The older woman younger man syndrome

2 Nov 2005

Quote by bolton_boss
but ive also found that most people on here/in the scene arent looking for anything that serious, like myself. like you say the music is very similar these days (oasis=beatles comparison etc). as for the bay city rollers... you surely didnt really like them anyway!

Absolutely couldn't stand them :P
And you are right, when something is casual age makes no odds at all.
bex, why did you have to live down south!
It's a small country wink

2 Nov 2005

Quote by berksbex
but ive also found that most people on here/in the scene arent looking for anything that serious, like myself. like you say the music is very similar these days (oasis=beatles comparison etc). as for the bay city rollers... you surely didnt really like them anyway!

Absolutely couldn't stand them :P
And you are right, when something is casual age makes no odds at all.
bex, why did you have to live down south!
It's a small country wink

that it is! :wink: is it alright for a PM?

2 Nov 2005

Quote by bolton_boss
but ive also found that most people on here/in the scene arent looking for anything that serious, like myself. like you say the music is very similar these days (oasis=beatles comparison etc). as for the bay city rollers... you surely didnt really like them anyway!

Absolutely couldn't stand them :P
And you are right, when something is casual age makes no odds at all.
bex, why did you have to live down south!
It's a small country wink

that it is! :wink: is it alright for a PM?
How polite, I have never been asked before lol smile

yep sure,

2 Nov 2005

Quote by owym
Anyone any thoughts on the subject. The progs were talking about 30+ age differences which would put 'my young man' just about in very early 20's which is probably pushing things a bit for anyone to be interested!
Should I try it or should I let sleeping dogs lie as the old saying goes. I may well be persueded.

I have thoughts, I apologise in advance to all those I am about to offend (it's bound to offend someone), here goes. I have no qualms in admitting that the last snog I had in a one to one situation was with a 62 year old woman and was probably the best snog I have ever had. I use another site in my unsuccesful attempts at meeting a woman and start off with 45+ age range. Upon bumping into a dogging mate recently, I enquired if he had seen a female I once had a dogging session with (exact age unconfirmed) and his response was "She's probably passed away", I laughed my head off and then though shit, he could be right. So I adore older women, quite possibly as a result of the first time I saw my best mates mum back at school. When on the train each day, it is the 40+ and 50+ women that turn my head not the 18-25 year olds unless they are exceptionally cute/stunning. So I would so go try it. I am 30 by the way.

Quote by essexlady
As the older woman, I have to admit i rarely meet men that are not younger than me, I love their outlook on life. Only met one person on here older than me (mind hes older than everyone lol), and the guy i lived with for 18 years as well. It does have some draw back and i have imposed a few rules i.e. they must be no less than 15 years younger than me, so they at least should not legally be able to be my own. You have to also understand that they will have social barriers, i.e you rarely get to meet any friends and family and are usual kept a sercret , which is fine for this scene. But in general if mature in thinking, its great fun! they have the stamina and you have the lack of inhibitions which make for a great combination.
Just we warned don't fall for them, there is nowhere to go generally as they want family etc and you have done all that in life, and don't discuss music you will hit the barriers i,e, they were in infants when you were hitting the nightclubs can be very very daunting to find they have never heard of the Bay City Rollers lol or cant imagine life without a DVD player.

When I stop racking my brains trying to remember your age, so I can do the my age +15 sums (you certainly don't look that much older than me wink

) I don't want a family (see further offensive remarks :shock: ) but please feel free to discuss music with me, my favourite band were at their peak over two years before I was born, and I flew to Glasgow to see a chap in concert,

Quote by berksbex
As for the Bay City Rollers, educate the young man by getting him to dress up in white flairs and a tartan scarf and relive your Les McKeown fantasy :twisted:

I accidently clicked on submit at this point and in my drastic pressing of the escape key thought i had stopped it arriving. Apologies. The second post is done from my memory of what I thought I had put first time around.

2 Nov 2005

Well I must say I am amazed at the aparrent interest my post stirred up. Looks like for any number of reasons there is a strong interest in this subject. So with husbands blessing I have decided to give it a one off go, you only live once and what have I got to loose, certainly not my virginity! Will have to try an ad on the Lets Meet Up section and see if a young man is interested, will report back on outcome.

2 Nov 2005

Quote by HarryJones

Anyone any thoughts on the subject. The progs were talking about 30+ age differences which would put 'my young man' just about in very early 20's which is probably pushing things a bit for anyone to be interested!
Should I try it or should I let sleeping dogs lie as the old saying goes. I may well be persueded.

I have thoughts, I apologise in advance to all those I am about to offend (it's bound to offend someone), here goes. I have no qualms in admitting that the last snog I had in a one to one situation was with a 62 year old woman and was probably the best snog I have ever had. I use another site in my unsuccesful attempts at meeting a woman and start off with 45+ age range. Upon bumping into a dogging mate recently, I enquired if he had seen a female I once had a dogging session with (exact age unconfirmed) and his response was "She's probably passed away", I laughed my head off and then though shit, he could be right. So I adore older women, quite possibly as a result of the first time I saw my best mates mum back at school. When on the train each day, it is the 40+ and 50+ women that turn my head not the 18-25 year olds unless they are exceptionally cute/stunning. So I would so go try it. I am 30 by the way.

Quote by essexlady
As the older woman, I have to admit i rarely meet men that are not younger than me, I love their outlook on life. Only met one person on here older than me (mind hes older than everyone lol), and the guy i lived with for 18 years as well. It does have some draw back and i have imposed a few rules i.e. they must be no less than 15 years younger than me, so they at least should not legally be able to be my own. You have to also understand that they will have social barriers, i.e you rarely get to meet any friends and family and are usual kept a sercret , which is fine for this scene. But in general if mature in thinking, its great fun! they have the stamina and you have the lack of inhibitions which make for a great combination.
Just we warned don't fall for them, there is nowhere to go generally as they want family etc and you have done all that in life, and don't discuss music you will hit the barriers i,e, they were in infants when you were hitting the nightclubs can be very very daunting to find they have never heard of the Bay City Rollers lol or cant imagine life without a DVD player.

When I stop racking my brains trying to remember your age, so I can do the my age +15 sums (you certainly don't look that much older than me wink

) I don't want a family (see further offensive remarks :shock: ) but please feel free to discuss music with me, my favourite band were at their peak over two years before I was born, and I flew to Glasgow to see a chap in concert,

Quote by berksbex
As for the Bay City Rollers, educate the young man by getting him to dress up in white flairs and a tartan scarf and relive your Les McKeown fantasy :twisted:

Well said Harry :!: ....I don't mind admiting I'm 56 and I prefer the older woman....well...older than 45ish :!: :thumbup:

2 Nov 2005

Quote by owym
Well I must say I am amazed at the aparrent interest my post stirred up. Looks like for any number of reasons there is a strong interest in this subject. So with husbands blessing I have decided to give it a one off go, you only live once and what have I got to loose, certainly not my virginity! Will have to try an ad on the Lets Meet Up section and see if a young man is interested, will report back on outcome.

owym Go for it and remember Get to know him At least wait till his first alcopop finishes wink

Enjoy

2 Nov 2005

Quote by owym
Anyone any thoughts on the subject. The progs were talking about 30+ age differences which would put 'my young man' just about in very early 20's which is probably pushing things a bit for anyone to be interested!
Should I try it or should I let sleeping dogs lie as the old saying goes. I may well be persueded.

Apologies in advance as I am bound to offend someone with my replies but here goes the thoughts of a thirty year old male.
I am happy to admit that the last full on snog I had in a one to one meet was with a 62 year old woman and it was quite probably the best snog of my life, I have also been dogging with a woman who whilst her age is unconfirmed, when I bumped into a fellow dogger at a non-dogging location recently (first time that has happened to me) and asked if he had seen her his response was "No, she's probably passed away", when I finished laughing I thought bloody hell he could be right. Similarly on the train each day it is the 40+ and 50+ that turn my head not the 18-25's unless they are really really cute/stunning. I've no idea why, could be from the first time I met by best mate's mum when at comprehensive school, but I don't care why, I just love them.
So if it feels right, go do it.

Quote by essexlady
As the older woman, I have to admit i rarely meet men that are not younger than me, I love their outlook on life. Only met one person on here older than me (mind hes older than everyone lol), and the guy i lived with for 18 years as well. It does have some draw back and i have imposed a few rules i.e. they must be no less than 15 years younger than me, so they at least should not legally be able to be my own. You have to also understand that they will have social barriers, i.e you rarely get to meet any friends and family and are usual kept a sercret , which is fine for this scene. But in general if mature in thinking, its great fun! they have the stamina and you have the lack of inhibitions which make for a great combination.
Just we warned don't fall for them, there is nowhere to go generally as they want family etc and you have done all that in life, and don't discuss music you will hit the barriers i,e, they were in infants when you were hitting the nightclubs can be very very daunting to find they have never heard of the Bay City Rollers lol or cant imagine life without a DVD player.

As soon as I finish doing the sums of my age plus 15 (no you don't look that old) to see if I have any chance at all (though it would help if I initiated a decent conversation when I end up in the same location), I can respond that I don't want a family (bound to offend someone by that) but please feel free to discuss music with me, my favourite band of all time were at their peak two years before my birth, I once flew to Glasgow to see a chap in concert whose only number one hit was in 1955, and being in the front row I got to shake his hand being one of the nearest to him for his standing ovation. In fact of my three favourite albums of all time, two are from 1971 and the other 1972.

Quote by berksbex
As for the Bay City Rollers, educate the young man by getting him to dress up in white flairs and a tartan scarf and relive your Les McKeown fantasy :twisted:

Whilst he does nothing for me personally, I am seeing Les in concert the weekend after next and saw him at this time last year. I had great fun singing along as the only male on the dance floor surrounded by sex crazed older women all after him but some were dancing with me biggrin

though noone came back to my large empty chalet the whole weekend :cry:
Disclaimer: However please dont let the reading of this post stop any younger women from getting in touch with me.
Regards
Harry Jones

2 Nov 2005

Quote by Alexandra
i just love older men over 35 ....

How many times do I have to tell you? You are younger than me!!
*sniggers*
Oh yes, I forgot, you're 47 aren't you? bolt

Hey Pal!!!
and what is so wrong with being over 46 then??????? confused

Absolutely nothing at all, of which you are deliciously living proof! passionkiss

2 Nov 2005

Quote by Ice Pie
i just love older men over 35 ....

How many times do I have to tell you? You are younger than me!!
*sniggers*
Oh yes, I forgot, you're 47 aren't you? bolt

Hey Pal!!!
and what is so wrong with being over 46 then??????? confused

Absolutely nothing at all, of which you are deliciously living proof! passionkiss

Nice recovery! silly

assionkiss:

3 Nov 2005

After the debate, hubby said we had better do something about making this happen. So answered a few ads and have chatted on ICQ late last night to a couple of young men. Both are interested but one seems to be more interesting somehow . Then hubby really made my nerves kick in, he mentioned that being 22 this chap is nine years younger than our youngest son! Panic!

3 Nov 2005

A few of my first partners were women a good deal older than me. Which was really nice. I think one of the things that makes age differences work is that the older pertner can make good decisions and take some of the stress out of the relationship.

3 Nov 2005

ive been seeking a mature lady 50 65 for ages doesnt seem to be many in that age group intersted in younger men thats a shame there arnt more maybe they are not confident enough to speak up but everyone has the own tastes and i guess if it floats your boat go with the flow lol

3 Nov 2005

p.s maybe its because im to at 30 lol

11 Nov 2005

A lot of this has to do with maturity of some not all younger men. Maturity is a state of mind.
I have been with a number of older women (I am 35 now). All have been great. I prefer business /professional women(Smart appearance intelligent). I suppose its the Mrs Robinson effect.
Younger women are nice too don't get me wrong just in different ways. Younger women for me is more physical, older women more of a mental attitude to sex. They tend to take the driving seat.
So if there any older women, profession in the North East or Midlands drop us a line.
You never know.
P.S i am a Graduate, if that help in your fantasy.
J

11 Nov 2005

I've always been attracted to either younger or older woman.....I'm not sure why but there it is!
As for blokes wanting younger woman....look at it this way, while we're getting old and becoming ragged, we'll always have something pretty to look at!
Personally, I like the way the young lasses as they have loads of stamina which for me being an old fart works wonders!

11 Nov 2005

I find them more confident and confidence is a turn on

11 Nov 2005

Does it matter? Thats the real question. I like who I like because they are who they are. I am in my late 30's now and being right in the what i would call the middle age group find ladies of all ages attractive.
There is a certain older lady that I would do anything for. Shes an absolutly lovely woman!
lol

11 Nov 2005

Quote by owym
After the debate, hubby said we had better do something about making this happen. So answered a few ads and have chatted on ICQ late last night to a couple of young men. Both are interested but one seems to be more interesting somehow . Then hubby really made my nerves kick in, he mentioned that being 22 this chap is nine years younger than our youngest son! Panic!

I have had some really great times with some younger men and I think that one of the key points is not to focus on their age. In the past I had done all the â€˜heâ€™s the same age as my daughterâ€™ worrying etc which had even prevented me from meeting some potentially interesting people. But in essence age is not the most important aspect. There should also be mutual attraction and when it comes to actually meeting them you need to focus instead on who they are and what you both want from each other. When you are together it shouldnâ€™t only be that you are with them because of their age.
Obviously the first time there will be a novelty element with it (and nerves no doubt from what you have said!) but donâ€™t panic they will probably be as nervous as you are. Though, I always get butterflies when meeting someone new whatever their ageâ€¦..when that stops happening I think it might be time to stop!

12 Nov 2005

I have to say that age doesn't really bother me although I prefer men that are older generally speaking......
But I have had a good time with people that are younger than me.......so I wouldn't write it off altogether, it depends on how mature they are.....
Also, even though it's legal to have sex at 16 I couldn't be with a 16 year old.....that would just be waaaaaaay too icky for me.....I'm nearly 28 and that would be weird for me.....but anyone from about 18-20 upwards is fine with me.... biggrin