I've never been to a club folks, but that just sounds like the very reason hundreds of couples, and girls, don't wish to give it a try. The sad thing is the attitude of the management. If word gets around that such behaviour is acceptable in that establishment then the place will be full of guys just like the one who caused offence.
Disgusting behaviour by both the male in question and more so by the management !!
never has this happened to myself unless i was playing at the time. but when it happened even then i firmly told him to f&8ck off and wait to be invited . i then proceeded to invite others being careful to make sure he knew he would never be invited. if it happened in the more social area of a club i would be likely to turn round and slap the person concerned and not bat an eyelid after doing so. no matter who did it, it is not acceptable behaviour in any environment even if it is a swingers club and am totally gobsmacked at the owners comment and reaction and would never visit that club again ... what club was this so i can avoid in the future and write a review of the club in the clubs section stsing the bad experience for others to be aware
That is totally unacceptable behaviour. I've never known it happen in a club and it just shouldn't.
The club owner/manager should have immediately asked him to leave, at the very least.
No wonder us single guys get a bad name with jerks like that!
Certainly a club to be avoided, look forward to reading your Review -
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/clubs/
Certainly most clubs have an FAQ along the lines
Do you have any other rules?
All we ask is that you respect other members and the club itself. Always remember that "NO" means "NO".
Thanks Chams though lots of others have similar and know on the very few occasions it's happened, the offender has been escorted from the premises post haste.
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Ignorant bastards like that wreck things for all single guys, a well aimed stiletto in the bollocks would be my recommendation!
Doesn't matter about the circumstances or location - that is sexual assault. Utterly inexcusable and the club should have immediately barred the guy.
Something vaguely similar happened a couple of years ago to my Mrs Rob but J being J told the bloke loudly where to get off and the guy got hounded out of the club there and then by a group of about six other guys which was cool in a way as though shocking from the one guy and a little upsetting for my Mrs it put the other guys in the club in a good light. Look forward to seeing what the club says Rob
I am sorry i might be called a wimp but this behavior horrifies me.
For gods sake even if it is a freakin' no holes barred sleezy gang-bang all you can fuck type of event, I would still make damn sure that I am given full permission before even touching anybody forget about sticking anything inside of anywhere !!!
Please send pm with club name, I would like to make sure I never attend
just to let everyone know
we finally had a response from the club owners
due to family commitments they had to go away at very short notice and left the club in the hands of a manager who used to run a local pub
it appears the guy and his girlfriend wasn't swingers and used the place as an open house to some of his old regulars.
it also transpires that our incident was not the only one in the short time this club has been open(3 months) and has now been closed as a result of a visit by the local constabulary after another altercation at the premises
the owners have apologised and are relocating the club to another area,they have offered us some compensation which we declined and also a free life membership to us should we wish to return to their new club.
we have been in contact by phone and the owners are truly devastated by what has happened at the club, it was something they wanted to do after retiring early and admit they went into it a little naive as far as staff was concerned.
we have decided not to name the club as we feel the owners have suffered a great enough loss already.
we will visit the new club when its open just to see as the club was extremely well laid out and with a licenced bar it pretty much ticked all the boxes with things like private parking and discrete entrance private play rooms and even a dungeon
shame really!
In 20 years of going to clubs i have never seen that, I have seen a number of singles ejected for drunkeness and one very recently for bad behaviour. I was very imopressed with how the club handled it.
was this a swingers club or a dodgy sauna management should have slung him straight outi would try a better class club
