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I can walk away.
Sometimes I choose not to, but it's not for the sake of having the last word - it's because another debatable point has been raised.
Debates ebb and flow, sometimes the so-called last word is just another bend in the road of the discussion.
It's only the last word when the discussion is over regardless of who has it.
Quote by Freckledbird
I can walk away.
Sometimes I choose not to, but it's not for the sake of having the last word - it's because another debatable point has been raised.

No you can't. lol
Quote by flower411
If you are discussing stuff with people and there is a difference of opinion, do you just have to have the last word ??
Or...can you walk away, confident that you have made your point and without the need to keep turning the same old points over and over until everybody else in the room or in your life or whatever gets so pissed off that they really really can`t be bothered to make a comment or have a discussion with you because they know for a fact that it will just descend into tit for tat "point scoring" arguments that achieve nothing !! lol
Or what ?? :lol:

Depends on whether I'm eating peanuts or not.
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Depends on the situation.
I do enjoy a good debate on equal terms, I do find sometimes people debate with emotion rather than fact and to be honest there is no way to win against someone like that, so yep, i'll walk away.
Equal terms, about a subject that interests me, I'll be there all day.
Tell you what, I'm going to sit on my bloody hands now. confused
I think I've proved tonight even, that I don't need to have the last word.
As long as I've put my point across I don't give a :fuckinghell: , even if people feel the need to continue the arguement to make themselves feel better or to vent some ill feeling out that they may have about me :smug:
depends on with whom the discussion /argument is with....with anyone semi sane the need to have the last word is is negated....with a arrogant so n so the need for the last word....is again negated ...those who "need" to have the last word are often misguided individuals methinks!
Quote by Whipsnspurs
if i've made my point and i know i'm right then i see no point in carrying on. but what i hate is when people refuse to accept my point. if it's a personal opinion then it's not wrong to voice it. if it offends people you have to be willing to take the flack that may come your way as a result. in that case it may need further explanation.
sometimes though it makes no difference what you say, some people are just never going to see your side of it. i say what i do, if people misunderstand me i will try and say it in a way that helps them. but lets face it, no matter how you say things sometimes they just never can explain how you really feel.
whips
whips

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I never have a point to make!
I only give my opinion! lol
Flower I made you think about wearing your suit for your new avatar just admit it! :lol:
Quote by Hibernian
if i've made my point and i know i'm right then i see no point in carrying on. but what i hate is when people refuse to accept my point. if it's a personal opinion then it's not wrong to voice it. if it offends people you have to be willing to take the flack that may come your way as a result. in that case it may need further explanation.
sometimes though it makes no difference what you say, some people are just never going to see your side of it. i say what i do, if people misunderstand me i will try and say it in a way that helps them. but lets face it, no matter how you say things sometimes they just never can explain how you really feel.
whips
whips

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wooooooaaaahhh
great minds?
Quote by Whipsnspurs
lol thanks guys!
whips

lol you just said exactly what i was thinking... but i can never find the right words to explain myself redface
thanks hun! xx
i can easily walk away opinions r just opinions after all no wrong or right just good ole opinions
actually i like the word opinions its fun to type lol
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I think I've had my last word, or words for a while in the forums.
I used to love a good debate, I've started some contentious threads myself - but the way threads go these days, where what could have been a thought-provoking, maybe mind-changing debate turns into a nit-picking slanging match, well I can't be mithered to join in those any more.
why walk away on a debate that interest you dunno ,i try to be flexible to accomodate different opinions but after all the points have been exhausted would be good if a conclusion is made but that might exclude future contributors!
but the worse part is when you start a thread and the first replier want to suffocate it by having a last word or telling you to goggle it.. :cry:
This whole thread is moot.
Invariably the true last word is down to the Mod who locks the thread.
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Quote by Peanut
This whole thread is moot.
Invariably the true last word is down to the Mod who locks the thread. :twisted:

this is actually a threat to the forum many are locked so prematurely,i think suspending a thread for couple of hours when things heat up or get personal would be a good idea,but both parties must be adviced and some replies deleted...
Quote by flower411
This whole thread is moot.
Invariably the true last word is down to the Mod who locks the thread. :twisted:

this is actually a threat to the forum many are locked so prematurely,i think suspending a thread for couple of hours when things heat up or get personal would be a good idea,but both parties must be adviced and some replies deleted...
It is unfortunate that some peoples sole agenda appears to be to wind people up to the point where they become so heated that a mod feels the need to lock the thread.
Personally I think the people causing the problem should be warned off and the thread allowed to run, when it`s only two pepole winding things up .
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Quote by flower411
This whole thread is moot.
Invariably the true last word is down to the Mod who locks the thread. :twisted:

this is actually a threat to the forum many are locked so prematurely,i think suspending a thread for couple of hours when things heat up or get personal would be a good idea,but both parties must be adviced and some replies deleted...
It is unfortunate that some peoples sole agenda appears to be to wind people up to the point where they become so heated that a mod feels the need to lock the thread.
Personally I think the people causing the problem should be warned off and the thread allowed to run, when it`s only two pepole winding things up.
I think they should be banned from posting for a while personally.
Right .......... I am going to have the last word!!! :giggle:
Stop the arguements ........ Stop the nasty posts .... Stop being bloody awful to each other and start making the forums fun ......... like they used to be.
I joined for a giggle not the current SH*TE that seems to have become the norm!
So the last word from me is STOP! PLEASE
Quote by blonde
Right .......... I am going to have the last word!!! :giggle:
Stop the arguements ........ Stop the nasty posts .... Stop being bloody awful to each other and start making the forums fun ......... like they used to be.
I joined for a giggle not the current SH*TE that seems to have become the norm!
So the last word from me is STOP! PLEASE

worship
Right on, your lovely Blondeness, right on.
Quote by blonde
Right .......... I am going to have the last word!!! :giggle:
Stop the arguements ........ Stop the nasty posts .... Stop being bloody awful to each other and start making the forums fun ......... like they used to be.
I joined for a giggle not the current SH*TE that seems to have become the norm!
So the last word from me is STOP! PLEASE

Sorry Hun but I am! lol
Oh No you aren't :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Quote by Cherrytree
I think I've had my last word, or words for a while in the forums.
I used to love a good debate, I've started some contentious threads myself - but the way threads go these days, where what could have been a thought-provoking, maybe mind-changing debate turns into a nit-picking slanging match, well I can't be mithered to join in those any more.

I for one miss you cherry. cool
Quote by noladreams30
Right .......... I am going to have the last word!!! :giggle:
Stop the arguements ........ Stop the nasty posts .... Stop being bloody awful to each other and start making the forums fun ......... like they used to be.
I joined for a giggle not the current SH*TE that seems to have become the norm!
So the last word from me is STOP! PLEASE

worship
Right on, your lovely Blondeness, right on.
Blonde, I've already said 'stop' elsewhere.
I'm with you two lovelies. Shall we go away somewhere from the fighting?
Quote by Theladyisaminx
This whole thread is moot.
Invariably the true last word is down to the Mod who locks the thread. :twisted:

this is actually a threat to the forum many are locked so prematurely,i think suspending a thread for couple of hours when things heat up or get personal would be a good idea,but both parties must be adviced and some replies deleted...
It is unfortunate that some peoples sole agenda appears to be to wind people up to the point where they become so heated that a mod feels the need to lock the thread.
Personally I think the people causing the problem should be warned off and the thread allowed to run, when it`s only two pepole winding things up.
I think they should be banned from posting for a while personally.
i think asked not to post on that particular thread would be appropriate!
Quote by Hibernian
Use all this energy to ravish me you cunts

:shock: confused
Quote by Freckledbird
Right .......... I am going to have the last word!!! :giggle:
Stop the arguements ........ Stop the nasty posts .... Stop being bloody awful to each other and start making the forums fun ......... like they used to be.
I joined for a giggle not the current SH*TE that seems to have become the norm!
So the last word from me is STOP! PLEASE

worship
Right on, your lovely Blondeness, right on.
Blonde, I've already said 'stop' elsewhere.
I'm with you two lovelies. Shall we go away somewhere from the fighting?
Oooh, that'd suit me! :rascal:
Quote by Freckledbird
Use all this energy to ravish me you cunts

:shock: confused
Thank god it wasn't only me... :?
Quote by noladreams30
Use all this energy to ravish me you cunts

:shock: confused
Thank god it wasn't only me... :?
me too :shock: :shock: