Well I feel its time to put the cat among the pidgoens again.
This thread will make most sense to Londoner's me thinks but it could stretch further.
Was on the tube today and looked around me at all the various ppl there, and thought to myslef 'I wonder if any of these ppl have heard of Swinger Heaven?' which then got me on to thinking about how one spots fellow swingers (without the badges I;ve been hearing so much about).
Do you all think there is something swingers do that define them, like grin to oneself incesantly, or something similar?
Is there something you do that you think makes you stand out as more than the average?
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Shadow Walker does have a point.... gay friends used to tell me about "gaydar", whereby a gay bloke can always spot a prospect.
I never quite believed it, but I do find nowadays that there IS a certain something about swingers, and quite often I can look at a person or couple and think..... yep, goers if ever I saw em.
I can think of at least four times in the past couple of years where I've met couples in "vanilla" contexts and (with much trepidation) finally asked: "errrm.... don't be offended..... but errrm.... are you.... by any chance......?"
Right every time.
I never quite believed it, but I do find nowadays that there IS a certain something about swingers, and quite often I can look at a person or couple and think..... yep, goers if ever I saw em.
I can think of at least four times in the past couple of years where I've met couples in "vanilla" contexts and (with much trepidation) finally asked: "errrm.... don't be offended..... but errrm.... are you.... by any chance......?"
Right every time.
Im not sure we could be spotted as a swinging couple, were pretty average really, to the outside world and our neighbours we are that "nice couple down the road,never any trouble and keep themselves to themselves..."
I do wonder however, if they ever wonder why our car keeps pulling off the drive on wkends in the wee small hours and returning hrs later with us looking decidedly disheveled..... :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
We have spotted a couple once though that we definately took as swingers, i think the trapeize and the fact that we were visiting the circus had much to do with it though
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I do wonder however, if they ever wonder why our car keeps pulling off the drive on wkends in the wee small hours and returning hrs later with us looking decidedly disheveled..... :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
We have spotted a couple once though that we definately took as swingers, i think the trapeize and the fact that we were visiting the circus had much to do with it though
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