When your having sex does your perception of time change? If it seems like you go for a short itme is that likley u do or just how it seems?
Is it normal to requrie alot of stimulation to get up so to speak? i seem to require alot of stimulation in sex and sometimes I wander if that effects my lasting time in the actual event. Is there any way to maintin and last longer?
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Time perception and possible paronia
Quote by VenusnMars
For us it seems to last a long time, and then we look at the clock and realise we haven`t been at it for very long at all.......
Its reverse for us, we can be 'at it' for 2 hours and it feels like minutes. We are always saying we need to start earlier in the evening cos we look at the clock and its 3 am. Funny how I can manage on 4 hours sleep often
Dawn :silly:
I read that in a magazine in their health and sex section, there were some other facts there aswell but I can't remember them at mo.
I spoke to the lady in question yesterday and she said she was more then satisffied with my performance, she loved it and and though ti was great and the next guy is gonna have to go a long way to beat me so I'm very pleased
Hi mark!
I spoke to the lady in question yesterday and she said she was more then satisffied with my performance, she loved it and and though ti was great and the next guy is gonna have to go a long way to beat me so I'm very pleased
Hi mark!
Quote by Archangel
I read that in a magazine in their health and sex section, there were some other facts there aswell but I can't remember them at mo!
Oh you read it in a mag
Did they print anything to support their 2 minute claim?
Had they done a study or just asked a few women that worked in the offices of the print factory?
Maybe they didn't need to, after all, everything you read in magazines is true..........isn't it
: Dawn :silly:
archangel don't worry about the time spent,the person that you were with seemed happy enough so don't worry. I've had lots of passionate quickies that've blown my mind,and have once (didn't repeat the mistake) been with a guy who thought he was Sting and went on for to say that i've had more fun playing with Lego and felt like someone had rubbed my insides with sandpaper 
So i'm a chick who likes her fucks fast and furious x
So i'm a chick who likes her fucks fast and furious x just on a further update of the time lasting facts, I read again somewhere that its 3-4 mintues so a little extra but not much.
Awww daffidol. Well I think she was pleased, too bad she is become a bit of an evil bitch :shock:
but still the chance of more fun with her.
Its kinda hard to judge what a girl wants though coz I and most other guys have been told women want longer sessions and not ur qucik mintute or so men though owmen seem fine with quickeies all the time and if that is the average for a guy I guess it can't be helped. Still I'd like to think I could go for more then that and whole sex session certainly wouldn't be for 2 minutes.
its such a hard thing you know, I mean most guys don't care about pleasing a girl, only there own pleasure and then expect her to say it was great. Whereas I am concerned about her first and making sure she loves it, I forget about me and sometimes think i concentrate too hard and so lose the edge for the whole fuck experiance.
Awww daffidol. Well I think she was pleased, too bad she is become a bit of an evil bitch :shock:
but still the chance of more fun with her.Its kinda hard to judge what a girl wants though coz I and most other guys have been told women want longer sessions and not ur qucik mintute or so men though owmen seem fine with quickeies all the time and if that is the average for a guy I guess it can't be helped. Still I'd like to think I could go for more then that and whole sex session certainly wouldn't be for 2 minutes.
its such a hard thing you know, I mean most guys don't care about pleasing a girl, only there own pleasure and then expect her to say it was great. Whereas I am concerned about her first and making sure she loves it, I forget about me and sometimes think i concentrate too hard and so lose the edge for the whole fuck experiance.
Sex God
Just thought I'd add my two penn'orth to this little debate.
Im my own humble opinion, I think men sometimes get the wrong end of the stick (so to speak lol) when it comes to this subject. If I ended up with a Sting-type bloke I'm sure I'd be in agony by the end of it, but I don't want the "Wham-bam, thank you Ma'am" either.
Actual intercourse doesnt need to last a long time. It CAN become downright painful if it goes on for too long, and the majority of my orgasms are gained not from intercourse but from manual or oral stimulation. The foreplay is the most important part of the experience for me personally. Lots of touching and kissing and licking, perhaps an orgasm or two, and I see intercourse as almost the dessert after the build up.
Yes, there aer definitely times when a quickie is in order, and at those times, a good fast hard fuck is the only thing that will suffice, but I'd rather spend ages on all the other stuff most of the time.
In conclusion, if the whole sexual act always took around 2-4 minutes, I'd be seriously pissed off, but if the foreplay lasted a decent length of time and then the actual intercourse took 2-4 minutes, I'd be a happy little Angel :twisted:
Im my own humble opinion, I think men sometimes get the wrong end of the stick (so to speak lol) when it comes to this subject. If I ended up with a Sting-type bloke I'm sure I'd be in agony by the end of it, but I don't want the "Wham-bam, thank you Ma'am" either.
Actual intercourse doesnt need to last a long time. It CAN become downright painful if it goes on for too long, and the majority of my orgasms are gained not from intercourse but from manual or oral stimulation. The foreplay is the most important part of the experience for me personally. Lots of touching and kissing and licking, perhaps an orgasm or two, and I see intercourse as almost the dessert after the build up.
Yes, there aer definitely times when a quickie is in order, and at those times, a good fast hard fuck is the only thing that will suffice, but I'd rather spend ages on all the other stuff most of the time.
In conclusion, if the whole sexual act always took around 2-4 minutes, I'd be seriously pissed off, but if the foreplay lasted a decent length of time and then the actual intercourse took 2-4 minutes, I'd be a happy little Angel :twisted:
you know all this crap that's printed in "women's mags" really piss me off,they claim to reveal what women when you actually look at the sample it's at most 10 women,that hardly speaks for the rest of us in the world.
And another thing in our post feminist society,why is it ok for a man to be expected to sacrifice his orgasm for the sake of his partners?Whatever happened to equality?Women craved it but for the price that men are deemed secondary in things.I know that women wanted to address the issue of balance that had been denied them but this is mad. :x :x :x
Fellas there are some women out there who like for a man to open doors,give a girl their coat if it's cold etc and i don't mind if i don't orgasm at every session,just have fun!!!
there i feel better now :D 
And another thing in our post feminist society,why is it ok for a man to be expected to sacrifice his orgasm for the sake of his partners?Whatever happened to equality?Women craved it but for the price that men are deemed secondary in things.I know that women wanted to address the issue of balance that had been denied them but this is mad.
:x :x :x Fellas there are some women out there who like for a man to open doors,give a girl their coat if it's cold etc and i don't mind if i don't orgasm at every session,just have fun!!!
there i feel better now
:D wow, well I guess it is a comfort to know most women aren't expecting marathon sessions of the main event lol.
I have and always will be a guy that indulges and loves foreplay and oral on the woman, making sure she enjoys herself with no proper sex session with me lasting only a few mintutes.
kinda hard to tell when they want the quick bang tho???????
I have and always will be a guy that indulges and loves foreplay and oral on the woman, making sure she enjoys herself with no proper sex session with me lasting only a few mintutes.
kinda hard to tell when they want the quick bang tho???????
Sex God
As long as everyone concerned enjoys it, what does time matter?
Says Blue who thinks that life is too short and who has the desire to do everything yesterday.....rush, rush, rush..... this caffeine bomb is about to explode....... :eeek: :eeek: :eeek:
Says Blue who thinks that life is too short and who has the desire to do everything yesterday.....rush, rush, rush..... this caffeine bomb is about to explode....... :eeek: :eeek: :eeek:
