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The Joys Of Kissing

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Right i am getting into this forum thing actually!! Whilst replying to Tomu about Oral Sex i found myself Jabbering on about Kissing. Something i do Love.
I have loved it since primary school when we used to play kiss catch's with the girls and Damn i was always a slow runner lol Anyway i just want to talk about how important it is too be a good kisser, it shocked me once to here from a few girls that a bad kisser is a deal breaker no matter how good looking the guy was!
So Ladies how much do you rate kissing and what are the best bits about kissing and the worst bits ?
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there are no bad bits about kissing... only bad kissers.
The best bits are....... oh gosh loads... I will come back to this.
When you meet someone you know you're going to get it on with and you have the very first proper kiss, you know straight away if it's going to be an all round good or bad experience. The first kiss gives it all away.
(Does that make any sense?)
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there are no bad bits about kissing... only bad kissers.
The best bits are....... oh gosh loads... I will come back to this.

I agree there are some bad kissers :cry: such a shame as they are often the most attractive ones hmmmm maybe a pattern xxxxxxxxx
For us the first kiss is a deal maker/breaker
No doubt about it - if the other person/s is a lousy kisser then it's a NO GO!
A slow sensual kiss is always the best way to get things moving along
and as for those who can't or won't kiss (we're still amazed some ppl can swing without kissing!) sorry but your missing out on such a big part of the fun that we have to wonder ........... what the hell are you doing instead??
Yeah we know we risk being shot at but we just can't imagine swinging without kissing - it's a definite essential part of the whole thing - and so we are left shaking our heads at those who don't - we do try and live our swinging lives with a very much "whatever floats ya boat is good" kinda attitude but this one leaves us a little lost
>>>>Harrumphs off to sit in a corner & sulk<<<<<
As you were.
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>>>>Harrumphs off to sit in a corner & sulk<<<<<
As you were.

what is wrong with you ? rolleyes
I love long sexy kisses the type that make you want to throw your man down and ride me all night :twisted:
The touching of the face and neck while kissing is great to lol
But its bad when you meet a kisser the wants to eat your face when there kissing evil
Laff_n_Chilli Posted: Thu May 01, 2008 4:15 pm Post subject:
For us the first kiss is a deal maker/breaker
No doubt about it - if the other person/s is a lousy kisser then it's a NO GO!

Right with you hun bad kisser bad in bed :shock:
Good kisses:
The very first one - light soft and gentle, then you start to explore the mouth running your tongue over their lips, little nibbles here and there.
The 'I want more!' - slightly more pressure and more urgent, nuzzling the neck and throat, kissing their face, hot breath in their ear then moving back to the mouth.
The 'hard, fast, shag me now' - fast, urgent and hungry though never EVER sloppy! Leave them gasping for more :twisted:
The 'afters' kiss - back to soft and gentle nips and kisses.
Bad kisses:
Feeling like you're being eaten alive! :shock:
Being slobbered over....eeeuuwwww!
Too hard, too soon
worst still......none at all!!!!! :shock:
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>>>>Harrumphs off to sit in a corner & sulk<<<<<
As you were.

what is wrong with you ? rolleyes
She's never been kissed. biggrin
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>>>>Harrumphs off to sit in a corner & sulk<<<<<
As you were.

what is wrong with you ? rolleyes
She's never been kissed. biggrin
I have :smug:
Quote by splendid_
>>>>Harrumphs off to sit in a corner & sulk<<<<<
As you were.

what is wrong with you ? rolleyes
She's never been kissed. biggrin
I have :smug:
I live in hope sad

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Quote by winchwench
>>>>Harrumphs off to sit in a corner & sulk<<<<<
As you were.
Cumere gissa snog! passionkiss
What's a kiss? dunno
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Well kisses can be a disappointment - especially if teeth get too prominent! :shock:
But there's something that never fails to excite and it's that moment just before you kiss - the proximity - the warm breath - the flash up and down of the eyes - the gentle brush of lip against cheek then lip - and then the sigh...... ahh the anticipation can beat the real thing.
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I love kissing... no, more than that. I seriously, totally and absolutely ADORE kissing!
The thing that is guaranteed to make me melt though is when someone kisses me and, at the same time, puts their hand to the nape of my neck and grabs my hair... something about that kind of possessive tug of the hair combined with a full-on snog is just *sigh* heaven.
Oh and I could easily list my top 10 snogs!
passionkiss I never forget a good kiss...
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The thing that is guaranteed to make me melt though is when someone kisses me and, at the same time, puts their hand to the nape of my neck and grabs my hair... something about that kind of possessive tug of the hair combined with a full-on snog is just *sigh* heaven.
passionkiss I never forget a good kiss...

MMMMMMM yummy!
Big up the pash kiss, i could do with one now!
kissing is extremely important for me, as my profile says if you dont kiss dont bother getting in touch
i can get all hot horny and bothered just from a damn good kiss
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kissing is extremely important for me, as my profile says if you dont kiss dont bother getting in touch
i can get all hot horny and bothered just from a damn good kiss

:thumbup: Absolutely.
In fact, I think in some ways kissing is lots more erotic and sensuous than sex itself...
Of course anyone who wishes to prove otherwise then my PM box is thattaway <<<<<<<<<<<
Nothing like a good ole kissing session...... smile :)
I SO love kissing, its a HUGE turn on for me when i swing....very very erotic passionkiss
Oh god I love a good snogging session :rascal:
Nothing better than lots of kissing as you explore each others bodies......
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>>>>Harrumphs off to sit in a corner & sulk<<<<<
As you were.

Why's that flowerpot whats the matter?
Quote by splendid_
>>>>Harrumphs off to sit in a corner & sulk<<<<<
As you were.

what is wrong with you ? rolleyes
She's a rubbish kisser....... :roll:
The more I think about this subject the more I look back on past experiences and I start to ponder ......
Quite honestly I don't think there is such a think as a bad kisser - more so, just incompatible kisses.
For instance, take the person who likes nothing more than to try and eat your face, they do that because that's what works for them. Now if they were to kiss someone who likes the same, they would believe that that person is a faberooney kisser, whilst someone who likes, soft would describe them as a bad kisser.
Maybe from a male point of view, but when you kiss someone, you try and adapt your kiss to what they seem to like, if its a full tongue in your gob type of thing then thats what you do, even though it does not work for you.
I remember a while ago Neil posted what was described as the perfect kiss, and absolutely, in my mind he was spot on, but as we are all different, it will not work for everybody, just the majority smile
As for me, there is nothing better than a slow lingering kiss, building up as the passion heats. Am I a good kisser - nope, I don't class myself as one, but I do think of myself as adaptable and responsive to how a lady likes to be kissed.
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Phew, there you go, 1000 up and its only taken 3.5 years - crikey :) Most probably full of crap, but heyho, we all have an opinion don't we :)
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Just had to add an odd bounce or two, this is quite an achievement for me
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off to celebrate now ............ bolt
I love a great kisser, is the one thing that really turns me on to that level of totally releasing myself to someone.
A guy with soft gentle lips mmmmmm! gently exploring each other with our hands while kissing.
You can feel in a kiss the passion within someone.
I don't understand people that don't kiss, each to their own, but I don't get the none kissing bit.
A good kisser is more likely to have me ripping my clothes off than a groper! wink
i dont know wether im a good kisser or not anyone care to test? kiss
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i dont know wether im a good kisser or not anyone care to test? kiss

I have no idea if I am either dunno
I never seem to get many snogs at Munches or socials so perhaps I'm crap......Or just too ugly :lol2: