Been on here every night for 2 weeks,chatted to many couples who have viewed my Profile,got on gr8 they are happy to meet> I give them my contact details then nothing.
This is a load of Bollocks
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Sex God
Have you bothered contacting them again? Did you put a time limit on when they had to contact you by?
Stuff does happen.
Stuff does happen. 
Sex God
Crikey Warrior, a full 2 weeks of trying and still no quick shag! That is just diabolical and I really do think that the couples you have contacted just should get round to your place and shag you silly, whether they find you attractive or not :shock:
On a more serious note, perhaps a more positive attitude and a bit more of an understanding that there are thousands more single males that there are couples looking for them could help. There is competition out there and what makes you the person the couples want to meet? There is nothing wrong with your profile but there is certainly nothing there to 'sell' you or make you stand out from the crowd.
Good luck with the search and be aware that there are loads of guys on here who do successfully meet couples and singles
On a more serious note, perhaps a more positive attitude and a bit more of an understanding that there are thousands more single males that there are couples looking for them could help. There is competition out there and what makes you the person the couples want to meet? There is nothing wrong with your profile but there is certainly nothing there to 'sell' you or make you stand out from the crowd.
Good luck with the search and be aware that there are loads of guys on here who do successfully meet couples and singles
Quote by WarriorMonk
Been on here every night for 2 weeks,chatted to many couples who have viewed my Profile,got on gr8 they are happy to meet> I give them my contact details then nothing.
This is a load of Bollocks
And the ladies are happy with the number of bollocks they get to choose from....
So are the bi and gay guys......
And the curious
Dont think I left anyone out....
The only one not happy is you
Reacher
Quote by WarriorMonk
Been on here every night for 2 weeks,chatted to many couples who have viewed my Profile,got on gr8 they are happy to meet> I give them my contact details then nothing.
This is a load of Bollocks
Then leave - you've posted here several times whining like a scolded dog but yet you still come back. If it's THAT bad it's simple, delete your account and go elsewhere for meets if you can find some place that works better than here.
Quote by BIoke
Been on here every night for 2 weeks,chatted to many couples who have viewed my Profile,got on gr8 they are happy to meet> I give them my contact details then nothing.
This is a load of Bollocks
Then leave - you've posted here several times whining like a scolded dog but yet you still come back. If it's THAT bad it's simple, delete your account and go elsewhere for meets if you can find some place that works better than here.
:thumbup:
Could not have agreed more
Sex God
Quote by WarriorMonk
Been on here every night for 2 weeks,chatted to many couples who have viewed my Profile,got on gr8 they are happy to meet> I give them my contact details then nothing.
This is a load of Bollocks
yeah, okay.... I have been thru almost 5 years of "bollocks" then.....
I won't tell you how long it took me to get my first meet because it was a lot longer than the whole 2 weeks you have been here... however i will say this..... lots of single men, not so many couples and even fewer single fems.
the upshot is that couples can be choosey.... that single fems can be choosey
If I was a couple/fem looking at meeting someone I'd do some research as well as maybe some back reading... and the whinge after whinge post isn't going to help.... heck, I'll go as far to say that it is probably turning one or two of the said people off...
I hate to be the bearer of bad news.... but swingers tend to be as choosey as everyone else, just because they may have a different attitude when it comes to sex, doesn't meant that they are any different to anyone else when it come to picking playmates.... and doesn't mean they will drop them for anyone....
To be honest... if that is your attitude, then you are not going to help yourself!
Sex God
Quote by fabio
yeah, okay.... I have been thru almost 5 years of "bollocks" then.....
Wey hey, you kept that quite, didnt know you was into bollocks as well
shall we share :twisted: Quote by BIoke
Been on here every night for 2 weeks,chatted to many couples who have viewed my Profile,got on gr8 they are happy to meet> I give them my contact details then nothing.
This is a load of Bollocks
Then leave - you've posted here several times whining like a scolded dog but yet you still come back. If it's THAT bad it's simple, delete your account and go elsewhere for meets if you can find some place that works better than here.
Couldn't have said it better BIoke :thumbup:
In the relatively short time that I've been a member here, I've had the good fortune to meet some really lovely people, and I'm glad to say that I've made a few great friends too
:DLike most things in life that are worthwhile doing though, it takes perseverance and patience before you start seeing results....
Sex God
I love this site. It isn't a shag-a-night place. It's got it's fair share of butt-heads. But it also has a bunch (the majority I reckon) decent, fun and interesting people. Lots of opportunity to get to know people - from brief contact to long-term aquaintence and friendship. Whether we get shags out of these is down to us and circumstances.
So I think it isn't a load of bollocks. I reckon it's the dog's bollocks.
