well i hate to admit it,
but as much as i've had fun in both the chatroom, and reading all the posts in the forum, the atmosphere within the site is going down hill.
its sad to think that people leave and/or fall out in what is supposed to be a fun site, where we can all interact and have fun, however of late it seems to be the opposite.
to the many people i have met, i wish you all the very best.
to the people i've bantered with in the chatroom, thankyou for the countless hours of fun i enjoyed, and just hope i did not offend anyone too much, for those that do know me know i'm not the evil twat i appear to be in the room.
best wishes to all, take care and goodbye ....
lee xx
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It occurs to me that people saying the atmosphere is going downhill probably doesn't do much to lift the atmosphere.
Maybe the only thing wrong with the atmosphere is people complaining about it?
This site is what we all make it, and that includes you. Blaming other people is missing the point I think.
I'm having a ball.
I'm staying put
Maybe the only thing wrong with the atmosphere is people complaining about it?
This site is what we all make it, and that includes you. Blaming other people is missing the point I think.
I'm having a ball.
I'm staying put
Sex God
Quote by redstilletto
if one more person says there leaveing i swear i'll scream
I'm......
hehehehe
Good for u ice
Ok I never did a "hello" thing but have been coming on the forum for a little while, have read lots of posts & spent many hours in here but still feel like an outsider. ok i havent got the best wit in the world & so dont post replys for fear of being dull but when i do post its like a thread killer
Ok I never did a "hello" thing but have been coming on the forum for a little while, have read lots of posts & spent many hours in here but still feel like an outsider. ok i havent got the best wit in the world & so dont post replys for fear of being dull but when i do post its like a thread killer
Sex God
Quote by Ice Pie
if one more person says there leaveing i swear i'll scream
I'm......
Quote by redstilletto
ice pie you dare
:taz:
...lea....
....ding with my chin? :lol2:
Sex God
Quote by lilacgem
Good for u ice
Ok I never did a "hello" thing but have been coming on the forum for a little while, have read lots of posts & spent many hours in here but still feel like an outsider. ok i havent got the best wit in the world & so dont post replys for fear of being dull but when i do post its like a thread killer
You never did a hello thing?
Well there's no time like the present.
Go for it :D
Sex God
Quote by Vix
I'm........lea........ding with my chin? :lol2:
I thought that was your nose.
Well they're kinda merged. It's an evolutionary response to the need to perform cunning linguistics while the car's still moving.
(Don't try this at home folks.)
Quote by Ice Pie
It occurs to me that people saying the atmosphere is going downhill probably doesn't do much to lift the atmosphere.
Maybe the only thing wrong with the atmosphere is people complaining about it?
This site is what we all make it, and that includes you. Blaming other people is missing the point I think.
I'm having a ball.
I'm staying put
have to agree with you there Ice
I love the site ........... :grin:
and I've met some luverley people at munches n parties ..... :rascal:
I ain't goin anywhere :bounce: :bounce:
Lucy
Orgasminator
Well i,m having a ball , i love posting on here and talking in the chatroom, we,ve just started to go to the clubs 
:lol: and there,s still lots to do !!!! and weve still gotto meet everyone in person yet :lol: hope to do that before i get to 100 :lol:
:lol: and there,s still lots to do !!!! and weve still gotto meet everyone in person yet :lol: hope to do that before i get to 100 :lol: 
Sex God
Quote by Vix
I don't geddit. I just think this place rocks. Actually, maybe that's because I do geddit.
yep ...same here
:thumbup:
Sex God
awww flirty :therethere:
unfortunately no...... but the site will go on and hopefully many of them will be unable to stay away for too long. We just have to make it the mental fun place it always was to entice them back in the doors again! :grin: :twisted:
unfortunately no...... but the site will go on and hopefully many of them will be unable to stay away for too long. We just have to make it the mental fun place it always was to entice them back in the doors again! :grin: :twisted:
In reply to Little Gem's typically thoughtful post - I've mostly had loads of fun on here in recent weks and many of you have helped me through a difficult time not that you knew that.
I have had my moments of doubt and get very concerned about putting my foot in it or offending you post or PM you have to take risks but as long as there's no deliberate malice intended I think its fine as long as things can be cleared up between whoever!
The thing that hasn't happened to me yet is actually meeting some of you - I nearly did on Saturday but had practical and personal reasons why I couldn't make the munch.
I realise meeting can lead to everything or nothing - or something in between.
We are flawed human beings so I imagine theres all kinds of consequences to all this,some good,some..not so good.
I see no evidence that its going downhill here.
In fact to give you an amazing example - many members of the board have PM'd me to say they won't have sex while I'm online as they know that means I'm all alone at my PC - it concerns them that I'm being left out so they don't do it while I am on here reading and what Swinging Heaven is all about - nobody on the forum having sex until I go offline.
Now I know that that sounds egotistical but at least this new Flirty Fruitcake forum name has humbled me a I was posting as Swinging Heaven it kind of went to my head,everything and everybody seemed to revolve around me.
Thank God all thats behind me now.
I have had my moments of doubt and get very concerned about putting my foot in it or offending you post or PM you have to take risks but as long as there's no deliberate malice intended I think its fine as long as things can be cleared up between whoever!
The thing that hasn't happened to me yet is actually meeting some of you - I nearly did on Saturday but had practical and personal reasons why I couldn't make the munch.
I realise meeting can lead to everything or nothing - or something in between.
We are flawed human beings so I imagine theres all kinds of consequences to all this,some good,some..not so good.
I see no evidence that its going downhill here.
In fact to give you an amazing example - many members of the board have PM'd me to say they won't have sex while I'm online as they know that means I'm all alone at my PC - it concerns them that I'm being left out so they don't do it while I am on here reading and what Swinging Heaven is all about - nobody on the forum having sex until I go offline.
Now I know that that sounds egotistical but at least this new Flirty Fruitcake forum name has humbled me a I was posting as Swinging Heaven it kind of went to my head,everything and everybody seemed to revolve around me.
Thank God all thats behind me now.
just like to say we love this chatroom and the ppl in it .have met many nice ppl that use it and i'm sure we will meet many more but if ppl start moaning about the ppl who are trying to spoil it then all that will do is bring the room is a fun and an exciting adittion to ours and many other ppls lives and we wont let the sad feckers out there spoil our fun 
.we are here to stay :cheers:
.have met many nice ppl that use it and i'm sure we will meet many more but if ppl start moaning about the ppl who are trying to spoil it then all that will do is bring the room is a fun and an exciting adittion to ours and many other ppls lives and we wont let the sad feckers out there spoil our fun .we are here to stay :cheers: 1st post on the forum here but i could nt let u both go without saying bye...sorry to hear you re both leaving us Lee m8. I ll miss your banter in the room. good luck to u both in the future...hope u achieve all you set out to do..call in and see us all...we ll still be here lol....PS...i never did get that shag u promised me Den for letting u jump the Q to get served at the NW. munch lol......love n best wishes for the future hun ...Ken xxxxx
Sex God
we too love it in here even tho weve only been here for two many people have chatted to us much but thats probebly cos were new and not too sure of us takes time to get to know n trust newbies i suppose,but we love the interaction,banter and witt we see and read between the more long term and regular "posters" of this aint leavin ,its too entertaining in here :lol: :lol: :lol:
:lol: :lol: :lol: Hiyas,
Sorry to hear you to are leaving Lee. xx
To confirm what others have said.............................................
I regularly use the chatroon and have always found it great fun. xx
There are always the days when there are several people spoilimg it for others but on the whole it is most enjoyable. xx
I spend long hours on my own during the day through no fault of my own. xx
I find its great to chat to people and catch up with old friends etc. xx
It, in my opinion prevents me from going completely insane. xx lol xx
I wholehearted agree with IcePie................... this site as a whole is what everyone makes it to be. xx
Please lets look for POSITIVES in here instead of the negativity we are experiencing at the moment. xx
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Sorry to hear you to are leaving Lee. xx
To confirm what others have said.............................................
I regularly use the chatroon and have always found it great fun. xx
There are always the days when there are several people spoilimg it for others but on the whole it is most enjoyable. xx
I spend long hours on my own during the day through no fault of my own. xx
I find its great to chat to people and catch up with old friends etc. xx
It, in my opinion prevents me from going completely insane. xx lol xx
I wholehearted agree with IcePie................... this site as a whole is what everyone makes it to be. xx
Please lets look for POSITIVES in here instead of the negativity we are experiencing at the moment. xx
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Sex God
Its a real shame to see you go mate you and Den are a top couple and we love you both, take care of yourselves.
Molly & Chris
xx
Molly & Chris
xx
well just poped back for the last time to clear my profile etc, and had a look at whats been said.
As far as i'm aware ( having re-read what i originaly put) what i stated last night, was that the atmosphere had gone down hill, at no point did i moan about the people or anything else, and for that and other personal reasons i was leaving, or is it my imagination i thanked everyone for all the fun i'd had ????
However judy-tv, your comments about 'not putting in to the site' once again show that you have no fecking idea what your talking about, but are obviously in love with the sound of your own annoying voice. for your information, i did up until last night, spend at least 6 hours a night, usually every night may i add, in both the forum and the chatroom, which people that did know me ( which you obviously did'nt by you idiotic comments ) know all to well.
however judy-tv i can thank you for one thing, all the self praising comments and opinions you've so far entered have cured my insomnia and proved my point that some people within this site drag it down with all the mis-informed bullshit they feel a need to preach to everyone else. But hey chuck, if it makes you look and feel good who cares about the truth when you can just jump on the bandwagon and score a few points.
finally yours Lee xx
As far as i'm aware ( having re-read what i originaly put) what i stated last night, was that the atmosphere had gone down hill, at no point did i moan about the people or anything else, and for that and other personal reasons i was leaving, or is it my imagination i thanked everyone for all the fun i'd had ????
However judy-tv, your comments about 'not putting in to the site' once again show that you have no fecking idea what your talking about, but are obviously in love with the sound of your own annoying voice. for your information, i did up until last night, spend at least 6 hours a night, usually every night may i add, in both the forum and the chatroom, which people that did know me ( which you obviously did'nt by you idiotic comments ) know all to well.
however judy-tv i can thank you for one thing, all the self praising comments and opinions you've so far entered have cured my insomnia and proved my point that some people within this site drag it down with all the mis-informed bullshit they feel a need to preach to everyone else. But hey chuck, if it makes you look and feel good who cares about the truth when you can just jump on the bandwagon and score a few points.
finally yours Lee xx
To tell you the truth cheshire2-lee I joined this site shortly before you and I don't know who you are! Maybe you spent more time in the chatroom and less in the forum. Judy made a general comment (she did not name names) as there have been a number of people leaving and not specificly aimed at you personally. Judy is spot on however in her observations and your last post just perfectly illustrates those points she raised about those who moan about the site and expect others to give a toss. Thank you!
LC
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