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The most comfortable position of trying first time anal

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hi, no doubt this has been covered before somewhere, but has anyone tried searching thro the forums?! Needle in a haystack is the wrong ANALogy to use! Anyway my question is IS one position better than another when trying anal for the first time? I can understand personal preference on this, but if someone likes many positions which is the most comfortable? Oh and if anyone does find a post on this topic can they please tell me!
thanx
ps can someone tell me how I show a link to my ad on my profile or on a post in PLAIN english?
Make sure you have her trapped so she carnt wriggle and delay entry lol
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ps can someone tell me how I show a link to my ad on my profile or on a post in PLAIN english?

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Many of you posting in here will have adverts. You can place a link to your advert in your posts, you can even have it in your signature so that it appears on ALL your posts. Copy the following code
Click to View my Advert
And paste it into your posting, or the signature box on your profile.
The four digit number (1234) is the advert number, you will need to delete 1234 and insert your advert number. Bear in mind that your advert number may be longer or shorter than 4 digits.
The text (Click to View My Advert) you can amend to say what every you want "Gateway to Heaven" "Abandon Hope all Ye who Click Here" or one thing that is gauranteed to get every one to click "Please do not click here"
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From here: http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/4225.html
The forum does have a search key located at the top right(ish). You don't have to search it yourself going from page to page. wink
Here's a few that I pulled out for you:
Regards positioning:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/27039.html
Practicallity:
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/26151.html
Ten rules of:

For the first time I can only think of working your way up first and then witht he lady on her side, knees up. That would give the best 'access'. It might be fun finding it out yourselves though :twisted:
I would say - from experience redface - one of the most omportant things for a girl in anal sex is (except positions which you can find in others posts) .... delicate foreplay concentrated on her annus. More the better smile
xxx
M
Quote by bisto kid
Make sure you have her trapped so she carnt wriggle and delay entry lol

rolleyes
or just make sure she knows you're thinking about trying it first :shock:
could be a shock :shock:
plus it gives her time to prepare hers to get you back after :P loleye for an eye !
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I would say - from experience redface - one of the most omportant things for a girl in anal sex is (except positions which you can find in others posts) .... delicate foreplay concentrated on her annus. More the better smile
xxx
M

yeah i agree, mrs ninja loved her first anal, she was relaxed and horney as hell...lots and lots of rimming, fingering, and if he`s well endowed it helps if he puts his hand around his cock (porn star stylee) so only the head goes in, it can be done without any pain but takes a lot of fore play :twisted:
dont know how to do quotes yet, but Bisto's idea seems like fun with a sub fem
I get the general idea...and of course she is up for it we just weren't sure how to proceed! Its all much clearer now thank you all for u'r hellp lol
As for searching this site i'll have to work on that and i think i mite have had my ad link sorted tho not sure..god i sound such a blonde!!
Butt once again thanx all :P
at this moment in time giving, tho i haven't excluded the other option completely!! Its a case of wait and see as far as receiving goes
Don't try it on a picnic table unless you're very experienced and like a few battle honours :P
You'll end up with abrasions on your back, knees and elbows (the one on the receiving end anyway) innocent :whistling:
:rascal: :rascal:
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at this moment in time giving, tho i haven't excluded the other option completely!! Its a case of wait and see as far as receiving goes

well i have a strap on so if you need showing wink
Whatever you do never ever just go staight in... and then say... "Don't dare back off me" :shock:
*mind you it was rather pleasant in a very shocking way
redface :giggle:
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Well I've just asked mrs northwest for some anal sex and she said my most comfortable position will be in a hospital bed if I try again. :shock:
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Well I've just asked mrs northwest for some anal sex and she said my most comfortable position will be in a hospital bed if I try again. :shock:
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pmsl thats so funny i just love it in here you laugh you cry then laugh again .
lol :lol: :lol:
If you persuade her at the time with, 'I'll only put it in a little bit' -then mean it. Listen to her feed back, and be you behave could mean the difference between success, maybe next time, or no way -ever! No, means No remember.
cc_7up
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Well I've just asked mrs northwest for some anal sex and she said my most comfortable position will be in a hospital bed if I try again. :shock:

is that cos hospital beds are adjustable and you can try positions normally not comfortable on an ordinary bed? confused:
Quote by SexyGuy
Well I've just asked mrs northwest for some anal sex and she said my most comfortable position will be in a hospital bed if I try again. :shock:

is that cos hospital beds are adjustable and you can try positions normally not comfortable on an ordinary bed? confused:
I'm hoping that's what she meant. Keeping my fingers crossed anyway. :P
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at this moment in time giving, tho i haven't excluded the other option completely!! Its a case of wait and see as far as receiving goes

well i have a strap on so if you need showing wink
that sounds nice
Quote by Robert1961
at this moment in time giving, tho i haven't excluded the other option completely!! Its a case of wait and see as far as receiving goes

well i have a strap on so if you need showing wink
that sounds nice
Yes it does, wonder if thats an offer and is it a private showing? lol
Quote by SexyGuy
at this moment in time giving, tho i haven't excluded the other option completely!! Its a case of wait and see as far as receiving goes

well i have a strap on so if you need showing wink
that sounds nice
Yes it does, wonder if thats an offer and is it a private showing? lol
need a victim first lol
gunna be snowed under with offers now, every time i mention strap ons i get loads of guys pm-ing me lol
well you said it sems like u want your in box full!!
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well you said it sems like u want your in box full!!

well thats what we're here for isn't it wink
er well yes from a female perspective, from a male one it can be quite the opposite smile
why not let her get on top then she can control how much enters her and believe me she will stop if it hurts too use plenty of gel
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at this moment in time giving, tho i haven't excluded the other option completely!! Its a case of wait and see as far as receiving goes

well i have a strap on so if you need showing wink
that sounds nice
Yes it does, wonder if thats an offer and is it a private showing? lol
need a victim first lol
gunna be snowed under with offers now, every time i mention strap ons i get loads of guys pm-ing me lol

you can use a strap on for me but you better tie me down first
I'm still bemused,a little,is this about giving or if I'm being dim,but i didn't skip read and still not sure rolleyes
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I'm still bemused,a little,is this about giving or if I'm being dim,but i didn't skip read and still not sure rolleyes

it could be either I suppose, though intially it was about first time receivin fora pertner and the best of going about it!