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50's?
Will be next year ......
hey
I'm not old, NN says so,,,,,, I think :?Bah, who cares.... I can still get it up
that'll do for me :thumbup:
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The older woman younger man syndrome
Dargento touched onto some of my points however i believe that Owym was concerned over the feeling of rejection rather than "Is it ok?" That rejection can come in any meet up i'm sure 
You could have two people of similair age or indeed two couples of similair age and looks and although the ingredients are there for what should be an interesting liasion it falls down because they just couldn't CLICK
On the same level you could have a 24 yr old BOY (yes i am older) and a 54 yr old mature woman who are so different butr as can happen they hit if off big style which ends in them wanting to take the next step
I personally love older women as Ambridge is 10 mnths older than me however as a teen and in my twenties there was something mystical about an older woman say 15 -20 yrs older Be it a naughty fantasy , genuine feelings or even wanting to me mothered Who gives a damn Contact him take your time getting to know him then SHAG the arse off him :P
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You could have two people of similair age or indeed two couples of similair age and looks and although the ingredients are there for what should be an interesting liasion it falls down because they just couldn't CLICK On the same level you could have a 24 yr old BOY (yes i am older) and a 54 yr old mature woman who are so different butr as can happen they hit if off big style which ends in them wanting to take the next step
I personally love older women as Ambridge is 10 mnths older than me
however as a teen and in my twenties there was something mystical about an older woman say 15 -20 yrs older Be it a naughty fantasy , genuine feelings or even wanting to me mothered Who gives a damn Contact him take your time getting to know him then SHAG the arse off him :P Point over
Younger men are fun, which dosnt mean that older ones arnt!!
Personally I have never had any younger men bat an eyelid at my stretch mark ands midrif !! they just accept it, after all just cos they are young it dosnt always mean they have perfect boddies.
In genral I find younger men much more energetic but not always.
The youngest i have ever ehm............spent time with, was only (lol) 20 years younger than me and to be honest he was the best looking but not the best perfoming. Suppose you cant have everything?
Personally I have never had any younger men bat an eyelid at my stretch mark ands midrif !! they just accept it, after all just cos they are young it dosnt always mean they have perfect boddies.
In genral I find younger men much more energetic but not always.
The youngest i have ever ehm............spent time with, was only (lol) 20 years younger than me and to be honest he was the best looking but not the best perfoming. Suppose you cant have everything?
im not too bothered either way as long as the are old enough and i get on with them. saying that, i do have a thing for older women however i seem to get rejected from older women for being too young for them! strange really! or is that just an excuse that is less harsh than 'i dont like you'! i think thats the main reason i got into swinging because i could try different things. still no luck with an older woman tho! :cry:
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im not too bothered either way as long as the are old enough and i get on with them. saying that, i do have a thing for older women however i seem to get rejected from older women for being too young for them! strange really! or is that just an excuse that is less harsh than 'i dont like you'! i think thats the main reason i got into swinging because i could try different things. still no luck with an older woman tho! :cry:
I suspect your getting rejections because we find it impossible to have sex with anyone young enough to be our sons. Its just a barrier and for many of us "older women" we cant cross it!!
the older ladies seem forget about the "other" good points the young men have.....
nimble fingers from playstation abuse........and..good mouth work from being on a bloody mobile all day :shock:
on the other hand,,,no bloody stamina now in the younger generation due to those exact reasons above,,,,,always sitting in the house,,,doing nothing :P
sarcasm by the way :P
nimble fingers from playstation abuse........and..good mouth work from being on a bloody mobile all day :shock:
on the other hand,,,no bloody stamina now in the younger generation due to those exact reasons above,,,,,always sitting in the house,,,doing nothing :P
sarcasm by the way :P
Quote by treasurechest
im not too bothered either way as long as the are old enough and i get on with them. saying that, i do have a thing for older women however i seem to get rejected from older women for being too young for them! strange really! or is that just an excuse that is less harsh than 'i dont like you'! i think thats the main reason i got into swinging because i could try different things. still no luck with an older woman tho! :cry:
I suspect your getting rejections because we find it impossible to have sex with anyone young enough to be our sons. Its just a barrier and for many of us "older women" we cant cross it!!
yeah i can understand that i suppose, frustrating tho as you can imagine. but as essexlady said its down to maturity. ive been told so many times that im mature for my age which is nice but then it comes back to my age. i totally understand that but it would be nice to be treated as an equal sometimes. i think its all down to personal preference really and if you can break that certain barrier once in a while.
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the older ladies seem forget about the "other" good points the young men have.....
nimble fingers from playstation abuse........and..good mouth work from being on a bloody mobile all day :shock:
on the other hand,,,no bloody stamina now in the younger generation due to those exact reasons above,,,,,always sitting in the house,,,doing nothing :P
sarcasm by the way :P
cough cough! i play semi-pro football 4-5 times as week! thats one of the reasons my social life goes to pot! ha! i know what you mean tho!
:whistling: :whistling: :whistling: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: all. mini hijack
does drive me mad that about the younger peeps nowadays.,....I look at all my mates from uni when we meet up,,,,and all beginning to get larger bellies by 25........haven't seem them in a year or so but can imagine bigger, as they do anything physical apart from walking from one pub to another at the weekend!
what is the world coming to :P
Hijack over
to be honest, i wouldnt play so much if i wasnt getting paid for it! i know its not a lot but it sort of means i have to play so i dont let anyone down. obviously i do really enjoy it and it keeps me fit but its a big commitment and can get in the way of other things. ie social life, swinging!
For me, age is not the first consideration when looking to have fun. However, I did realise recently that I have not been with a man older than me in about 20 years! Not on purpose, it has just happened that way. They have ranged from just a year younger to 20 years younger and I can honestly say that the age is not a factor in why I liked being with any of them. Young men have their good points, but so do older men.
Sorry if I seem that I am sitting on the fence, but I just like men, regardless of their ages. :P If they are funny, have a nice personality and are obviously up for some fun, then I like them whether they are 24 or 44.
Sorry if I seem that I am sitting on the fence, but I just like men, regardless of their ages. :P If they are funny, have a nice personality and are obviously up for some fun, then I like them whether they are 24 or 44.
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For me, age is not the first consideration when looking to have fun. However, I did realise recently that I have not been with a man older than me in about 20 years! Not on purpose, it has just happened that way. They have ranged from just a year younger to 20 years younger and I can honestly say that the age is not a factor in why I liked being with any of them. Young men have their good points, but so do older men.
Sorry if I seem that I am sitting on the fence, but I just like men, regardless of their ages. :P If they are funny, have a nice personality and are obviously up for some fun, then I like them whether they are 24 or 44.
or 22!
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For me, age is not the first consideration when looking to have fun. However, I did realise recently that I have not been with a man older than me in about 20 years! Not on purpose, it has just happened that way. They have ranged from just a year younger to 20 years younger and I can honestly say that the age is not a factor in why I liked being with any of them. Young men have their good points, but so do older men.
Sorry if I seem that I am sitting on the fence, but I just like men, regardless of their ages. :P If they are funny, have a nice personality and are obviously up for some fun, then I like them whether they are 24 or 44.
or 22!
LOL well like someone said earlier in this thread, I sort of mentally draw the line at someone who is too near to the age of any of my kids.....and that is pretty close! :P But if I knew and liked the person then it wouldn't be too much of an issue, it's just that I tend not to encourage it too much
Young men can be visually very beautiful, but I am often left with the doubts such as 'what the bloody hell does he see in me?' :lol: Quote by berksbex
For me, age is not the first consideration when looking to have fun. However, I did realise recently that I have not been with a man older than me in about 20 years! Not on purpose, it has just happened that way. They have ranged from just a year younger to 20 years younger and I can honestly say that the age is not a factor in why I liked being with any of them. Young men have their good points, but so do older men.
Sorry if I seem that I am sitting on the fence, but I just like men, regardless of their ages. :P If they are funny, have a nice personality and are obviously up for some fun, then I like them whether they are 24 or 44.
or 22!
LOL well like someone said earlier in this thread, I sort of mentally draw the line at someone who is too near to the age of any of my kids.....and that is pretty close! :P But if I knew and liked the person then it wouldn't be too much of an issue, it's just that I tend not to encourage it too much
Young men can be visually very beautiful, but I am often left with the doubts such as 'what the bloody hell does he see in me?' :lol:its good to see that you at least would give me a chance then. well maybe not me but you know what i mean. as for the 'what the bloody hell does he see in me' comment, i think a lot of people on here think that but personally cant see why. i personally wouldnt speak to anyone about trying to meet up if i didnt find them attractive, even if its not a physical attraction, its not all down to looks you know!
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Just we warned don't fall for them, there is nowhere to go generally as they want family etc and you have done all that in life, and don't discuss music you will hit the barriers i,e, they were in infants when you were hitting the nightclubs can be very very daunting to find they have never heard of the Bay City Rollers lol or cant imagine life without a DVD player.
I can understand the difficulties if it comes to a long term relationship (especially if the younger man wants kids and the old woman doesn't. It could also be awkward if you are out with someone and the age difference means it looks like he is out with his Mum LOL!, But I'm not looking for anything that long term, so it's not a problem. As for the music....well it's all rehashed old stuff anyway and some of the new stuff is great :P As for the Bay City Rollers, educate the young man by getting him to dress up in white flairs and a tartan scarf and relive your Les McKeown fantasy :twisted:
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but ive also found that most people on here/in the scene arent looking for anything that serious, like myself. like you say the music is very similar these days (oasis=beatles comparison etc). as for the bay city rollers... you surely didnt really like them anyway!
"Oasis are like the Beatles" !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Dosnt everyone like the Bay city Rollers, maybe not as much as David Essex but still!!!!
