly last more than 1 - 2 years.
Me - well she always had a go at me becuase I kind of go with the "what you see is what you get" attitude. If you don't like me at the beginning - well you just aren't going to like me full stop. Okay so I haven't dated as much as she has - but I'd rather be me from the beginning.
As for the absolute blatant lie -( the old photo being a fave for example) - it seems to happen a lot. I have been fortunate and not come across it in my life - but I would have to walk away and feel (if not say) the same as POLO. You are a Liar!
RSxx :color:
