Went to a meet arranged on this site in a hotel near an airport that was meant to have at least 10 people in attendence - can you believe that only 3 turned up !!
Seriously people it just proves that people are jerking themselves off at the thought of the meet but can be arsed to drag themselves away from the pc to get naked with a very willing lady
Wish i hadn't locked three of my flatmates out the house and had to leave after an hour and a half cos there was fun to be had for hours
It's unbeleivable that people spend hours trawling for meets then don't show - their loss!!
SC
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The no shows missed out tonight . . .
I arranged a meet last month where i had something from 10-12 people all ready to show up. I was arranging it with a guy i chat to online. On the actual day. 3 people showed up and that didnt include the co-host. . we all still had a great time but the timewaster and ignorant non-email repliers are getting worse........it pays to build up a little circle of people you reky on doesnt it. which is what i am doing/trying to do.........
Sexlightened
Give me the chance, I will be there........................!!!!!
what i tend to do now is rather than do a short term "lets meet up on tuesday" type thing.
I do a "lets meet up on the 25th of this month" thing. And you tend to get the feel (pardon the pun) of those that are full of it, and those that are genuine. In time i hope to have at least 10 different people that i know are genuine and know will show unless theres a good reason for it. . . . .
I also never dish out photos of any of the other guests or give out there email addys or such like. I like the people to trust my judgetment to weed out the idiots.......and ive been right more than wrong
:)
I do a "lets meet up on the 25th of this month" thing. And you tend to get the feel (pardon the pun) of those that are full of it, and those that are genuine. In time i hope to have at least 10 different people that i know are genuine and know will show unless theres a good reason for it. . . . .
I also never dish out photos of any of the other guests or give out there email addys or such like. I like the people to trust my judgetment to weed out the idiots.......and ive been right more than wrong
:) Had a great time, broke two legs off the bed in the hotel room . . . I hate to think of the damage that would have been caused if everyone showed up 
It still staggers me that there is a 30% show up rate for meetings, really doesn't make any sense - all that hard work setting it up and the promise of fun and still they do not come!
SC
It still staggers me that there is a 30% show up rate for meetings, really doesn't make any sense - all that hard work setting it up and the promise of fun and still they do not come!
SC
well i've never actually had a meet up yet with anyone, but if i said that i was going to be somewhere for a meet you can bet for sure i would actually be there! i think that there are alot of peeps on here who only come on for a cheep thrill, to see some naked pics and to have a cheeky wank over sexy correspondance! i sympathise with anyone who has organised something only to be screwed over by folk not turning up at the last minute!
oh and on another point, lissa, next time you organise something like that! please invite me! i'd be there with bells on! lol
cheers
Ewen
oh and on another point, lissa, next time you organise something like that! please invite me! i'd be there with bells on! lol
cheers
Ewen
Quote by HornyBunny
I mean cant we have on here a system where you can "rate" meets... make it anonymous ... ie
i say i'll meet you
you say you'll meet you
you say whether i came
i say whether you came
jobs a good un... those with black marks will be exiled
Hi HornyBunny
I think your idea is great as that way it helps couples,female. guy get a good idea if the people they are meeting are genuine, and not time wasters.
I know what a lot of people will say that it would not be fare because there maybe a genuine reoson for them not turning up, so maybe they should have to wait 24 hour or so before they can put a rating on.
I have seen other sites do this so i dont think it shouldn't be to hard for the site to put in place if they think it a good idea.
Well done, i think it a great idea.
mikey55
Quote by raunchyrabbits
I mean cant we have on here a system where you can "rate" meets... make it anonymous ... ie
i say i'll meet you
you say you'll meet you
you say whether i came
i say whether you came
jobs a good un... those with black marks will be exiled
I think this will have been suggested lots of times in the past on SH and is always rejected because any such system is open to abuse.
:thumbup:
we are a very genuine cpl, although it is admittedly me who uses the site these days, although we think the system mentioned would not work and could also be subject to flaws.
What if someone had a grudge with you? somebody with time on their hands wants to fuck about with the system etc?
Just feel it would be good in theory but not in practice.
What if someone had a grudge with you? somebody with time on their hands wants to fuck about with the system etc?
Just feel it would be good in theory but not in practice.
Sexpert
i also am a genuine virgin monk who tried to organise a meet at a nunnery where no one at all responded either by pm or email...zip...nada...no one......and 12 didnt turn up
sometimes it just baffles me
sometimes it just baffles me
:wink: Oh well it's their loss I can't imagine any of it is down to last minute nerve's all I can asume is that they just get their kick's from replying to ads and thinking they are stud's. So I would like to nominate myself as stand by swinger you know sort of like " In case of emergency break out mik69" at last i've found my calling in life. :lol: :lol:
at last i've found my calling in life. :lol: :lol: Its quite strange to hear about the no shows, I've been to a few Bukkake parties, albeit only two from this site but they were almost packed 10 instead of twelve, that sort of ratio.
Heres hoping that I haven't just jinxed myself ;-)
As for the rating system, couldn't SH try an ebay type rip off, it works for them and is't a personal attack either just a show score.
Heres to more turn outs, you've only to PM....
Harry
Heres hoping that I haven't just jinxed myself ;-)
As for the rating system, couldn't SH try an ebay type rip off, it works for them and is't a personal attack either just a show score.
Heres to more turn outs, you've only to PM....
Harry
Felt we had to agree with the posts ref lots of single guys being timewasters and dreamers. We'd advertised for a dozen guys to GB two very fit ladies.
With 36 hours to go we were actually left with 16 who were all available and "guaranteed" to turn up .... 24 hours to go still 12 left :D ........ 6 hours to go and still 10 left :D ....... 30 minutes to go and still 9 turning up .
As it turned out only 5 actually showed
...... but it doesn't end there .... one guy was so scruffy and obviously not what he'd advertised that we asked him to leave :shock: . Oh well we hear you say at least there was four guys left ..... Oh no there wasn't!! Having gone upstairs and observed the ladies having a little girly girly warm up we were suddenly missing one. "He's behind you" you say .... Oh no he's not .... the poor lad had lost his bottle and done a runner out the front door only to find a security gate he couldn't get out of 
. Well after confirming he really wasn't insane (Oh yes he is!!!) we let him on his way and returned to the evenings festivities which the 3 remaining guys seemingly enjoyed.
Not only did they get the girls, we'd laid on that much food they were able to take away a doggy bag.
After having shelled out £60 for the apartment, £35 on 'phone calls and texts confirming details with guys, £X on the food, £50 on hairdo etc for mrs funky we kinda agree with the £50 deposit refundable upon attendance lol
Anyway rant over and just for the record ..... No we didn't charge any fees!!!
Apologies to the real single guy out there if we've cast u in the same light as those eejits we mentioned.
funkylincscpl
PS We reckon some of the excuses made by text could be a totally new humerous thread
With 36 hours to go we were actually left with 16 who were all available and "guaranteed" to turn up
.... 24 hours to go still 12 left :D ........ 6 hours to go and still 10 left :D ....... 30 minutes to go and still 9 turning up .As it turned out only 5 actually showed
...... but it doesn't end there .... one guy was so scruffy and obviously not what he'd advertised that we asked him to leave :shock: . Oh well we hear you say at least there was four guys left ..... Oh no there wasn't!! Having gone upstairs and observed the ladies having a little girly girly warm up we were suddenly missing one. "He's behind you" you say .... Oh no he's not .... the poor lad had lost his bottle and done a runner out the front door only to find a security gate he couldn't get out of . Well after confirming he really wasn't insane (Oh yes he is!!!) we let him on his way and returned to the evenings festivities which the 3 remaining guys seemingly enjoyed. Not only did they get the girls, we'd laid on that much food they were able to take away a doggy bag.
After having shelled out £60 for the apartment, £35 on 'phone calls and texts confirming details with guys, £X on the food, £50 on hairdo etc for mrs funky we kinda agree with the £50 deposit refundable upon attendance lol
Anyway rant over and just for the record ..... No we didn't charge any fees!!!
Apologies to the real single guy out there if we've cast u in the same light as those eejits we mentioned.
funkylincscpl
PS We reckon some of the excuses made by text could be a totally new humerous thread
I mean one thing that i used to do .. was... (WITH PERMISSION) put down the profiles of people that i had met to prove that i was genuine for meeting up.. so if they wanted to ask what i was like... to contact the relevant user
however... this was shot down faster than a baloon in a hurricane
however... this was shot down faster than a baloon in a hurricane
Sex God
Quote by Jas-Tim
Try this
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/27234.html?highlight=
That should keep 'em quiet for a bit
Jas
XXX
I won a golden turkey award for starting that thread! Yeah, people really gave me the bird. :lol:
Quote by Its Harry
Well, C'mon funkylincscpl,.
Share the excuses, I'm sure we could all do with a laugh.
Like you say, it could be a whole new game in the making, crapiest exuse wins ;-)
Harry
Well apart from the usual last minute "work" ones the best had to be "I'm calving a cow" :shock:
The worst was the guy who texted to say he couldn't make it as his son had been in a car crash and was on his way to the hospital ..... yet an hour later texted to say he could make it after all .....
Hope he never lives to regret that, IOHO, porkie pie!
Sure there's a few more gems out there
funkylincscpl
