Let me know what you think of this theory.
Men peak sexually around, 18 - 22
Women peak sexually between 35 - 40
(numbers according to answers, so take with a pinch of salt)
Now obviously, there are going to be people who dont fit in the average, like lots of very horny people (us on SH), and some people who arent interested in sex at all. Also other variances like socially implanted attitude.
but assuming that people live to an arbitary 70 years old,
then its simply a numbers game that there are men between 20 and 70 (50 years) and women between 40 and 70 (30 years) who are sexually peaked.
A younger man is really just playing a lottery that one of these very horny younger women is going to come along. and in fact, the odds are stacked against him to meet anyone at all!
It really does feel like a lottery being on SH. You can put yourself out there a million times, but you never get a win. Maybe 2 cherries and bell, but its still not the jackpot. lol.
(^ some very tenuous innuendo there :P)
Is it all just lopsided, or is it just me feeling jaded?
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Sex God
Seriously, it's a bit early to feel jaded with the site when you joined less than a month ago!
I am sure that it is harder for a single guy on here than it is for a single girl or a couple - that's a numbers thing. But I have met lots
of single guys from this site and I continue to do so. They range in age from about 25 to about 60. I've been on the site since I was 30.
I'm crap at statistics: I just know there are some great people about and I've had some great meets.
Long may it continue.
Don't be jaded.
I am sure that it is harder for a single guy on here than it is for a single girl or a couple - that's a numbers thing. But I have met lots
of single guys from this site and I continue to do so. They range in age from about 25 to about 60. I've been on the site since I was 30. I'm crap at statistics: I just know there are some great people about and I've had some great meets.
Long may it continue.
Don't be jaded.
Men peak sexually around 18-22
Have you met my partner BMW??? I dont think he`s read these statistics coz he definitely doesnt fit into that categorie, I can honestly say i have never met anyone like him and i hope we are making love every day til we`re atleast 90 (hip replacement surgery already booked)
To be honest i`ve never had a preference for younger guys.
Have you met my partner BMW??? I dont think he`s read these statistics coz he definitely doesnt fit into that categorie, I can honestly say i have never met anyone like him and i hope we are making love every day til we`re atleast 90 (hip replacement surgery already booked)
To be honest i`ve never had a preference for younger guys.
I peaked once, let me tell you, the ascent had been treacherous in the extreme.
Storms had lashed the North-East Face for days but we low on reserves and felt it better to press on than abandon all attempts and let those dasterdaly French beat on the final assault.
Three tents had been lost in the night, and the last of the yak had been eaten days before.
On the third week after leaving base-camp it became a do-or-die affair...
... oh, sorry.
wrong forum.
lp
Storms had lashed the North-East Face for days but we low on reserves and felt it better to press on than abandon all attempts and let those dasterdaly French beat on the final assault.
Three tents had been lost in the night, and the last of the yak had been eaten days before.
On the third week after leaving base-camp it became a do-or-die affair...
... oh, sorry.
wrong forum.
lp
Sex God
The idea of men 'peaking' is surely about how often they get it. 18-22 is the youngest any self-respecting woman will have sex with a boy - yes BOY.
What we should be looking at is the peak of skill, experience and added value to the partner. That is more like 35-50. This peak should then continue until something gives out: Heart, joints, bed. Whichever comes first.
Boys 18-22 aren't at any kind of 'peak'. They are just very very keen. LOL
The peak being of experience and skill is more accurately reflected in the woman's peak of 35-40.
I'm not saying men and women can't be great lovers under 35, but sex is a skill, a physical and mental and emotional skill at that. And such skills need lots and lots of practice.
What we should be looking at is the peak of skill, experience and added value to the partner. That is more like 35-50. This peak should then continue until something gives out: Heart, joints, bed. Whichever comes first.
Boys 18-22 aren't at any kind of 'peak'. They are just very very keen. LOL
The peak being of experience and skill is more accurately reflected in the woman's peak of 35-40.
I'm not saying men and women can't be great lovers under 35, but sex is a skill, a physical and mental and emotional skill at that. And such skills need lots and lots of practice.
Sex God
Quote by __random_orbit__
I peaked once, let me tell you, the ascent had been treacherous in the extreme.
Storms had lashed the North-East Face for days but we low on reserves and felt it better to press on than abandon all attempts and let those dasterdaly French beat on the final assault.
Three tents had been lost in the night, and the last of the yak had been eaten days before.
On the third week after leaving base-camp it became a do-or-die affair...
... oh, sorry.
wrong forum.
lp
Yeah but you do have a tendency to burn 'em down lp don't ya :P
Quote by Firelizard
I peaked once, let me tell you, the ascent had been treacherous in the extreme.
Storms had lashed the North-East Face for days but we low on reserves and felt it better to press on than abandon all attempts and let those dasterdaly French beat on the final assault.
Three tents had been lost in the night, and the last of the yak had been eaten days before.
On the third week after leaving base-camp it became a do-or-die affair...
... oh, sorry.
wrong forum.
lp
Yeah but you do have a tendency to burn 'em down lp don't ya :P
Yeah yeah, a fine lot of help you were in the emperiled camp.. sat comfy at the fire-pit-side as some Mad Witch of West batted fireballs into the hard-gained shelter, Pah!