I have always prefered the older guy, the other half is 20+ yrs older
I honestly think it depends on the individual as there are 20yr olds that look and act a lot older and more responsible than other 20yr olds and there are some maturer guys who take real good care of themselves and it shows, likewise there are some who dont tend to make much effort with their appearance/behaviour etc
If your happy and it feels right go for it !
I honestly think it depends on the individual as there are 20yr olds that look and act a lot older and more responsible than other 20yr olds and there are some maturer guys who take real good care of themselves and it shows, likewise there are some who dont tend to make much effort with their appearance/behaviour etc
If your happy and it feels right go for it !
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but ive also found that most people on here/in the scene arent looking for anything that serious, like myself. like you say the music is very similar these days (oasis=beatles comparison etc). as for the bay city rollers... you surely didnt really like them anyway!
Absolutely couldn't stand them :P
And you are right, when something is casual age makes no odds at all.
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Just we warned don't fall for them, there is nowhere to go generally as they want family etc and you have done all that in life, and don't discuss music you will hit the barriers i,e, they were in infants when you were hitting the nightclubs can be very very daunting to find they have never heard of the Bay City Rollers lol or cant imagine life without a DVD player.
OMG!!......did someone just tell you about me and my older woman?
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maybe not as much as David Essex but still!!!!
oooooo David Essex - now you are talking!!!!
I got a kiss from him at the Stage Door after one concert !
(that was about 20 years ago btw - when he still had dark hair)
I love his eyes!!
Now he was a beauty when he was young :P
I think the older you get, the more tolerant you become about age 'gaps'...
For example, if you asked a typical 18 year old bloke what the youngest and oldest age was that he would date someone, he might say something along the lines of "no younger than 16 and no older than 21".... (5 years)
a 21 year old guy might say between 17 and 25... (8 years)
at 25 he might say 18 30... (12 years)
at 35 he might say 21 - 45... (24 years)
at 40 he might say 21 - 50... (29 years)
and so on....
in summary, as you get older, you less bothered about going out with someone much younger (or older)...
For example, if you asked a typical 18 year old bloke what the youngest and oldest age was that he would date someone, he might say something along the lines of "no younger than 16 and no older than 21".... (5 years)
a 21 year old guy might say between 17 and 25... (8 years)
at 25 he might say 18 30... (12 years)
at 35 he might say 21 - 45... (24 years)
at 40 he might say 21 - 50... (29 years)
and so on....
in summary, as you get older, you less bothered about going out with someone much younger (or older)...
Quote by WolvesWonderer
I think the older you get, the more tolerant you become about age 'gaps'...
For example, if you asked a typical 18 year old bloke what the youngest and oldest age was that he would date someone, he might say something along the lines of "no younger than 16 and no older than 21".... (5 years)
a 21 year old guy might say between 17 and 25... (8 years)
at 25 he might say 18 30... (12 years)
at 35 he might say 21 - 45... (24 years)
at 40 he might say 21 - 50... (29 years)
and so on....
in summary, as you get older, you less bothered about going out with someone much younger (or older)...
not everyone, i'm not into younger guys at all i wouldn't meet a man who was more than a couple years younger than me
Quote by berksbex
but ive also found that most people on here/in the scene arent looking for anything that serious, like myself. like you say the music is very similar these days (oasis=beatles comparison etc). as for the bay city rollers... you surely didnt really like them anyway!
Absolutely couldn't stand them :P
And you are right, when something is casual age makes no odds at all.
bex, why did you have to live down south!
Quote by naughtynymphos1
I think the older you get, the more tolerant you become about age 'gaps'...
For example, if you asked a typical 18 year old bloke what the youngest and oldest age was that he would date someone, he might say something along the lines of "no younger than 16 and no older than 21".... (5 years)
a 21 year old guy might say between 17 and 25... (8 years)
at 25 he might say 18 30... (12 years)
at 35 he might say 21 - 45... (24 years)
at 40 he might say 21 - 50... (29 years)
and so on....
in summary, as you get older, you less bothered about going out with someone much younger (or older)...
not everyone, i'm not into younger guys at all i wouldn't meet a man who was more than a couple years younger than me
yeh sorry I was talking from a blokes point of view...
Quote by WolvesWonderer
I think the older you get, the more tolerant you become about age 'gaps'...
For example, if you asked a typical 18 year old bloke what the youngest and oldest age was that he would date someone, he might say something along the lines of "no younger than 16 and no older than 21".... (5 years)
a 21 year old guy might say between 17 and 25... (8 years)
at 25 he might say 18 30... (12 years)
at 35 he might say 21 - 45... (24 years)
at 40 he might say 21 - 50... (29 years)
and so on....
in summary, as you get older, you less bothered about going out with someone much younger (or older)...
not everyone, i'm not into younger guys at all i wouldn't meet a man who was more than a couple years younger than me
yeh sorry I was talking from a blokes point of view...
i am a bloke
nah only kidding..so what you saying that men arn;t as fussy as women? i think we have this subject going on another thread ain't we? lol