PS. If there is a continuous lack of shags - perhaps the thing to do is explore the common factor?
So I think it isn't a load of bollocks. I reckon it's the dog's bollocks.
PS. If there is a continuous lack of shags - perhaps the thing to do is explore the common factor?
Well I have had plenty of fucks thank you. I have even kept a dairy of them.
1 February: Dirty Girly told me to fuck off
2 February: Kentswingers told me to fuck off (x7)
2 February: Alex (my partner) told me to fuck off
3 February: Bloke told me to fuck off
4 etc, etc
see, even I can get a fuck
:doh: :doh: :doh:
Ohhhhh you meant the other kind
Well I get none of that
Dave_Notts
1 February: Dirty Girly told me to fuck off
2 February: Kentswingers told me to fuck off (x7)
2 February: Alex (my partner) told me to fuck off
3 February: Bloke told me to fuck off
4 etc, etc
see, even I can get a fuck
:doh: :doh: :doh:
Ohhhhh you meant the other kind
Well I get none of that
Dave_Notts
Casanova
Warrior, can I ask have you had much luck on others sites?
Is it the site you have a problem with or is it the swinging scene in general?
From personal experience all I can say is that I have been very lucky in having met some amazing people on this site and for me the world would be a duller play without Swinging Heaven
Is it the site you have a problem with or is it the swinging scene in general?
From personal experience all I can say is that I have been very lucky in having met some amazing people on this site and for me the world would be a duller play without Swinging Heaven
1,025,407 members can't be wrong! :thumbup: :grin:
Seriously though, as far as I'm aware the site doesn't advertise anywhere, but there's a steady stream of new members and a fair contingent of long-standing members. There must be some element of word of mouth/reputation that brings people here, and a level of satisfaction that keeps them coming back?
Seriously though, as far as I'm aware the site doesn't advertise anywhere, but there's a steady stream of new members and a fair contingent of long-standing members. There must be some element of word of mouth/reputation that brings people here, and a level of satisfaction that keeps them coming back?
Quote by flower411
1,025,407 members can't be wrong! :thumbup: :grin:
Seriously though, as far as I'm aware the site doesn't advertise anywhere, but there's a steady stream of new members and a fair contingent of long-standing members. There must be some element of word of mouth/reputation that brings people here, and a level of satisfaction that keeps them coming back?
Yeah
Seriously !! When you are on the first page when googling "swinging" and top of the list when googling "dogging" I don`t think you have to do a lot of other advertising !!
There ya go... reputation!
Quote by Dave__Notts5 May: trav told me to fuck off
Well I have had plenty of fucks thank you. I have even kept a dairy of them.
1 February: Dirty Girly told me to fuck off
2 February: Kentswingers told me to fuck off (x7)
2 February: Alex (my partner) told me to fuck off
3 February: Bloke told me to fuck off
4 etc, etc
see, even I can get a fuck
:doh: :doh: :doh:
Ohhhhh you meant the other kind
Well I get none of that
Dave_Notts
tongue in cheek dave _notts
trav.....
Sex God
Quote by Dave__Notts
Well I have had plenty of fucks thank you. I have even kept a dairy of them.
1 February: Dirty Girly told me to fuck off
2 February: Kentswingers told me to fuck off (x7)
2 February: Alex (my partner) told me to fuck off
3 February: Bloke told me to fuck off
4 etc, etc
see, even I can get a fuck
:doh: :doh: :doh:
Ohhhhh you meant the other kind
Well I get none of that
Dave_Notts
At last!! :inlove:
I've waited such a long time to make it to number one on someone's list! :giggle:
Thanks Dave!
Quote by travlinmanukok5 May: trav told me to fuck off
Well I have had plenty of fucks thank you. I have even kept a dairy of them.
1 February: Dirty Girly told me to fuck off
2 February: Kentswingers told me to fuck off (x7)
2 February: Alex (my partner) told me to fuck off
3 February: Bloke told me to fuck off
4 etc, etc
see, even I can get a fuck
:doh: :doh: :doh:
Ohhhhh you meant the other kind
Well I get none of that
Dave_Notts
tongue in cheek dave _notts
trav.....
I had another 276 between the 4th February and the 5th May
Dave_Notts
Quote by BIoke
Been on here every night for 2 weeks,chatted to many couples who have viewed my Profile,got on gr8 they are happy to meet> I give them my contact details then nothing.
This is a load of Bollocks
Then leave - you've posted here several times whining like a scolded dog but yet you still come back. If it's THAT bad it's simple, delete your account and go elsewhere for meets if you can find some place that works better than here.
Well that reply made me chuckle but....agree with every word.
Two weeks without a meet? We are a couple that have trouble finding a reliable guy. What chance do you have of finding a reliable couple? Less chance than we do I reckon.
Quote by Dirtygirly
Well I have had plenty of fucks thank you. I have even kept a dairy of them.
1 February: Dirty Girly told me to fuck off
2 February: Kentswingers told me to fuck off (x7)
2 February: Alex (my partner) told me to fuck off
3 February: Bloke told me to fuck off
4 etc, etc
see, even I can get a fuck
:doh: :doh: :doh:
Ohhhhh you meant the other kind
Well I get none of that
Dave_Notts
At last!! :inlove:
I've waited such a long time to make it to number one on someone's list! :giggle:
Thanks Dave!
My pleasure.
I only started to document them from that date onwards though :lol:
Dave_Notts
Sex God
Quote by BIoke
Been on here every night for 2 weeks,chatted to many couples who have viewed my Profile,got on gr8 they are happy to meet> I give them my contact details then nothing.
This is a load of Bollocks
Then leave - you've posted here several times whining like a scolded dog but yet you still come back. If it's THAT bad it's simple, delete your account and go elsewhere for meets if you can find some place that works better than here.
Spot on Bloke. :thumbup:
And Warrior, didn't you have a different username and moan under that one as well? Your posting style is very familiar, as is your profile and pictures.
Sex God
Quote by BIoke
And Warrior, didn't you have a different username and moan under that one as well? Your posting style is very familiar, as is your profile and pictures.
Yes, he did
Yes, he did - Scorpio 1950. Frequently complained. :roll:
Sex God
Quote by Freckledbird
And Warrior, didn't you have a different username and moan under that one as well? Your posting style is very familiar, as is your profile and pictures.
Yes, he did
Yes, he did - Scorpio 1950. Frequently complained. :roll:
That'd make him nearly 60 then!! :shock: :shock:
.
Sex God
Quote by westerross
And Warrior, didn't you have a different username and moan under that one as well? Your posting style is very familiar, as is your profile and pictures.
Yes, he did
Yes, he did - Scorpio 1950. Frequently complained. :roll:
That'd make him nearly 60 then!! :shock: :shock:
.
Goodness me, is anyone that old?
Sex God
I hate it when people changed there name and still make the same complaints.. I feel like I have been deceived and if I had known I really would not have bothered!
So I went back thru all the posts and makes for some interesting back-reading....
I wouldn't mind so much but warriormonk/scorpio1950 makes the same complaint on average every couple of months with begs the next couple of questions...
Is he actually listening to any of the advice that people took the time to actually give.....or is it a case of "in one ear and out the other"?
As bioke actually said.. if the site is so bad, then why stay? cause to be honest the constant complaints aren't doing you any favours...
The broken record/oh woe is me act has worn really thin and I am actually really annoyed now... I was going to post up everytime you had asked the same thing and whinged, but just couldn't be arsed wasting that type of effort on someone who seems in 3 years to have not listened at all
for someone who has reached the half century i think it is almost rather immature of you......
if couples took the time to read what I have just done, to be honest I am not surprised at all they don't get back to you
I am betting you don't come back to this thread... and I am sure it will be locked now and I'll have my hands slapped... but I had to get it off my chest...
So I went back thru all the posts and makes for some interesting back-reading....
I wouldn't mind so much but warriormonk/scorpio1950 makes the same complaint on average every couple of months with begs the next couple of questions...
Is he actually listening to any of the advice that people took the time to actually give.....or is it a case of "in one ear and out the other"?
As bioke actually said.. if the site is so bad, then why stay? cause to be honest the constant complaints aren't doing you any favours...
The broken record/oh woe is me act has worn really thin and I am actually really annoyed now... I was going to post up everytime you had asked the same thing and whinged, but just couldn't be arsed wasting that type of effort on someone who seems in 3 years to have not listened at all
for someone who has reached the half century i think it is almost rather immature of you......
if couples took the time to read what I have just done, to be honest I am not surprised at all they don't get back to you
I am betting you don't come back to this thread... and I am sure it will be locked now and I'll have my hands slapped... but I had to get it off my chest...
Master of Sex
Their is something in Law called ''Fair Comment''and I have made these comments like anyone else is entitled to ,(free speech and all that).Suddenly the pack of Wolves descend and ravage me for what is Fair comment from many single guys on the site What I am saying is u e mail someone giving them your detais and they say gr8 like your profile,we chat for a few days, lets meet, date and time arranged on moble, hotel booked,and bang No show on the day, no sorry etc
or response.
I am just an ordinary guy,who is genuine,and who is a gentleman,respectful and considerate of others.
or response.
I am just an ordinary guy,who is genuine,and who is a gentleman,respectful and considerate of others.