And:
Don't think I hadn't noticed a poorly disciplined sherper or two using tentsides as latrine as well!!! Although it may have saved you from the conflagration it's true
lp
Sex God
Biggest problem with sex is the distinct chuffin lack of it :lol2:
Quote by brucie
you might walk around with a hard on all day at 22, but you sure as hell dont know what to do with it.
at 42 ohgodyes.
Some of the best sex Ive had has been when I havent done anything with it at all!
Having said that, I used to make my ex cum through pentrative sex all the time.
You speak for yourself brucie, but at 21, I may be no expert, but I'm pretty darn handy ;) that and I know that I benefit from instruction and suggestion, can be spent and up again in a couple of minutes, and have the stamina to outlast any of my partners.
I have no doubt that I am great in bed, because Im willing to listen to whats amazing and what isnt.
What makes *you* so confident brucie?
(I hate talking about sex like this. Makes it all sounds so clinical, unexciting, untitilating.)
Sex God
Quote by Anoush
you might walk around with a hard on all day at 22, but you sure as hell dont know what to do with it.
at 42 ohgodyes.
Some of the best sex Ive had has been when I havent done anything with it at all!
Having said that, I used to make my ex cum through pentrative sex all the time.
You speak for yourself brucie, but at 21, I may be no expert, but I'm pretty darn handy ;) that and I know that I benefit from instruction and suggestion, can be spent and up again in a couple of minutes, and have the stamina to outlast any of my partners.
I have no doubt that I am great in bed, because Im willing to listen to whats amazing and what isnt.
What makes *you* so confident brucie?
(I hate talking about sex like this. Makes it all sounds so clinical, unexciting, untitilating.)
First bolded point. It isn't a competition. LOL
Second. You started it! LOL
Quote by foxylady2209
The idea of men 'peaking' is surely about how often they get it. 18-22 is the youngest any self-respecting woman will have sex with a boy - yes BOY.
What we should be looking at is the peak of skill, experience and added value to the partner. That is more like 35-50. This peak should then continue until something gives out: Heart, joints, bed. Whichever comes first.
Boys 18-22 aren't at any kind of 'peak'. They are just very very keen. LOL
The peak being of experience and skill is more accurately reflected in the woman's peak of 35-40.
I'm not saying men and women can't be great lovers under 35, but sex is a skill, a physical and mental and emotional skill at that. And such skills need lots and lots of practice.
Perfect :inlove:
Sex God
I'd be interested in the definition of peak.
I'm well past the 18-22 bracket but I'm still looking forward to some real peaks.
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I'm well past the 18-22 bracket but I'm still looking forward to some real peaks.
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Sex God
Quote by Anoush
D'oy, sorry guys. I feel pretty silly for having started this whole thread in the first place.
just a rollercoaster of emotions right now. lol.
Don't worry about it. I don't think anyone thinks bad of you - especially after you've acknowledged the grumbly bit.
It's quite an interesting topic - what constitutes peaking.
Is it staying power?
Heavy coming?
Knowing what makes a partner squirm and having the patience and skill to do it?
Interesting to hear what people think.
Don't fret - we've all done embarrassing on here.
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Sex God
I am very nearly 35. At 18-22 I was no way in any kind of peak thats for certain. I do more now than I did then and I do it better than I did then. Its all about experience.
Orgasminator
When does a 41 year old virgin peak........... 
Sex God
The problem with sex is keeping the dogs off the bed (or other) for long enough....I'll be glad when the foster one goes to a home...anyone want a 4 year old weimeraner ??? please...she's a lovely little bitch really... honest
Sex God
Quote by Staggerlee_BB
The problem with sex is keeping the dogs off the bed (or other) for long enough....I'll be glad when the foster one goes to a home...anyone want a 4 year old weimeraner ??? please...she's a lovely little bitch really... honest
Simple, don't let the dogs upstairs - or in the case of a bungelow, close the doors.
Sorted. 
Sex God
Quote by foxylady2209
The problem with sex is keeping the dogs off the bed (or other) for long enough....I'll be glad when the foster one goes to a home...anyone want a 4 year old weimeraner ??? please...she's a lovely little bitch really... honest
Simple, don't let the dogs upstairs - or in the case of a bungelow, close the doors.
Sorted.tried that
the elderly dog tried to come up anyway and fell down the stairs, injuring herself and cost us a small fortune in vets bills, so I put a safety gate up, she howled at the bottom of the stairs until I gave in (an old dog cant change its ways after 15 years I guess)Always baffles me how 1 medium sized dog can take up so much room of a king size bed :huh: its like they just flatten and spread out :lol:
Gave up trying to fuck in bed and just use the living room floor now :doh:
Sex God
Sod the stats
To shag or not to shag, that is the question.
To shag or not to shag, that is the question.
Sexpert
I try and it make a general point not to peak to early. After all that's only polite! 
I believe that the whole peak/age thing is all relative;
I know people that started early (11-13), with others around their age (so both people are relatively inexperienced) I know others that started later (18-20) but with people nearly twice their age. So it's about shared experience.
Personally I believe that everybody grows and grows in all that is all the better/greater if people are open and truely communicate.
Just a thought.
I believe that the whole peak/age thing is all relative;
I know people that started early (11-13), with others around their age (so both people are relatively inexperienced) I know others that started later (18-20) but with people nearly twice their age. So it's about shared experience.
Personally I believe that everybody grows and grows in all that is all the better/greater if people are open and truely communicate.
Just a thought.
