Having enjoyed two long-term 3-somes with friendly couples, I often wonder just how the woman feels...does she just play along to satisfy the partner, or do the ladies really enjoy the full-blown sex with a second man? What are the danger areas? It would be good to hear the female view!
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Quote by Ally_n_look
condoms always.
Ok then Ill bring along a femadom for you then Ally shall I?
:lol: I can only give my view (Clyde) as Bonnie leaves most of the SH stuff to me unless she's feeling the world deserves some boobie on cam lol.
I know your looking for a womans view but my opinion is based on good open honesty and converstaion with Bonnie that we both can say what we feel when in conversation about this lifestyle.
I love to see Bonnie enjoying herself, the look on her face when she's in a mmf threesome and the reliving it afterwards when it's just us two. I'm not at all worried if the guy is bigger in the willy department than me or fitter than me. It's me she loves and I'm one of the lucky people who knows without reassurance he's loved. We just think that sex is sex love is love and the two are not exclusive to each other.
Our only rules are if one of us has a doubt then we simply don't do it. We haven't been in an ffm situation and sometimes I think that bothers Bonnie that I'll want to push in that direction but if it happens then hey great if not it aint the end of the world I have a great girl who knows how I like things already.
What I'm saying is have a few rules or boundaries that make it easy not to do something and make sure both partners can say no I don't want to do that. If you do this then nobody will be doing anything just for there other half. Talk about any plans make sure it's something you both want. If your partner doesn't want something and you feel massively let down by it then it's not a good idea in anycase and you need to step back and re-evalutate things.
Just my opinion but this works for us and I know I don't have to worry about how she's feeling about things as I know she'll tell me before it gets to a worrying stage.
I know your looking for a womans view but my opinion is based on good open honesty and converstaion with Bonnie that we both can say what we feel when in conversation about this lifestyle.
I love to see Bonnie enjoying herself, the look on her face when she's in a mmf threesome and the reliving it afterwards when it's just us two. I'm not at all worried if the guy is bigger in the willy department than me or fitter than me. It's me she loves and I'm one of the lucky people who knows without reassurance he's loved. We just think that sex is sex love is love and the two are not exclusive to each other.
Our only rules are if one of us has a doubt then we simply don't do it. We haven't been in an ffm situation and sometimes I think that bothers Bonnie that I'll want to push in that direction but if it happens then hey great if not it aint the end of the world I have a great girl who knows how I like things already.
What I'm saying is have a few rules or boundaries that make it easy not to do something and make sure both partners can say no I don't want to do that. If you do this then nobody will be doing anything just for there other half. Talk about any plans make sure it's something you both want. If your partner doesn't want something and you feel massively let down by it then it's not a good idea in anycase and you need to step back and re-evalutate things.
Just my opinion but this works for us and I know I don't have to worry about how she's feeling about things as I know she'll tell me before it gets to a worrying stage.
Sex God
I love them. MMF threesomes rock!
Orgasminator
I am facing this problem... we want to swing but in my mind swinging involves him and another (or more) man whereas he would love a MFF situation. We had a 'soft' swing experience with another couple recently (and I use the word soft in quotation marks because I am not too sure what is what) and it was fine - probably because no one felt left out. I am scared of how I'd feel in the presence of another female. I don't think I am confident enough to go through that. But I am certain I would enjoy having two men all to myself! Selfish, or what :P
Master of Sex
MMF is 'our thing' ... neither myself nor pom are in the slightest bit interested in a FFM. So I get to be the centre of attention - lucky me!! 
Casanova
As part of a female couple... I like to do things I don't do at home which would then mainly involve men :grin: Buxom is a vouyer only so does not take part physically. And although Ive been in fantasy situations similar to gang bangs (one man then another) Ive never actually had 2 men to myself at the same time :cry: I'd soooo love it as well :grin: The thought excites me big time but trying to find 2 guys whom I fancy AND who fancy me (Im a BBW) who can also relax in each others company hasn't yet happenned 
Ive had a few good experiences FFM but I will only participate if the guy is allowed full freedom with me ie No "can I kiss, can I touch, feel, fuck" its what I miss at home.. (so all big, broad, handsome hunks.. please apply within )
Minxie :rascal: xx
Ive had a few good experiences FFM but I will only participate if the guy is allowed full freedom with me ie No "can I kiss, can I touch, feel, fuck" its what I miss at home.. (so all big, broad, handsome hunks.. please apply within )Minxie :rascal: xx
MMF & MMMF meets have and do work best with 3-4 unattached (to one another) people, for me. I've done them with people in a relationship and the only one's that have really worked with no 'crap' are MMM 3-somes. Maybe it's a M/F + emotions thing and the fact that we're all wired differently? 
IN EDIT: Oops, sorry, must read the thread title.. properly!
IN EDIT: Oops, sorry, must read the thread title.. properly!
