Having been on this site for 6 months now I have come to the conclusion that the majority of people are not genuine & those that pretend to be females and couples are just males winding people up.I agree that there are some genuine people on here who seemed to have a good time but these are in the that I have asked for is genuine,discreet,clean sexual fun with females or couples of any age with no pressure from I am not desperate asking for females/couples of any age it's just that I am married to a women who has no interest in sex at all and respect the company of women of any I have ever asked for is in return is honesty & I am no Brad Pitt but I have never said so just looking for no strings clean fun with consenting females.
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Alan
Mark and the mods are trying their best to weed out time-wasters and liars, and the like from the photo ads section. Obviously, we cannot detect them all, but we do try! If you are in doubt that a particular ad is "real" you can report it to us in the photo ads section and we will deal with it. I cannot say anything more really, other than ALL sites suffer from time-wasters but I certainly think SH is better than most at weeding them out.
Do keep trying - there are a lot of genuine people on this site, but if you are just looking for females the odds on any sex site are against you as there are less female than males advertising. Be polite, state what you want, and above all be honest, and one day you may get somewhere. Have a read of Heather's advice in the Advice section and maybe pick up some tips 8)
Mark and the mods are trying their best to weed out time-wasters and liars, and the like from the photo ads section. Obviously, we cannot detect them all, but we do try! If you are in doubt that a particular ad is "real" you can report it to us in the photo ads section and we will deal with it. I cannot say anything more really, other than ALL sites suffer from time-wasters but I certainly think SH is better than most at weeding them out.
Do keep trying - there are a lot of genuine people on this site, but if you are just looking for females the odds on any sex site are against you as there are less female than males advertising. Be polite, state what you want, and above all be honest, and one day you may get somewhere. Have a read of Heather's advice in the Advice section and maybe pick up some tips 8)
Thanks all of you for your support and I will try and not get too down Kat with regards to why I feel like I do it is because I have been let down by people who have said they will meet me and then when we have agreed a time and place have just not turned up and given no reason people have replied to my adverts telling me about themselves and then when I send them a PM in reply they just totally ignore thing I can guarantee is being genuine and honest and surely it is not unreasonable to ask the same in again I thank you for your replies and just have to keep on trying to find somebody who wants clean,discreet no strings fun.
Sexlightened
All you can do is keep trying really I use a few different forums and some are really cliquee but everyone who regularly posts on here has been really friendly and its a well run forum big up the mods 
Orgasminator
Quote by Alan
I have been let down by people who have said they will meet me and then when we have agreed a time and place have just not turned up and given no reason why.
Alan you think its bad for you.
See it from my side of the fence, I am a gay transvestite, the number of times I have got dressed up over the years and I have travelled many miles, just to sit in some very doggie places waiting for some one to turn up, is no joke.
I used to turn up a little before time watch all the cars pass by and all the guys pass by, no one turns up and they never apologise for not doing so.
So what I do now is to arrange to meet in a place of my choice, that way if they do not turn up I then have another plan that I can carry on with.
What ever your age, colour or gender is some one is going to stand you up at some point.
Sex God
Very true. Everyone gets stood up at some point, even girls 
If any member of this site does time-waste on a regular basis then PLEASE let us know about it, rather than having a general moan!! Then we can look at it and do something to sort it.
ALL the Mods (and the ever lovely Mark) have worked really hard in the last couple of weeks to clear out old ads, weird ads, multilple ads, illegal ads and nasy ads - now it's down to you lot.
ALL the Mods (and the ever lovely Mark) have worked really hard in the last couple of weeks to clear out old ads, weird ads, multilple ads, illegal ads and nasy ads - now it's down to you lot.
Sexlightened
Eveyone gets stood up sometimes I once drove to Southampton (If you look at where I live thats a long drive)only to get a no show think Ive had more stand ups than Johnny Vegas! 
I just dont let it get me down for every timewaster theres probably dozens of genuine people out there
I just dont let it get me down for every timewaster theres probably dozens of genuine people out there If any member of this site does time-waste on a regular basis then PLEASE let us know about it, rather than having a general moan!!But do remember - one no show does not a timewaster make. Some people really DO have accidents on the way to meets -
(Where is BikerGuy by the way? not seen him for a few days, hope he has not had another accident)
or simply bottle out and are too embarassed to say.
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Kat
Hi all Sandie here.
We have had this thread before.
We are in cyberspace people will always muck you about it is human
nature . You are Alan, asking for honesty and sincerity of people who are faceless and hiding behind computer terminals.
You want no strings sex with complete strangers, they owe you nothing and have no repsonsibility to you whatsoever.
Do not despair, just converse by this medium and try and try again and you may get lucky.
It is the nature of the internet that protects people who have no morals or manners.
If you are using this medium to find no strings sex then expect the unknown to produce dissapointments.
Just converse in the forums and see what happens there are some of us genuines out there you know.
Good luck relax and enjoy the site and do not expect too much and you will not be dissapointed.
Bye for now.
Sandie
We have had this thread before.
We are in cyberspace people will always muck you about it is human
nature . You are Alan, asking for honesty and sincerity of people who are faceless and hiding behind computer terminals.
You want no strings sex with complete strangers, they owe you nothing and have no repsonsibility to you whatsoever.
Do not despair, just converse by this medium and try and try again and you may get lucky.
It is the nature of the internet that protects people who have no morals or manners.
If you are using this medium to find no strings sex then expect the unknown to produce dissapointments.
Just converse in the forums and see what happens there are some of us genuines out there you know.
Good luck relax and enjoy the site and do not expect too much and you will not be dissapointed.
Bye for now.
Sandie
